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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I'd like to experience a threesome with my hubby and another man by the middle of this year... has anybody ever had a bad experience with a threesome? |
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"So I'd like to experience a threesome with my hubby and another man by the middle of this year... has anybody ever had a bad experience with a threesome? "
Nope we have had a few mfm now, and they just get better all the time.
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"So I'd like to experience a threesome with my hubby and another man by the middle of this year... has anybody ever had a bad experience with a threesome? " No, only good ones here.
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I have been lucky to be invited into a few MFM threesomes, loved them all for different reasons.
All I would say is make sure you and hubby discuss rules and what is and isnt happening, and make sure the guy knows where he stands with your rules.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Also make sure you dont make hubby feel left out, sometimes a new experienced guy might take over and your hubby may feel threatened that you prefer the guy, so just ensure you show its hubby you prefer |
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only good ones here when i have joined a couple. many years ago with first wife we had few good 3 somes only one we wish we had not done was with a 'normal'
friend it was too close to home and he started expecting it every week.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Had a fair few good mmf threesomes! Some with my ex, some as the extra male. All are good fun. Its even better if you all get on and can have a laugh. Make sure you all know the rules and what you're all comfortable with.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I'd like to experience a threesome with my hubby and another man by the middle of this year... has anybody ever had a bad experience with a threesome?
I wouldn't know. I'm not bi." I've had loads of mmfs not one bi one ( unfortunately). Much easier to have a straight mmf than a straight ffm |
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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago
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"Also make sure you dont make hubby feel left out, sometimes a new experienced guy might take over and your hubby may feel threatened that you prefer the guy, so just ensure you show its hubby you prefer"
Good advice here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I'd like to experience a threesome with my hubby and another man by the middle of this year... has anybody ever had a bad experience with a threesome?
I wouldn't know. I'm not bi. I've had loads of mmfs not one bi one ( unfortunately). Much easier to have a straight mmf than a straight ffm " should probably add to that that hubby is actually straight hence the reason I'm yet to have a bi one. I've had mmfs without hubby but the best ones always involve hubby and preferably two guys with similar styles lol the more alike they are ( rough, hard or gentle, slow) the better they work together I find. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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The only problem I have ever had arranging MMFs has been when one guy hasn't turned up. As long as there is one guy there fun will be had but it can be a problem with unknown people. |
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"So I'd like to experience a threesome with my hubby and another man by the middle of this year... has anybody ever had a bad experience with a threesome?
I wouldn't know. I'm not bi."
Actually, I am bi and have had several, most of which have been soooooo much fun! Two bad ones where the other guy couldn't get it up and another mmmf where one of the guys burst into tears and ran off..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I havent been in MMF as of yet but would love to someday. I have had FFM and i loved it. All i say is make sure everyone knows where they stand..explain the do's and the dont's and have a good time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First MMF i had turned out to be a disaster.. Ex missus payed more attention to the other guy and i was left out..
First MFF was good but awkward as i only have one cock and couldnt please both at the same time lol..
First MFMF was okay, Ex got jealous seeing me fuck the other guys wife and so did he..
Comes down to experiance really.. Would deffo do it again but will be setting rules this time round..
Have fun.. You shall enjoy it.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes had one and no wont be again, was not a good experience.
Awwww that's a shame, maybe they just weren't the right people "
quite possible they were unfortunately maybe in time we will again but doesn't look good |
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Only tried it once but found it a great turn on (sugar). Wasn't sure what to expect but guy we met soon had me pushing a few boundaries.Ended up being spitroasted by hubby and male. What more can I say lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP just be careful which you are asking for :
MMF - two bi bikes
MFM - two straight blokes.
We only really have MFM and apart from once always had a great time.
As you are a couple, it is important to remember you are inviting another man to join you , and you need to make sure he feels relaxed and involved from the start.
Make sure you have discussed boundaries with the single guy in advance and of course each other.
Then relax and go with the flow, if not a cuckhold situation I find it important imo to remember (and for the single guy to know in advance) your hubby/partner is the alpha male.
We have always as said have great fun, bar once, and it is our favourite type of meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP just be careful which you are asking for :
MMF - two bi bikes
MFM - two straight blokes.
We only really have MFM and apart from once always had a great time.
As you are a couple, it is important to remember you are inviting another man to join you , and you need to make sure he feels relaxed and involved from the start.
Make sure you have discussed boundaries with the single guy in advance and of course each other.
Then relax and go with the flow, if not a cuckhold situation I find it important imo to remember (and for the single guy to know in advance) your hubby/partner is the alpha male.
We have always as said have great fun, bar once, and it is our favourite type of meet!"
I love those bi bikes. They go both ways.
M
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for all the advice guys I will make sure hubby doesn't feel left out! Just to point out he is straight, the threesome is for my satisfaction "
The best are always when the fem is the centre of attention!!
Good luck - and yet to meet a woman who didn't enjoy double the fun!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for all the advice guys I will make sure hubby doesn't feel left out! Just to point out he is straight, the threesome is for my satisfaction
The best are always when the fem is the centre of attention!!
Good luck - and yet to meet a woman who didn't enjoy double the fun!! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP just be careful which you are asking for :
MMF - two bi bikes
MFM - two straight blokes.
We only really have MFM and apart from once always had a great time.
As you are a couple, it is important to remember you are inviting another man to join you , and you need to make sure he feels relaxed and involved from the start.
Make sure you have discussed boundaries with the single guy in advance and of course each other.
Then relax and go with the flow, if not a cuckhold situation I find it important imo to remember (and for the single guy to know in advance) your hubby/partner is the alpha male.
We have always as said have great fun, bar once, and it is our favourite type of meet!"
Thanks for that, I didn't know the different terms! Ours would be an MFM then as hubby is straight lol. Learn something new every day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP just be careful which you are asking for :
MMF - two bi bikes
MFM - two straight blokes.
We only really have MFM and apart from once always had a great time.
As you are a couple, it is important to remember you are inviting another man to join you , and you need to make sure he feels relaxed and involved from the start.
Make sure you have discussed boundaries with the single guy in advance and of course each other.
Then relax and go with the flow, if not a cuckhold situation I find it important imo to remember (and for the single guy to know in advance) your hubby/partner is the alpha male.
We have always as said have great fun, bar once, and it is our favourite type of meet!
Thanks for that, I didn't know the different terms! Ours would be an MFM then as hubby is straight lol. Learn something new every day "
I learnt that the hard way, I kept going on about MMF and one bloke was completely put off and then told me why, and never spoke to us again |
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"So I'd like to experience a threesome with my hubby and another man by the middle of this year... has anybody ever had a bad experience with a threesome? "
No, I love them
Look for guys who are experienced with couples, have veris to prove it and take your time to get to know them.
Don't rush into it and you'll make your first MFM memorable.
Bedt of luck |
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MMF - two bi bikes
MFM - two straight blokes.
I didn't know this...ty, although I'm not sure it would make much difference to me "
Not many do, do the terms are often mixed up. I always assume a MMF is straight unless mentioned otherwise.
Always wise checking before you commit though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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MMF - two bi bikes
MFM - two straight blokes.
I didn't know this...ty, although I'm not sure it would make much difference to me
Not many do, do the terms are often mixed up. I always assume a MMF is straight unless mentioned otherwise.
Always wise checking before you commit though "
Its not set in stone,not once in over 5 yrs has anyone ever said oh you want an mmf that means the OH is bi and wants a bi male
Its just a mish mash of letters,now im scared to say mmf and have been forced to call if mfm in these forums
But you're right,most things would be discussed before hand anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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MMF - two bi bikes
MFM - two straight blokes.
I didn't know this...ty, although I'm not sure it would make much difference to me
Not many do, do the terms are often mixed up. I always assume a MMF is straight unless mentioned otherwise.
Always wise checking before you commit though
Its not set in stone,not once in over 5 yrs has anyone ever said oh you want an mmf that means the OH is bi and wants a bi male
Its just a mish mash of letters,now im scared to say mmf and have been forced to call if mfm in these forums
But you're right,most things would be discussed before hand anyway"
It really makes me smile when people assume that things mean this or that (and its set inn stone?!). Why on earth don't some people speak to each other?
I always ask questions to make sure that my understanding and their understanding match. So many different terms and so many different interpretations. |
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Just be very selective and choose someone nice. We have a few times now. First time was slightly strange feeling i should be showing hubby more attention but after a good discussion afterwards its been great fun. Mrs x |
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