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Harder to find playmates?

By *isa2018 OP Couple over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

Does anyone else think it is becoming harder to find playmates?

We have found some gents over the years that have taken S fancy, and had some good fun meets, but it seems harder and harder to find suitable people to join us for some fun, even previous players.

I get that some of those previous single gents may have met partners and now be unavailable, but you would think an invitation to come play with a fit older lady would be a dream come true for many single guys. It has always been a small selection of contacts that were attractive to her, but it just seems a much lower response nowadays to find that selection.

Is the scene slowing down, or has it changed substantially?

We enjoy visiting a club too, but have to say that has always been even more chance and it is rare to find any playmates unless arranged beforehand.

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By *trange new worldCouple over a year ago

Northampton

We have found much the same.

We had been on fab and found it a hotbed of fun for years.

Lots of genuine men women and couples.

After a 6 month break. We are back and not sure if its the new profile or the scene itself. But its definitely slow going and a lot more labour intensive to find a genuin meet, or even someone who doesn't have to travel half the country to see you.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

Yes!

We are finding it extremely difficult to find another couple to play with.

So many people want young studs now and that’s completely fine as it’s their preference but finding a 4 way attraction is definitely difficult.

Won’t stop us trying though

Kink (Female)

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By *entlemanFoxMan over a year ago

North East / London

Your profile reads to me: 'Shallow takers'.

Even if I was what you are looking for I wouldn't message you.

Sorry if that seems harsh, but it is meant constructively.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It has been a Struggle to find willing local couple for me to join... but i will keep looking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s hard trying to find someone but I am still trying

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By *quirtyfun69Couple over a year ago

Burnley

We've been on just over a year and noticed its changed a lot, we have more success going to clubs

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By *lansmanMan over a year ago

Sheffield

I've said this a lot on similar threads , but it's gone down hill a lot since covid. Just pointless messages, ghosting and no shows.

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By *lexV16Man over a year ago

Welling

"Does anyone else think it is becoming harder to find playmates?

you would think an invitation to come play with a fit older lady would be a dream come true for many single guys.

If this is the attitude you exchange messages with guys I understand why they aren’t much into it. Sounds a bit entitled and arrogant.

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By *JB1954Man over a year ago

Reading

I have been on Fab for over ten years. Mainly same profile . Yes updated and few name changes. I think the main reason for getting difficult is two fold. Yes covid . Lot of people joined. The other is . You can now access Fab on mobile , tablet. So a lot more can access , join. Only have to look at new members each day to see how many joining. Most are on mobile ?

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