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Anyone experience this with a couple
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By *anillabellini OP Couple
over a year ago
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Just curious is there a name for this or who else has found themselves in similar situation. It happened us where we met a couple and once he got to playing with Nikki and was inside her, his partner stopped playing and wouldn’t play any further with me, she positioned herself so I had no access to play with her, the two of them tried to control the situation and make Nikki into their personal unicorn. We stopped play immediately and we’ve seen this happen once or twice at clubs, different if this scenario is pre agreed, but with us we both okay or nobody plays, unless girl/girl. Maybe there is a name for this ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious is there a name for this or who else has found themselves in similar situation. It happened us where we met a couple and once he got to playing with Nikki and was inside her, his partner stopped playing and wouldn’t play any further with me, she positioned herself so I had no access to play with her, the two of them tried to control the situation and make Nikki into their personal unicorn. We stopped play immediately and we’ve seen this happen once or twice at clubs, different if this scenario is pre agreed, but with us we both okay or nobody plays, unless girl/girl. Maybe there is a name for this ?"
Sounds like they are trying to cuck you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cuck would have to be agreed by all, more like they wanted Nikki for him to play with and her to watch, but she didn’t want any play"
Do you think maybe it’s something that naturally happened, because maybe the chemistry wasn’t complete with all 4 of you in the moment ? Or that it’s something they planned to do? |
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I'd call it selfish behaviour.
If it hasn't been preagreed then yes it's selfish, inconsiderate and rude.
If woman from other couple wanted to stop play then that is of course her right. We can all say no and end play at any time. However that doesnt appear to be the case here and I agree it was more getting themselves a unicorn with the unwanted male half then left out.
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By *anillabellini OP Couple
over a year ago
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We reckon planned to do, everyone has the right to stop okay at any time so if she felt wrong or whatever then just say so and stop, it looked like this was their kick, get him a girl and she controls the situation |
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"We reckon planned to do, everyone has the right to stop okay at any time so if she felt wrong or whatever then just say so and stop, it looked like this was their kick, get him a girl and she controls the situation"
what did they say when you stopped play with your mrs ? were they shocked ?
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By *anillabellini OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We reckon planned to do, everyone has the right to stop okay at any time so if she felt wrong or whatever then just say so and stop, it looked like this was their kick, get him a girl and she controls the situationwhat did they say when you stopped play with your mrs ? were they shocked ?"
Ah they tried to play it off and “got carried away” we just left |
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Ive seen this mentioned quite a few times now, i think because every one is chasing single women some people think the next best thing is to chase the female half of a couple even if that means dirty tactics. You need to be on top of your game and alert to gamesmanship at all times.
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Never experienced it ,but I'm straight so I'd only play with the man and expect that they'd include jack too.
Its very rude and I have seen couples say that the male of their couple has been kicked off a bed before ,so they could just play with the lady.
Unless it's discussed and agreed ,nobody should be disrespecting the male of the couple and trying to leave him out.
I'd be fuming ,we come as a pair.
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Just curious is there a name for this or who else has found themselves in similar situation. It happened us where we met a couple and once he got to playing with Nikki and was inside her, his partner stopped playing and wouldn’t play any further with me, she positioned herself so I had no access to play with her, the two of them tried to control the situation and make Nikki into their personal unicorn. We stopped play immediately and we’ve seen this happen once or twice at clubs, different if this scenario is pre agreed, but with us we both okay or nobody plays, unless girl/girl. Maybe there is a name for this ?"
its called neopolitan  |
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Sounds like she was "taking one for the team" probably wasn't that into you and they just actually wanted Nikki. Knowing they couldn't get her thay had to agree to both. Sorry mate , it does I deed happen with couples it's hard to get a 4 way attraction . |
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