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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
ok so guys this is not a trick question so just for a second forget the woman and tell how how you see the cuck .. what do you think his role is.. whats your relationship with him ...
just curious to how other men fell with other cuckold couples im not talking one offs im talking regular full on meets ...
we alway hear what you think about the woman but what do you see or feel for the cuck ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I been fortunate to have played over the long term with a number of cuckold couples. Each dynamic has been different. But I have always had a very strong, open and communicative relationship with the cuck. It has always been 3 I. The relationship in pretty much equal measure. The role the cuck has played has been dependant on the cuckold dynamic and needs. I have been flexible to accommodate and fit into their needs as a bull |
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As above said.
It's always 3 and never 2.
Acknowledge them both as a couple and never just the woman (..or guy, depending what the scene is).
Each person knows their role and what they want. Everyone's happy. |
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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago
Skegness |
speaking from the hubby's side we have 2 regulars that we only play with now and no we not had 4 sum yet i get on very well with both one is like me likes a drink and a bet so we can have beer and chat about racing he will often ring me to chat and thats not about the wife the other one is bit diffrant from other but works in constriction same as be so we have lot of banter and will have just a few beers together i call both of them good mates if i needed a hand with any thing they wood both be there at drop of a hat |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
i forgot to add in the original questions ... do you see them as real cuckold couples our play/fantasie/roleplay where the cuck is pure fantasy ??
nothing is right or wrong neither is just a massive sliding scale from hotwife to full on live the lifestyle cuckold ..
and please these questions are to the guy not the couple if you can  |
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As I single guy who has had the pleasure of meeting several cuckold and hotwife couples for regular erotic times over the years, I've had mixed experiences with the husbands.
I always find it best to include the hubby as they need to feel comfortable and trust you also. After all, they are inviting you into their sex life and entrusting you with their wife or partner.
The more trust there is between all 3 involved, the better the sex will be, as everyone will be relaxed. Some husbands want to be fully involved, watch, be punished etc. Others just want to see evidence of the fun. Others don't want any direct communication or interaction with me. It's always best to communicate with him & her to find out exactly what they're wanting to experience, then find ways to make their fantasies become reality |
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By *ruxruMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"i forgot to add in the original questions ... do you see them as real cuckold couples our play/fantasie/roleplay where the cuck is pure fantasy ??
nothing is right or wrong neither is just a massive sliding scale from hotwife to full on live the lifestyle cuckold ..
and please these questions are to the guy not the couple if you can "
I hope it's a bedroom fantasy after all, otherwise what's a point to humiliate the spose in real life.. |
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Firstly I have always taken the view that I am a guest in the sex lives of the couples that I am meeting, yes I have my own peccadilloes and kinks , but I have been invited to help them enjoy theirs.
It is always a 3 way thing , you do really need to understand what the guy wants from it all, every bit as much as wife or gf and listen to them.
Cuckolding is really as much about what is going on in them mind as physically and for most cuckold couples that is every bit as important.
And to do that I think you need to understand and communicate equally well with both , I had three long term scenes with couples over the years and the relationship with the guy was as fundamental as their wives . |
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"Firstly I have always taken the view that I am a guest in the sex lives of the couples that I am meeting, yes I have my own peccadilloes and kinks , but I have been invited to help them enjoy theirs.
It is always a 3 way thing , you do really need to understand what the guy wants from it all, every bit as much as wife or gf and listen to them.
Cuckolding is really as much about what is going on in them mind as physically and for most cuckold couples that is every bit as important.
And to do that I think you need to understand and communicate equally well with both , I had three long term scenes with couples over the years and the relationship with the guy was as fundamental as their wives . "
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Should always be a three person dynamic in my opinion for the relationship to flourish and develop properly
Every dynamic is specific to those involved and should be approached and nurtured that way
Have fun. X |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"Firstly I have always taken the view that I am a guest in the sex lives of the couples that I am meeting, yes I have my own peccadilloes and kinks , but I have been invited to help them enjoy theirs.
It is always a 3 way thing , you do really need to understand what the guy wants from it all, every bit as much as wife or gf and listen to them.
Cuckolding is really as much about what is going on in them mind as physically and for most cuckold couples that is every bit as important.
And to do that I think you need to understand and communicate equally well with both , I had three long term scenes with couples over the years and the relationship with the guy was as fundamental as their wives . "
You explain the situation well. I agree that you must include the husband and understand what it is that drives their cuckold desires. Its not always the same with different couples either. I've had Cuckolding meets over the years and sometimes I communicate entirely with the husband between meets. Once the hubby had no involvement and I would message and arrange directly with the wife . |
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Finding the right bull was key for us so we tended to have a few regular bulls rather than lots of one off randoms. Both my cuckold relationships were 24/7 and not a kinky game , all my gf sex came from the bulls and I was in chastity.
A lot of bulls didn't really understand the dynamic of a cuckold relationship. |
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
Solihull and Brentwood |
As someone above said, you are being invited into another couples life. There has to be trust and respect, of all concerned, because of the above.
Imho, it's more about the lady and her needs and ensuring that her needs are met.
If the hubby, gets off while watching, listening being denied, caged, humiliated, etc. Then all's good. So long as all parties are OK with this.
Probably best friends first, then transgress to being a bull for the couple is a good direction to go in, imho. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"ok so guys this is not a trick question so just for a second forget the woman and tell how how you see the cuck .. what do you think his role is.. whats your relationship with him ...
just curious to how other men fell with other cuckold couples im not talking one offs im talking regular full on meets ...
we alway hear what you think about the woman but what do you see or feel for the cuck ??"
Met a few and they have all been as different as the women.
To say: I don't view the women as any different to any other women I've met, as couples, singles or hotwives. They do as they do and like what they like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can only comment on the one experience I had.
All communication in advance, and afterwards, was with the hubby only. He explained exactly what he was looking for and the ground rules for the meet. In that respect my 'relationship' was only with him so I was very conscious of meeting his expectations throughout, even though I was not to address him at any time during the meet.
Although I had a lot of fun with his wife, it was clear that her attention (i.e. eye contact) was predominantly on him for the duration.
I don't know whether that is typical of a cuckold relationship or not but I enjoyed the role I played and found the dynamic of satisfying him by pleasuring her very exciting. |
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As a single male, whenever lucky enough to meet with a couple I find it’s always important to remind myself that I am an added ‘toy’ in their relationship. They come first.
So communication is key as is understanding boundaries and what they are looking for. My experience has all been positive, whether in a traditional threesome, a cuck relationship where he wanted pics and videos or a stag vixen arrangement.
If you all click, then no matter the dynamic it’ll be positive and work well. As with all things, meeting the right people is key |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is something you develop over the time of the relationship. 2 to tango and 3 to party but everyone has to be having fun.
Respect is key, but also knowing what all of us want. Try to understand what gets everyone to their happy ending has always been my go to approach
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