"Does this matter to you?
Do you only meet a certain ethnicity or refuse to meet a certain ethnicity?
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Matter? I mean it’s a point of interest, like anything else about the person.
No specific PREFERENCE though, and certainly no bar to meeting. |
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As a couple we discussed this and both realised we each had levels where we would say no. The strange thing was, our no’s were more about things we did not like regardless of ethnicity. Our no’s are more about what doesn’t turn us on and our yes’s were about what turned us on. It did throw some surprising admissions into our conversation. We learned a lot about ourselves and recommend other's have the same chat |
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This debate seems to draw a fine line between fetishising a race, sexual preference and racism/xenophobia.
For me, and I imagine the majority of men race or ethnicity is irrelevant. If I find you attractive, I find you attractive.
For some, people have a preference of a certain race. On the one hand, it could simply be racial preference but quite often it seems to be racial fetishism.
Equally, those who exclude certain races also walk the thin line of racial preference and racism/xenophobia. |
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Good to know there are folk out there with no issue with ethnicity.
I have messaged a few on here who made it clear they wouldn't meet. But hey ho still met some really good people on here who are now friends |
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Ethnicity should never be a factor and people should not state it on their profiles
However if someone from another race makes contact either delete their messages or politely decline their contact
That way we would never have any of these racial conversations
Anyone beg to differ??? |
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