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Some people overate themselves?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh yes in real life men don't even flirt with me, on here I'm a sex goddess it certainly bigs me up, or did ya mean cock size cause I dinner have one of those  |
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over a year ago
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"Does swinging big up people to monster size when in the real world they are average at best?"
Well apparently you're s genuine fuck machine who can fuck like a stallion
Chances are you've answered your own question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably. But the flipside to that is it also brings plenty of ego's down a peg ot two.
OP can I hazard a guess that your sense of entitlement ism't being met? |
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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago
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"and there's plenty of "attractive" people who ought to wear a mask  "
that reminds me of someone's comment about the ohs picture she said well he's not oil painting but ill lower myself if it means I can come to the club. We died laughing at this as I had thought she was not exactly pretty but seemed to have a good personality. But this comment put us off then we met her one day in a club and both nearly choked on our drinks her pics were very out of date and she was certainly not the woman in the pics she was worse. But obviously had a very inflated ego |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably. But the flipside to that is it also brings plenty of ego's down a peg ot two.
OP can I hazard a guess that your sense of entitlement ism't being met?"
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"Probably. But the flipside to that is it also brings plenty of ego's down a peg ot two.
OP can I hazard a guess that your sense of entitlement ism't being met?"
Hahaha. Was just about to type the same thing x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Blimey, if I used this site to boost my ego I'd have chucked myself off a bridge by now! Not all single women get 400 messages a day begging us to meet."
Why do so many say they do then I dont get it  |
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"Blimey, if I used this site to boost my ego I'd have chucked myself off a bridge by now! Not all single women get 400 messages a day begging us to meet.
Why do so many say they do then I dont get it "
Maybe as an excuse to ignore the ones they don't like lol x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Blimey, if I used this site to boost my ego I'd have chucked myself off a bridge by now! Not all single women get 400 messages a day begging us to meet.
Why do so many say they do then I dont get it "
Because some do. Like some get 100s of fabs a day, or have friends lists that go on for ever. But its not the case for all of us and people should not assume that. I would love to be constantly in demand by hot single young men but I am not, and so I make sure my life does not revolve around meeting for sex. |
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"Does swinging big up people to monster size when in the real world they are average at best?"
Don't know - I can only see a cock
from your profile. Are you more than a cock, a monster cock etc?
People don't grasp reality, they just create their own perceptions, based on the limited data that their brain's and senses retrieve and process. Do we ever know reality - I guess it's a bit like having the monkeys at typewriters, eventually knocking our some Shalespeare, that with enough permutations, we'll get accurate with our perceptions some of the time.
I take it that you've met a lot of swingers and have formed an opinion, that your question implies. Rely on your own impressions, and it won't matter what others have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does swinging big up people to monster size when in the real world they are average at best?"
yes for sure
I can see why tho
Ive never rated myself on my looks and when i first started doing this i didnt really think id get that much attention and i was shocked when men did mail me, and some of them very good looking i thought they surely must have mailed the wrong person
Tho im quite a grounded person and its never gone to my head i can see how it could with some women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good lord, yes....most guys wouldn't give me a second look in the real world lol, I'm a single bi female here, like rocking horse doodaahh.....do I think I'm all that and a bag of chips tho, hell no, I'm under no illusions, just enjoying myself while I can  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good lord, yes....most guys wouldn't give me a second look in the real world lol, I'm a single bi female here, like rocking horse doodaahh.....do I think I'm all that and a bag of chips tho, hell no, I'm under no illusions, just enjoying myself while I can "
lol that about sums it up for me too
If some gorgeous guy wants to meet me for the sake of a shag who am i to turn him down, so long as i fancy him then hey hoo the rest is his problem lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good lord, yes....most guys wouldn't give me a second look in the real world lol, I'm a single bi female here, like rocking horse doodaahh.....do I think I'm all that and a bag of chips tho, hell no, I'm under no illusions, just enjoying myself while I can
lol that about sums it up for me too
If some gorgeous guy wants to meet me for the sake of a shag who am i to turn him down, so long as i fancy him then hey hoo the rest is his problem lol"
Ditto, I have standards, I know what I like and wont lower my standards for anyone, if a good looking guy wants to meet me and I like him, who am I to argue, and god knows I've met some bloody good looking men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does swinging big up people to monster size when in the real world they are average at best?"
Absolutely. There are women and couples on here who would not meet in real life half the desperate young men they meet on here. These types should remind themselves that horny men will fuck pretty much anything with a pulse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" These types should remind themselves that horny men will fuck pretty much anything with a pulse
Far too many deluded women don't seem to understand this! It's quite sad really  "
Sadly a lot of women here have a low self opinion of themselves and believe every word of the BS, if it makes them feel good for a short while, then I guess there's no harm done  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for me the best messages received are from overweight ladies in their 30s, who I have messaged in an act of desperation, who tell me 'sorry hun', I am fully booked, not my type etc. Who the fuck is fully booking them?
Or a close second are the 'hot wives', which translates as chubby, washed out 41 year old with even worse shaped hubby x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for me the best messages received are from overweight ladies in their 30s, who I have messaged in an act of desperation, who tell me 'sorry hun', I am fully booked, not my type etc. Who the fuck is fully booking them?
Or a close second are the 'hot wives', which translates as chubby, washed out 41 year old with even worse shaped hubby x"
Phew, I'm over weight but in my 50's so it can't be me, and I'm never "booked up" haha |
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"for me the best messages received are from overweight ladies in their 30s, who I have messaged in an act of desperation, who tell me 'sorry hun', I am fully booked, not my type etc. Who the fuck is fully booking them?
Or a close second are the 'hot wives', which translates as chubby, washed out 41 year old with even worse shaped hubby x"
Well I'm pretty sure all the ladies you message out of desperation will be dying to meet you now.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does swinging big up people to monster size when in the real world they are average at best?
Well apparently you're s genuine fuck machine who can fuck like a stallion
Chances are you've answered your own question"
hahaha Could not have said it any better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for me the best messages received are from overweight ladies in their 30s, who I have messaged in an act of desperation, who tell me 'sorry hun', I am fully booked, not my type etc. Who the fuck is fully booking them?
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other desperate men maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for me the best messages received are from overweight ladies in their 30s, who I have messaged in an act of desperation, who tell me 'sorry hun', I am fully booked, not my type etc. Who the fuck is fully booking them?
other desperate men maybe? "
Likely, although there is a weird lumpen section of fab, where unnatractive people tend to meet other unnatractive people, too embarrassed to meet a better specimen. I like this fact, self regulates |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to use honesty in forums as a built in fail safe for when I have a had a beer too many and get desperate"
What?!!!
someone who thinks over weight women in their 30s should only be messaged when nothing else is on offer actually gets desparate
surely not from such a sud as yourself 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to use honesty in forums as a built in fail safe for when I have a had a beer too many and get desperate
What?!!!
someone who thinks over weight women in their 30s should only be messaged when nothing else is on offer actually gets desparate
surely not from such a sud as yourself
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Well, that's not what I meant at all. I love curvy ladies. x I am no stud, then again, I am not terrible looking either, so about average |
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"for me the best messages received are from overweight ladies in their 30s, who I have messaged in an act of desperation, who tell me 'sorry hun', I am fully booked, not my type etc. Who the fuck is fully booking them?
other desperate men maybe?
Likely, although there is a weird lumpen section of fab, where unnatractive people tend to meet other unnatractive people, too embarrassed to meet a better specimen. I like this fact, self regulates"
Or maybe attractive people only like to meet people that aren't full of themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to use honesty in forums as a built in fail safe for when I have a had a beer too many and get desperate
What?!!!
someone who thinks over weight women in their 30s should only be messaged when nothing else is on offer actually gets desparate
surely not from such a sud as yourself
Well, that's not what I meant at all. I love curvy ladies. x I am no stud, then again, I am not terrible looking either, so about average"
oh well next time your pissed up and desparate you know where i am lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for me the best messages received are from overweight ladies in their 30s, who I have messaged in an act of desperation, who tell me 'sorry hun', I am fully booked, not my type etc. Who the fuck is fully booking them?
other desperate men maybe? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it's an odd place here because before I started swinging, I didn't really have much self confidence as I am a curvy girl I'm not everybodys cup of tea, and thought I would never get a meet, since being on here it has boosted my self confidence, I have realised everyone has different tastes and men don't just like the obvious xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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wouldnt big myself up..but I could say im more inclined to be more experienced than the average nonswinging type- but thats based on my practices.For example they might sit and watch porn, I can say Ive done lots of that type of stuff..it doesnt make me better but it does say I have experience of it. I've heard russel brands been in 3somes etc, automatic assumptions lead people to believe he's some kind of sex god..when in reality its pretty tame to what ive participated in I'd say. |
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"it's an odd place here because before I started swinging, I didn't really have much self confidence as I am a curvy girl I'm not everybodys cup of tea, and thought I would never get a meet, since being on here it has boosted my self confidence, I have realised everyone has different tastes and men don't just like the obvious xx "
So true, recently iv been on a few dates where the guy hasn't tried to get me straight in the sack but has complimented me a lot and have asked to go out with them again. Makes you realise not all men are into the same types of women and you don't have to be thin or average to be admired! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for me the best messages received are from overweight ladies in their 30s, who I have messaged in an act of desperation, who tell me 'sorry hun', I am fully booked, not my type etc. Who the fuck is fully booking them? "
That sounds like sour grapes to me. It looks like you have the ego problem that such ladies turn you down so you resort to slagging them off. How dare they!! |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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Wow the audacity of some people.
As an overweight woman in her 30s I am constantly surprised by the reaction of men younger than me when I say no as I am too busy right now. Is it because I have hundreds of meets lined up? No it's because I like most people on here have a life outside of fab and do not feel the need to explain to a stranger exactly what I am doing with whom and when.
Also maybe I don't find them attractive. Shock horror!
I have a date tonight with an absolutely gorgeous man I met last week. Not from fab, but just whilst out shopping.
But who doesn't like the attention they receive on here. Wish I had 100s of messages though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some have a huge problem with self esteem, and some seem to be totally the opposite, i have met some people who describe themselves as "good looking" and i have been left thinking, Really??????? |
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"Well I would choose the average badge for myself I hate huge egos and although confidence is good some people get very smug and its highly unattractive to me."
It's the smug ones that are annoying, false confidence is one of the ugliest things! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does flatter some peoples egos.. but some take it with a pinch of salt..
I am the latter.. I am very aware that things being said to me would have been said to the last how ever many women they chatted too.. And I am also very sceptical.
My favourite verification I have is someone saying that I was far less up myself than someone thought I would be because of how I play and the way that I get put on a pedastal by some..
TO be honest it adds to nerves.. when I play I am always constantly worried that someone will find me a disapointment.
I decided that I would be on here the same as I am anywhere else.. and that is the one thing I am good at being.. And that is ME!.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for me the best messages received are from overweight ladies in their 30s, who I have messaged in an act of desperation, who tell me 'sorry hun', I am fully booked, not my type etc. Who the fuck is fully booking them?
Or a close second are the 'hot wives', which translates as chubby, washed out 41 year old with even worse shaped hubby x"
Sorry hun just checked my diary again and I'm still fully booked lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shock! The guy with porn pics has left the site..
Lol nothing like coming into the forums and realising ur fakery is completely see through :D"
but he had two meets................ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shock! The guy with porn pics has left the site..
Lol nothing like coming into the forums and realising ur fakery is completely see through :D"
He will be missed... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont think much of men who boast about the women they have met
or how good they are, when sometimes you know they are making it up.
men who think their gods gift to women
who boast about the size of their penis
when you meet them the sex is pretty average. |
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Some of us underate our selves then if we get good feed back of meets we feel really good if we get average or even low feed back well we still feel good as i all ways pull my self down(male half) but Wifey is always good as
As for that is why we do this
we only do this for a little extra fun and fun is what we get |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shock! The guy with porn pics has left the site..
Lol nothing like coming into the forums and realising ur fakery is completely see through :D
but he had two meets................ "
By his other 2 fake accounts? Too easy to be verified by cam huh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes reading the reactions to threads tells so much about people and how their self confidence is, how threatened they feel, underlining anger and plain vitriolic output. The reality in life is that some people do overate themselves in others eyes but another person would not see it that way. Am I wrong in assuming people who snap and get personal at someone asking something feel that the question asked is taken personally?
As Jim Morrison sang....People are strange. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does swinging big up people to monster size when in the real world they are average at best?
yes for sure
I can see why tho
Ive never rated myself on my looks and when i first started doing this i didnt really think id get that much attention and i was shocked when men did mail me, and some of them very good looking i thought they surely must have mailed the wrong person
Tho im quite a grounded person and its never gone to my head i can see how it could with some women"
Exactly how I feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does swinging big up people to monster size when in the real world they are average at best?
yes for sure
I can see why tho
Ive never rated myself on my looks and when i first started doing this i didnt really think id get that much attention and i was shocked when men did mail me, and some of them very good looking i thought they surely must have mailed the wrong person
Tho im quite a grounded person and its never gone to my head i can see how it could with some women"
Exactly how I feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes reading the reactions to threads tells so much about people and how their self confidence is, how threatened they feel, underlining anger and plain vitriolic output. The reality in life is that some people do overate themselves in others eyes but another person would not see it that way. Am I wrong in assuming people who snap and get personal at someone asking something feel that the question asked is taken personally?
As Jim Morrison sang....People are strange."
Yes they are! But depends what people are saying to provoke reactions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not so sure that it's that much different to the real world. Either you rate yourself or you don't, or don't care either way. The only difference on fab is that you get the chance to select what people see before meeting. Personally I never like my own photos. While I wouldn't class myself as any better than average the camera certainly isn't a friend! Hopefully my personality compensates.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You mean Im not the sexiest thing on two legs and guys only tell me Im stunning and so very sexy cos they want to get in my knickers???
Oh dam I'm so very sad now and may have to crawl under a rock until the next ice age!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You mean Im not the sexiest thing on two legs and guys only tell me Im stunning and so very sexy cos they want to get in my knickers???
Oh dam I'm so very sad now and may have to crawl under a rock until the next ice age!! "
rather get in ur fanny but heyho...some ppl are freaks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People are so much pleasing on the eye in the flesh...engaging with is even better
Most pictures are hairbrushed or edited its so obvios and do not show the real persons either good or bad ...
Flawless pics is boring
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Life in the 'real' world has been known to find me fucking a beautiful Italian guy on a hotel stairwell on my way back from meeting a guy from the Fab world. Two worlds colliding. I get ogled and whistled at and flirted with and periodically nailed by guys who are chance encounters and nothing to do with online life. It may just be my 'stick em out and be proud of yourself girl' way of going about things. But who gives a fuck? It seems to work! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can not believe how some girls go on. I am not trying to be rude or insulting but I have seen different girls profiles and seen some of them in chat and OMG who on earth do they think they are?? They have clearly had lots of attention which is not hard to get on here if you are female and have actually believed the guys telling them they are stunning because the guys either want to get laid or to see them playing on cam. I would say 80% of the girls on fab would have no chance of pulling if they were in a club and I think the thing that is the most unattractive is some attitudes that some girls have. Top tip, look in the mirror girls and have a reality check!
Ok rant over x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can not believe how some girls go on. I am not trying to be rude or insulting but I have seen different girls profiles and seen some of them in chat and OMG who on earth do they think they are?? They have clearly had lots of attention which is not hard to get on here if you are female and have actually believed the guys telling them they are stunning because the guys either want to get laid or to see them playing on cam. I would say 80% of the girls on fab would have no chance of pulling if they were in a club and I think the thing that is the most unattractive is some attitudes that some girls have. Top tip, look in the mirror girls and have a reality check!
Ok rant over x"
So how should they act? When they have many giving them attention? This isn't the real world and I suspect they don't act the same in it :/
How do u handle all the attention and comments then.. Ignore it? How would guys feel then being ignored or told to not talk to them cos they are out their league?
This is a different world on here and has to be handled as such |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"I can not believe how some girls go on. I am not trying to be rude or insulting but I have seen different girls profiles and seen some of them in chat and OMG who on earth do they think they are?? They have clearly had lots of attention which is not hard to get on here if you are female and have actually believed the guys telling them they are stunning because the guys either want to get laid or to see them playing on cam. I would say 80% of the girls on fab would have no chance of pulling if they were in a club and I think the thing that is the most unattractive is some attitudes that some girls have. Top tip, look in the mirror girls and have a reality check!
Ok rant over x"
i agree and posted this once and got slaughterd 4 it lol, but comming from a woman think u will be ok , and u hve made a very good point and so true on here |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I can not believe how some girls go on. I am not trying to be rude or insulting but I have seen different girls profiles and seen some of them in chat and OMG who on earth do they think they are?? They have clearly had lots of attention which is not hard to get on here if you are female and have actually believed the guys telling them they are stunning because the guys either want to get laid or to see them playing on cam. I would say 80% of the girls on fab would have no chance of pulling if they were in a club and I think the thing that is the most unattractive is some attitudes that some girls have. Top tip, look in the mirror girls and have a reality check!
Ok rant over x"
there has always been & always will be a very thin line between confidence, self belief & arrogance in this world... some cross it, many don't.
women, men and couples.... |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"I can not believe how some girls go on. I am not trying to be rude or insulting but I have seen different girls profiles and seen some of them in chat and OMG who on earth do they think they are?? They have clearly had lots of attention which is not hard to get on here if you are female and have actually believed the guys telling them they are stunning because the guys either want to get laid or to see them playing on cam. I would say 80% of the girls on fab would have no chance of pulling if they were in a club and I think the thing that is the most unattractive is some attitudes that some girls have. Top tip, look in the mirror girls and have a reality check!
Ok rant over x
there has always been & always will be a very thin line between confidence, self belief & arrogance in this world... some cross it, many don't.
women, men and couples.... "
alot of the woman on here are crossing that line , not all by ny means but alot, they look in the mirror as susan boyle and see cameron diaz staring back |
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"I can not believe how some girls go on. I am not trying to be rude or insulting but I have seen different girls profiles and seen some of them in chat and OMG who on earth do they think they are?? They have clearly had lots of attention which is not hard to get on here if you are female and have actually believed the guys telling them they are stunning because the guys either want to get laid or to see them playing on cam. I would say 80% of the girls on fab would have no chance of pulling if they were in a club and I think the thing that is the most unattractive is some attitudes that some girls have. Top tip, look in the mirror girls and have a reality check!
Ok rant over x
there has always been & always will be a very thin line between confidence, self belief & arrogance in this world... some cross it, many don't.
women, men and couples.... "
It's the arrogance that really gets my back up! Ok it's good to have self belief and confidence but when people go over the line into cockiness it becomes all very ugly! That's when a reality check is needed! |
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over a year ago
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"I can not believe how some girls go on. I am not trying to be rude or insulting but I have seen different girls profiles and seen some of them in chat and OMG who on earth do they think they are?? They have clearly had lots of attention which is not hard to get on here if you are female and have actually believed the guys telling them they are stunning because the guys either want to get laid or to see them playing on cam. I would say 80% of the girls on fab would have no chance of pulling if they were in a club and I think the thing that is the most unattractive is some attitudes that some girls have. Top tip, look in the mirror girls and have a reality check!
Ok rant over x
there has always been & always will be a very thin line between confidence, self belief & arrogance in this world... some cross it, many don't.
women, men and couples....
It's the arrogance that really gets my back up! Ok it's good to have self belief and confidence but when people go over the line into cockiness it becomes all very ugly! That's when a reality check is needed! "
Thats more the thing I was asking but some do tongue in cheek humor which is different and not being serious and ok. |
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over a year ago
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"Probably. But the flipside to that is it also brings plenty of ego's down a peg ot two.
OP can I hazard a guess that your sense of entitlement ism't being met?"
Wrong totaly wrong and about as true as you wanting to cycle with no seat on your bike but with saddle post up your arse. Maybe you had sense of humor bypass. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does swinging big up people to monster size when in the real world they are average at best?"
Definitely. I could not agree more.
I am what I am and never pretend to anything different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does swinging big up people to monster size when in the real world they are average at best?
Well sky remotes & red bull tins don't lie "
and i thought it was tins of Superbrew lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In reply to thr original post...
Of course people exagerrate! They're advertising themselves! They're hardly going to write "two overweight, middle aged mingers looking for meets. In the interests of safe sex, we recommend double bagging. Also please take note, we haven't showered for the past month..."
p.s. This isn't us!!! |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"In reply to thr original post...
Of course people exagerrate! They're advertising themselves! They're hardly going to write "two overweight, middle aged mingers looking for meets. In the interests of safe sex, we recommend double bagging. Also please take note, we haven't showered for the past month..."
p.s. This isn't us!!!"
even if u advertised like that u would still get a long line of single guys up for a meet.
middle aged smelly mingers. its a niche market but we are out there if u look hard enough, come on guys behind me the queue starts here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If im in chat and some one says I am stunning I say thank you. I once said I can see the others in the room who are 'stunning' so the compliment does not go to my head, lol. I always try to acknowledge any one saying hi to me in chat and I always try to answer my messages, even if it is to say no thankyou. Im in the real world and i believe an old saying I once heard and it is 'nice to be important but its more important to be nice'. Some fems on fab irrelevant to if she is a stunner or a minger really should have a little thought to the way she conducts herself and speaks to others, I feel sorry for the guys on here from some points of _iews having to put up with fems who are so far up their own ass they have not seen sunlight for years x |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"If im in chat and some one says I am stunning I say thank you. I once said I can see the others in the room who are 'stunning' so the compliment does not go to my head, lol. I always try to acknowledge any one saying hi to me in chat and I always try to answer my messages, even if it is to say no thankyou. Im in the real world and i believe an old saying I once heard and it is 'nice to be important but its more important to be nice'. Some fems on fab irrelevant to if she is a stunner or a minger really should have a little thought to the way she conducts herself and speaks to others, I feel sorry for the guys on here from some points of _iews having to put up with fems who are so far up their own ass they have not seen sunlight for years x"
wow well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If im in chat and some one says I am stunning I say thank you. I once said I can see the others in the room who are 'stunning' so the compliment does not go to my head, lol. I always try to acknowledge any one saying hi to me in chat and I always try to answer my messages, even if it is to say no thankyou. Im in the real world and i believe an old saying I once heard and it is 'nice to be important but its more important to be nice'. Some fems on fab irrelevant to if she is a stunner or a minger really should have a little thought to the way she conducts herself and speaks to others, I feel sorry for the guys on here from some points of _iews having to put up with fems who are so far up their own ass they have not seen sunlight for years x"
That's just so right and couldn't have been said better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have seen a profile recently where it states, "If you make the grade we will see you". I think there are better ways of saying this without sounding so arrogant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh yeah on here our ego's are sky high. Suddenly theres no shortage of sexy men and the occasional woman that want to shag our brains out.
In reality half of these people, especially younger sexy guys would not look in our direction for a second.
Fab is a magical site |
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"Oh yeah on here our ego's are sky high. Suddenly theres no shortage of sexy men and the occasional woman that want to shag our brains out.
In reality half of these people, especially younger sexy guys would not look in our direction for a second.
Fab is a magical site "
I love your eyes and the way the sunlight sparkles through your hair... do go on... |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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"Funnily enough when I was on POF for a bit you had the opposite effect.
Soooo many profiles began with 'I'm just and ordinary girl, a bit boring really...'
Next!
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Most of those were a bit psycho... some extremely worrying cases on there.
Still I found one that was almost sane enough as a charity case. I gave generously...
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably. But the flipside to that is it also brings plenty of ego's down a peg ot two.
OP can I hazard a guess that your sense of entitlement ism't being met?"
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I know what I am and Fab dont alter that.
If a sexy lady comes on to me on fab I never beleive its serious and they are taking the piss.
Then again its the same in real life.
If i had money i would be really paranoid ! |
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over a year ago
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Id say it mainly boosts a women's ego more than men. Women are able to "punch well above their weight" on here as there are a lot of blokes that will literally "do anything" (or anyone) or say anything to get into a womens bed, even when said woman isnt particularly attractive. Some will say "but she has a greatpersonality" Lets face it, most of the men dont care about your personality. As long as they get their tackle wet.
Add to that the volume of single blokes and the result is women meeting up with men that wouldnt normally look twice at them in everyday life.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I'm so far up my own arse I never know if it is night or day
But I will say, it's mainly the men on here that pose the problem, as I have been in chat (not on cam!) But seen all the 'your stunning' messages to women who are on cam, so I click on to be nosey and I can't click off quick enough! So if any hole is a goal, you can't really blame some of the women believing what they are being told |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Add to that the volume of single blokes and the result is women meeting up with men that wouldnt normally look twice at them in everyday life."
Maybe the blokes should aim higher then. Or is it because they are happy with the women they meet and don't have the same attitude as you? |
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over a year ago
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"Add to that the volume of single blokes and the result is women meeting up with men that wouldnt normally look twice at them in everyday life.
Maybe the blokes should aim higher then. Or is it because they are happy with the women they meet and don't have the same attitude as you?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attractiveness is all subjective.
What one person finds attractive another might not.
We never tell people were attractive,it does make you sound up your own ass and they might not think your attractive at all.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Attractiveness is all subjective.
What one person finds attractive another might not.
We never tell people were attractive,it does make you sound up your own ass and they might not think your attractive at all.
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over a year ago
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I'm sure this topic has made those who already have a low self asteem feel even worse about themselves. There has been some genuine first rate shite posted on this thread.
It almost seems that those on here who rate themselves as stalion love gods want rid of the average/below average people so slag them off in the hope they will leave. The biggest culprit/ego been that of the OP.
Can't average/below average people have fun too? Because the very thought of it seems to abhore some people on here. This really is a degrading thread which seems to have been started to make some good people feel bad. To me the OP sounds like a complete tosser who's had his ego dented big time by someone who he felt was beneath him.
It's quite simple. Treat people with respect no matter what their age or build. Everyone is entitled to have fun. And everyone should respect that. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm sure this topic has made those who already have a low self asteem feel even worse about themselves. There has been some genuine first rate shite posted on this thread.
It almost seems that those on here who rate themselves as stalion love gods want rid of the average/below average people so slag them off in the hope they will leave. The biggest culprit/ego been that of the OP.
Can't average/below average people have fun too? Because the very thought of it seems to abhore some people on here. This really is a degrading thread which seems to have been started to make some good people feel bad. To me the OP sounds like a complete tosser who's had his ego dented big time by someone who he felt was beneath him.
It's quite simple. Treat people with respect no matter what their age or build. Everyone is entitled to have fun. And everyone should respect that."
I do agree with you! However, don't shoot me down, every one does know the reality of life and where they fit in (myself included) I'm not the prettiest by far, I just think, be honest with yourself and you'll be honest by others, and then everyone should/would/could get on without over inflated ego's or any dissapointment getting in the way, sounds easy I suppose, but then these things always are...You'd think! |
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over a year ago
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"Does swinging big up people to monster size when in the real world they are average at best?
Well apparently you're s genuine fuck machine who can fuck like a stallion
Chances are you've answered your own question"
nice one made us laugh. |
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"Does swinging big up people to monster size when in the real world they are average at best?
Well apparently you're s genuine fuck machine who can fuck like a stallion
Chances are you've answered your own question
hahaha Could not have said it any better. "
We have just looked at the OPs profile pissed ourselves laughing - OP you cannot see the irony. With your profile you will go far on here (sic). |
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"Does swinging big up people to monster size when in the real world they are average at best?
Well apparently you're s genuine fuck machine who can fuck like a stallion
Chances are you've answered your own question
nice one made us laugh."
I laughed so much at the OP's profile,a tear ran down my thigh
He can fuck like a stallion, yet looking at his cock pics, he's hung like a sea-horse! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lets face it people want a confident swinger. ive described myself as average on many an occasion and been told to big myself up more. ive also sent pics to people who have accused me of not looking like my pics. lets face it if you connect with someone who cares.
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"Does swinging big up people to monster size when in the real world they are average at best?
Well apparently you're s genuine fuck machine who can fuck like a stallion
Chances are you've answered your own question
nice one made us laugh.
I laughed so much at the OP's profile,a tear ran down my thigh
He can fuck like a stallion, yet looking at his cock pics, he's hung like a sea-horse!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I JUST HAVE PRINCIPLES..... ITS NOT ALL ABOUT EGOS AND FALSE LASHES,FALSE TITS,NAILS AND A TUCK HERE AND THERE PERSONALITY'S ARE MOST IMPORTANT....CALL ME OLD FASHIONED  |
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"Does swinging big up people to monster size when in the real world they are average at best?"
Some people it does, no matter how much they deny it or make fun of other people to try and hide it.
Cool profile. |
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