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What do cuckold men get out of it?
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"Dont really get it if they dont get to shoot their load whats in it for them?  "
Seeing the wife pleasured by others, the mind games and also the humilition its a kink and usually they,ll have great sex after |
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Humiliation, mind games, orgasm denial, some of them like the feeling of pain in their balls when they arent allowed to cum for a period of time....
For others pleasuring and pleasing someone else, and seeing them pleased is more important than their own release.
It also enhances the female's Domme status in the relationship, or it can do if this is part of the scenario.
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i know i love going down on her afterward, and how her stretched pussy feels around my cock while she tells me how much bigger/better he was than me, i like it when she wont let me have sex with her for days before her meet. etc |
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so Friday night in Chams the Mrs played with a BBC for the first time.
I watched as "the beast" and - im only an average guy, but this thing was HUGE - fucked my wife.
Now - im happy to watch, I liked the look on her face, she had a great time, I enjoyed knowing that she had a great time and I got sucked while she got fucked.
Its something different isnt it - different cock, different feel, fucked in a different way.
Over the years - we have only played with girls - then couples, and now a huge weapon! |
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Also the times I've been lucky enough to have a cream pie, it's like a primevil urge to try and suck out as much of my wife's lovers cum as i can! before she concieves i assume lol! |
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Cuckolding is largely a humiliation fetish - i.e. the sexual gratification comes from the denial and degridation. As opposed to similar swinger sub-fetishes like hotwives.
A cuckold's reaction to his wife being fucked is "a real man is fucking my wife, I'm a useless excuse for a man and I'll have to lick her clean". As opposed to "some guy is fucking my wife, I'll be sure to give her one myself when she gets home" |
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"Dont really get it if they dont get to shoot their load whats in it for them?
Seeing the wife pleasured by others, the mind games and also the humilition its a kink and usually they,ll have great sex after "
yup lol 
i wanted to try this for ages,so when it happened i was sat there with a hard on thought out,..but couldnt reisit so had to join in lol
and had sex when we got home too |
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As has been mentioned, do some research. Not just porn stories, there's a ton on the web, just need to dig around. Not all couples are into the degradation and humiliation, but some love it.
I think one thing that most cucks can agree upon is that it's the female's pleasure that comes first for them. How that manifests itself is perhaps where they differ.
If its not for you then fair enough. But I'm sure they won't sleep over it if you don't. |
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"Not all couples are into the degradation and humiliation, but some love it.
I think one thing that most cucks can agree upon is that it's the female's pleasure that comes first for them. How that manifests itself is perhaps where they differ.
If its not for you then fair enough. But I'm sure they won't sleep over it if you don't. "
We have been together 8 years - so many times we have played with girls - ive had great fun!
But - I must admit - a BBC can do things I cant 
I dont feel "bad" about that or ashamed, just realities of life.
I enjoyed knowing it was something different for her and she enjoyed it |
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"Dont really get it if they dont get to shoot their load whats in it for them?
So what? I don't think they're losing sleep over you not getting it - horses for courses! Z"
I really don't see why on earth you had to comment at all if you wasn't going to answer the question. It just comes across as a bitch answer reading it.  |
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"Dont really get it if they dont get to shoot their load whats in it for them? "
A lot of it is down to the cuck wanting to be humbled, possibly humiliated but also in other cases men just like to see their wife having pleasure and do not have to have sexual contact themselves to be happy. |
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"Dont really get it if they dont get to shoot their load whats in it for them?
So what? I don't think they're losing sleep over you not getting it - horses for courses! Z
I really don't see why on earth you had to comment at all if you wasn't going to answer the question. It just comes across as a bitch answer reading it. "
I was just saying that just because he doesn't get it he shouldn't dis it which is how his post came across |
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"Dont really get it if they dont get to shoot their load whats in it for them?
So what? I don't think they're losing sleep over you not getting it - horses for courses! Z
I really don't see why on earth you had to comment at all if you wasn't going to answer the question. It just comes across as a bitch answer reading it.
I was just saying that just because he doesn't get it he shouldn't dis it which is how his post came across"
I find that hard to believe, you could have ignored rather than belittle. Obviously you viewed as dissing it as you put it and took offence maybe everyone asking a question shouldn't be allowed if its dissing it ehh? Or there and again you could have streached your intellect and given a constructive reply. |
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"i thought the whole idea behind it was humiliation. but they get off on that"
Not for us. It was something we tried and we both hated. Tease yes, denial and endless stroking, watching and clean ups, all good for us. But the degrading chat and humilation was not our bag. But stress - thats just us. We certainly don't judge others that do, each to their own x |
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"Dont really get it if they dont get to shoot their load whats in it for them? "
Sometimes the way a question is phrased can say so much about the posters attitude to swinging. 
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We arent a couple into cucking really but we have played around the edges of it and I guess the pleasure from it comes from the denial mixed in with the pleasure of watching your other half be pleasured! Don't think its much more complex than that |
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"i thought the whole idea behind it was humiliation. but they get off on that
Not for us. It was something we tried and we both hated. Tease yes, denial and endless stroking, watching and clean ups, all good for us. But the degrading chat and humilation was not our bag. But stress - thats just us. We certainly don't judge others that do, each to their own x"
There's far more couples that are like this than the standard, male maid, porn version.
For me, cuckolding is about having the relationship led by the female, if she chooses to take lovers etc it's up to her.
For tag hubby it,s about her pleasure not his, it takes special kind of men that are able to practice it and understand that sex can be much more than about him 'shooting his load' every time. |
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From my experience as being the other man.....
It was all about the flirting, teasing and pleasuring whilst he watched on.......no humiliation and always invted to join in but choose to watch and or wait outside dependent on her choice. |
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Ok I have a coworker that I have sex with she let's me cum in her pussy then she goes home to her husband she says she is really turned on by the fact that her husband is eating and sucking her pussy that another man has cum in she says he doesn't know and she just tells him she us very horny and wet |
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"There's no humiliation when it comes to our case,I just love wife being fucked by other guys while I watch ,its just like being on a porn set,and wife in staring role she also gets very wet and its great to fuck her after
This isn't cuckolding its just sharing your wife, which is just as horny "
That is us, I like to watch D being pleasured but there is no humiliation/ shame involved as she often sucks me whilst being f**ked and me and the guy take it in turns with her. Indeed it is often me who makes her orgasm and not the third party.
Like an extra pair of hands or cock |
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"Ok I have a coworker that I have sex with she let's me cum in her pussy then she goes home to her husband she says she is really turned on by the fact that her husband is eating and sucking her pussy that another man has cum in she says he doesn't know and she just tells him she us very horny and wet "
Man, this is just cheating. NOT what this site is about. |
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"I enjoy cuckolding guys, especially younger ones...
They seem to enjoy it, and I do.
As for what they get out of it...
Do i care as long as I get what i want from their lady and she enjoys it !! "
Shame you feel that way; from the way we approach it, all three of us have fun in our own way and all three respect each other's role in the fun. |
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"I enjoy cuckolding guys, especially younger ones...
They seem to enjoy it, and I do.
As for what they get out of it...
Do i care as long as I get what i want from their lady and she enjoys it !!
Shame you feel that way; from the way we approach it, all three of us have fun in our own way and all three respect each other's role in the fun. "
I wasnt actually serious....
I was messing around with the idea of not caring about cuck.
I would never dream of playing of everyone involved wasnt happy and having fun.
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"Ok I have a coworker that I have sex with she let's me cum in her pussy then she goes home to her husband she says she is really turned on by the fact that her husband is eating and sucking her pussy that another man has cum in she says he doesn't know and she just tells him she us very horny and wet "
So what isn't she telling you? |
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From what cuck husbands have told me in the past, they love the feeling of ultimate submission. giving up your loved one to someone else for physical pleasure.
They enjoy knowing they can't have the power. That their lady is getting showered, dressed, flirting with and ultimately getting fucked by a person that is not them. They enjoy hearing about it, seeing it and knowing that there is almost no way back from it.. but they still crave it.
It's all about giving up control. You either want to or you don't. |
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I suppose anyone who lets their wife have sex with another man is a cuckold by definition. I don't feel like one though and it certainly doesn't play that way.
Never really given it much thought! |
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"I suppose anyone who lets their wife have sex with another man is a cuckold by definition. I don't feel like one though and it certainly doesn't play that way.
Never really given it much thought!"
So all swingers are cuckolds as when you swap wives you are essentially letting another man fuck yours?
Is that right? |
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Historically the term referred to any man with an adulterous woman. In simple terms now it is understood to refer to any man who gains sexual gratification from watching his wife with another man.
So yes most on here will fall into this category (or else they wouldn't do it). The humilation aspect is something else? |
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Hey just doing some research on this (what did we do without google?) And the phrase cuckold now belongs pretty much exclusively to a fetish.
So even though I like watching D with both men and women and vice versa her with me maybe I am not a cuckold?
Not sure what I am then? Apart from lucky! |
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"From what cuck husbands have told me in the past, they love the feeling of ultimate submission. giving up your loved one to someone else for physical pleasure.
They enjoy knowing they can't have the power. That their lady is getting showered, dressed, flirting with and ultimately getting fucked by a person that is not them. They enjoy hearing about it, seeing it and knowing that there is almost no way back from it.. but they still crave it.
It's all about giving up control. You either want to or you don't."
I would go with this for what we see as our cuckold experience.
Of course all cuck's stories are many and varied; it's silly to enter into a debate regarding whether your degree of cuck is enough for others.
If it does it for you, then it's enough, surely? As a cuck hubby, I don't feel the need to justify my existence with some geezer somewhere just because I'm not extreme enough for his tastes.
Just my two cents x Joe x |
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"I enjoy cuckolding guys, especially younger ones...
They seem to enjoy it, and I do.
As for what they get out of it...
Do i care as long as I get what i want from their lady and she enjoys it !!
Shame you feel that way; from the way we approach it, all three of us have fun in our own way and all three respect each other's role in the fun.
I wasnt actually serious....
I was messing around with the idea of not caring about cuck.
I would never dream of playing of everyone involved wasnt happy and having fun.
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Hhm. Bollox. |
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"Dont really get it if they dont get to shoot their load whats in it for them? "
Lots is the simple answer!
To watch, know and see them being fucked, then cleaning up cum with their tongue or being made to suck the other guy, its simple power exchange, then after a horny, hot fuck!
If you can't see that then maybe swinging is not for you as there are many kinks, some that you'll be into, other that you wonmt, but acceptance and to see others for what they enjoy is part of the mindset!
After all loads of men take their partners dogging, other fucking their wives, this is after all not that different! |
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