Mfcouple- how would you feel if your other half had the opportunity to have a impromptu unplanned quickie fumble, without time for you to join with someone same sex as them.
If it was me, being the one with the opportunity, I would be undecided to tell.
I know if I didn't come clean (excuse the pun)then when it became known it would be as though I'd kept a secret, which is bad.
But it could feel a bit embarrassing
To be honest I’d be happy for her especially as she had lesbian relationship before me so I’d know she would be getting something I could not give her and she would be getting her urges she desired