What is it all of a sudden, we're getting friends requests and when we polity say no, talk to us at least firstly, we're getting abuse or just no reply.
Which is the whole point of saying no "politely" if they can't answer then why "SEND A FRIEND REQUEST"   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never just send a request and always ask but not until have met, going to meet or at least been chatting for a while!
Lovely profile guys and local not too far... |
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"What is it all of a sudden, we're getting friends requests and when we polity say no, talk to us at least firstly, we're getting abuse or just no reply.
Which is the whole point of saying no "politely" if they can't answer then why "SEND A FRIEND REQUEST" "
Don't engage. Delete, block repeat offenders and move on. |
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"Never just send a request and always ask but not until have met, going to meet or at least been chatting for a while!
Lovely profile guys and local not too far..."
Thanks for the compliment. Guess we're not too bad for auld farts ! Lol  |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
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Wait until they log off, accept the request, look through their friends only pictures and pick something you don't like.
Then send them a message saying something along the lines of
"Since you sent me a friend request I assumed you were really keen to meet. As you weren't around when I accepted the request, I also assumed you had lost interest and moved on. And sorry, I'm not a fan of (whatever you saw in the friends only pictures).
Send message.
Block.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never just send a request and always ask but not until have met, going to meet or at least been chatting for a while!
Lovely profile guys and local not too far...
Thanks for the compliment. Guess we're not too bad for auld farts ! Lol "
Far from old farts and love your profile, unfortunately can't message due to filters... |
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"Wait until they log off, accept the request, look through their friends only pictures and pick something you don't like.
Then send them a message saying something along the lines of
"Since you sent me a friend request I assumed you were really keen to meet. As you weren't around when I accepted the request, I also assumed you had lost interest and moved on. And sorry, I'm not a fan of (whatever you saw in the friends only pictures).
Send message.
Block.
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Lol... like your style !!  |
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By *Cups32Woman
over a year ago
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I have it on my profile that friend requests are for people I've already spoken too... So if a randomer sends a request, they're not respecting what's on my profile. If they can't respect that, will the respect me in the bedroom...
I find it quite a useful filtering tool. |
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"I have it on my profile that friend requests are for people I've already spoken too... So if a randomer sends a request, they're not respecting what's on my profile. If they can't respect that, will the respect me in the bedroom...
I find it quite a useful filtering tool. "
I've never seen that filter, think we'll apply it, xx |
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The third line of our profile clearly states 'Do not send us unsolicited friends requests, we will not meet with you if you do'.
We figure that if people can't be bothererd to read the first three lines, then there's no point wasting our time with them. |
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If someone sends a friend request without having the respect to message me first, I just instantly block them. It filters out all the picture-collectors and time-wasters. Hence, my block list is horrendously long lol. |
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I always wait for an invitation if we have been chatting for a while. I never ask. Although I did accidentally send one the other week when leaving a verification. Luckily I knew the couple involved  |
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"What is it all of a sudden, we're getting friends requests and when we polity say no, talk to us at least firstly, we're getting abuse or just no reply.
Which is the whole point of saying no "politely" if they can't answer then why "SEND A FRIEND REQUEST" "
Delete and block, then they can’t request you again. |
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"If someone sends a friend request without having the respect to message me first, I just instantly block them. It filters out all the picture-collectors and time-wasters. Hence, my block list is horrendously long lol."
Whhaattttt !!
There's picture collectors on this site.. ! I never knew  lol x |
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"I have it on my profile that friend requests are for people I've already spoken too... So if a randomer sends a request, they're not respecting what's on my profile. If they can't respect that, will the respect me in the bedroom...
I find it quite a useful filtering tool.
I've never seen that filter, think we'll apply it, xx"
Sadly not an available tool! Would be great though xx |
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