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We often go to clubs and do enjoy being watched. However, we find that when guys first approach they always say that they are happy to just watch. Not very long after they start touching and before you know it they want full on sex with Mrs.
So the question is could you really just watch and enjoy or would you have to join in? |
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over a year ago
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I lack the self confidence to approach and am happy to just watch. Will wait to be asked to join and I still question them if they are sure they want me to join. |
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I do enjoy to watch couples. Give encouraging compliments.
Have had couples that just like to be watched, have me play as I watch them and take pictures for them(on their device). All suck good fun |
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over a year ago
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"We often go to clubs and do enjoy being watched. However, we find that when guys first approach they always say that they are happy to just watch. Not very long after they start touching and before you know it they want full on sex with Mrs.
So the question is could you really just watch and enjoy or would you have to join in?"
I’d love to just watch….  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd have to have popcorn.
 jalapeño and cheese crisps would be better!
They look across and think why is he crying 
Hahahhah what an image! But no, I can handle my spice "
Hahaha oh it’s not from eating them, I’d poked a hole in the bottom of the bag …  school boy error  |
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over a year ago
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It’s all about agreed boundaries if you’ve asked to watch and that’s it then you should respect that unless they invite you for more. Personally love watching |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"We often go to clubs and do enjoy being watched. However, we find that when guys first approach they always say that they are happy to just watch. Not very long after they start touching and before you know it they want full on sex with Mrs.
So the question is could you really just watch and enjoy or would you have to join in?"
. I personally could just watch and may ask if I could join in.However I don’t think I could have someone watching me as I feel perhaps the other guys may not have my manners by asking if it is ok to join in. |
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"I'd have to have popcorn.
jalapeño and cheese crisps would be better!
They look across and think why is he crying
Hahahhah what an image! But no, I can handle my spice
YOU STOLE MY CRISPS!!! I'd also be stamping my feet!
Hahaha oh it’s not from eating them, I’d poked a hole in the bottom of the bag … school boy error "
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This is a stupid thread I don’t think anyone is seriously going to say “ No I can’t just watch, I say that so that I can get close and when I see they are relaxing and getting hornier I use that opportunity to creep in knowing their defences are low and there’s a high chance they will be so caught up in the moment they lower their agreed boundaries because I’m a opportunist predator who’s only out for my own satisfaction “ and yet it happens very often. |
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over a year ago
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"We often go to clubs and do enjoy being watched. However, we find that when guys first approach they always say that they are happy to just watch. Not very long after they start touching and before you know it they want full on sex with Mrs.
when out dogging weve never had much of an issue with this, once weve stated watching only (weather due to mood or preferences) weve not had anyone try push the boundaries.
So the question is could you really just watch and enjoy or would you have to join in?"
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over a year ago
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I have to say no, unless I was asked to watch.
I recall one of my first threesome with two fems and they wanted some girl girl time which we had spoken about beforehand. We went to the be_room as a group and after about 3 mins of them playing I felt really creepy, so went and made a cuppa tea and left them to it. I rejoined later and had a great time.
I would never approach others who were playing unless clearly invited. |
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We love to watch each other and be watched, we are usually all involved at the time, at clubs we have done the viewing room stuff but usually with other couples or invited others, not sure I’m a performing seal tho, at house party nights there’s often others watching but that’s a different vibe to just someone saying can I just watch and they are usually taking a breather |
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"This is a stupid thread I don’t think anyone is seriously going to say “ No I can’t just watch, I say that so that I can get close and when I see they are relaxing and getting hornier I use that opportunity to creep in knowing their defences are low and there’s a high chance they will be so caught up in the moment they lower their agreed boundaries because I’m a opportunist predator who’s only out for my own satisfaction “ and yet it happens very often. "
There was someone on here who wanted me to go and watch him and his wife, it was a regular request if we happened to be online at the same time. I declined, I'd have been happy joining in, but I would have felt 'out of tune' just watching.
Oddly though, I'm quite happy being watched - the mind is a strange thing  |
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Yes sometimes we just like to watch.
When we are being watched by others it's fine when someone asks to watch politely (or in a very open space it's expected people may come and watch). It's OK if a little later they ask politely to join in. No harm in a polite way. But obviously if we decline then then we expect that answer to respected and them to just continue watching. What's really annoying and disrespectful is when they continue to ask or say but can I do this or that or just try to join in anyways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We thought that we would have loved to have been watched…but on our first visit too a club really didn’t enjoy it. Felt like we were a act for the wanking dead
But we love a private room though with invited guests |
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By *mmAloneMan
over a year ago
South Cheshire / Staffs |
Guys who push boundaries / take advantage of couples ruin things for genuine guys who like to watch (like me).
I have watched many couples - in clubs and one to one and ALWAYS just watch - unless specifically asked to participate. |
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Yes, if someone say's they are happy to watch then that should be it unless they are invited to do more. If you say you're ok with just watching it shouldn't be code for I actually expect/want to play. |
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More than happy to watch, it’s a great honour (and pleasure) to be invited. I’m far too shy to jump in and mess up the flow. If I’m asked, I’ll gladly offer a hand (or whatever’s required), but watching is glorious.
But I do like watching close up, seeing the details of what’s going on. |
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"We often go to clubs and do enjoy being watched. However, we find that when guys first approach they always say that they are happy to just watch. Not very long after they start touching and before you know it they want full on sex with Mrs.
So the question is could you really just watch and enjoy or would you have to join in?"
It depends on just how hot and in to the sex the woman is.. I have just watched but of course if there a slight chance to play I'm there |
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We love both watching and being watched but its very difficult to hook up with a guy/guys who are just happy to watch. Its a little easier at a club but we would like to have someone watch us here at home.
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
Fairytale Wood |
"We often go to clubs and do enjoy being watched. However, we find that when guys first approach they always say that they are happy to just watch. Not very long after they start touching and before you know it they want full on sex with Mrs.
So the question is could you really just watch and enjoy or would you have to join in?"
Isn't just the fact guys are incapable of self control?? Can give lists of examples where meeting couples where the male has claimed to be non-participant.
Has to touch and forces themselves into the action. You walk out from the meeting and next you know they are slating off in chat and PMs and their partner backing them up |
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"We often go to clubs and do enjoy being watched. However, we find that when guys first approach they always say that they are happy to just watch. Not very long after they start touching and before you know it they want full on sex with Mrs.
So the question is could you really just watch and enjoy or would you have to join in?
Isn't just the fact guys are incapable of self control?? Can give lists of examples where meeting couples where the male has claimed to be non-participant.
Has to touch and forces themselves into the action. You walk out from the meeting and next you know they are slating off in chat and PMs and their partner backing them up "
Exactly this. Pretend to just watch but intentions completely opposite. Happens most often. |
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"We often go to clubs and do enjoy being watched. However, we find that when guys first approach they always say that they are happy to just watch. Not very long after they start touching and before you know it they want full on sex with Mrs.
Watching is hot as
So the question is could you really just watch and enjoy or would you have to join in?
Isn't just the fact guys are incapable of self control?? Can give lists of examples where meeting couples where the male has claimed to be non-participant.
Has to touch and forces themselves into the action. You walk out from the meeting and next you know they are slating off in chat and PMs and their partner backing them up
Exactly this. Pretend to just watch but intentions completely opposite. Happens most often. "
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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago
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"We often go to clubs and do enjoy being watched. However, we find that when guys first approach they always say that they are happy to just watch. Not very long after they start touching and before you know it they want full on sex with Mrs.
So the question is could you really just watch and enjoy or would you have to join in?"
It's a huge fantasty of mine to just watch, no joining in, just seeing that intimate moment you never see otherwise, seems so hot, maybe one day |
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"We often go to clubs and do enjoy being watched. However, we find that when guys first approach they always say that they are happy to just watch. Not very long after they start touching and before you know it they want full on sex with Mrs.
So the question is could you really just watch and enjoy or would you have to join in?"
I can happily just watch |
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Yep I could just watch. Think for some guys they just think of a couple allows them to watch they’ll push the boundaries and start touching with a view to sex.
I’d never do that as it’s just disrespectful. I always ask both before doing anything further or if I’m invited to play / touch then that’s different |
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I met a couple (two girls) years ago with every intention of just watching them have sex. That was the plan. It was what we agreed. But that only lasted about 15 minutes before they asked me to come and join in.
So it happens the other way around too.
(Of course, I was pretty happy about that though … turned into one of the most memorable threesomes I’ve ever had.) |
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We will watch for a bit if there's play going on in open spaces but wouldn't ever join unless asked. That sort of behaviour is one of the reasons why I've not been comfortable playing in clubs unless in a locked room. |
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By *mmAloneMan
over a year ago
South Cheshire / Staffs |
Sadly those guys that say they are happy watching - but then want more, spoil it for those of us, respectful, solo guys who just enjoy watching.
I don't do clubs but have met a number of couples who have invited me to join and watch them - I just loved the whole experience - and so it seems, did they. |
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"We often go to clubs and do enjoy being watched. However, we find that when guys first approach they always say that they are happy to just watch. Not very long after they start touching and before you know it they want full on sex with Mrs.
So the question is could you really just watch and enjoy or would you have to join in?"
Absolutely this. This happens literally EVERY SINGLE TIME.
NEVER had a guy watch and not want to join in. |
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We frequently watch others in clubs; but that isnt to say we wouldnt like to join in. We have never really asked as we have always assumed that if we were wanted we would be invited. And if they didnt want to be watched they would close the door |
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We've had plenty very happy to just watch without encroaching.
Mr would also be happy to be a watcher. Personally for me I wouldn't as I get nothing out of it, I also wouldn't approach anyone to do so though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I love to watch and literally just watch. I actually very rarely play with total strangers in clubs.
I'm very voyeristic and I tend to just play with who I'm with. |
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