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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have noticed alot of fake profiles on here who are promoting certain swinging clubs. I have received quite a few replies of so called females and couples who seem very keen on me joining them at clubs but suddenly go quiet when i mention chatting on msn or the phone. Is this common or do i just attract all the frauds on here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you have a reason to believe a profile is fake then report it
If however they just meet at clubs like we do then maybe they have decided after chatting to you that they don't want to meet up after all
That does'nt mean they're fake |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Iam not suggesting they are all fake, but often there first reply is often " do you ever go to so and so club its really good you should go etc" without any chat about themselves , it just seems a bit blatant to me. I realise alot of people feel safer and prefer meeting at clubs however there seems to be a few profiles on here who are on solely to get people to go whether they will be there or not which is a bit of a con tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs are a huge part of swinging for for some people
Maybe you should avoid people that are into clubs and concentrate on contacting people that play at home or hotels |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do, iam not into clubs so often messagae people who say they can accommodate or travel, they dont advertise the clubs on there profile just when they reply. I know this sounds like another single guy moaning on here lol but I do feel its a bit others into going to clubs when there profile is fake. |
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We advertise when we are going to a club. We do like to play with new people and like to meet in the comfort of a club. Also i [mrs manu] am greedy and like to play with several guys at once. We dont often give our msn add as we forget who is who and we can mail on the site just as easy. As for telephone conversations we give our number sometimes, but have had problems with that. We love clubs but understand others do not, we encourage people to try them but do not nag.
happy swinging to you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice, i have reported those who I think are fake so hopefully something might be done."
I can't promise anything will be done,Admin will look and see if they think they're fake
They may not agree with you though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We advertise when we are going to a club. We do like to play with new people and like to meet in the comfort of a club. Also i [mrs manu] am greedy and like to play with several guys at once. We dont often give our msn add as we forget who is who and we can mail on the site just as easy. As for telephone conversations we give our number sometimes, but have had problems with that. We love clubs but understand others do not, we encourage people to try them but do not nag.
happy swinging to you!"
Gotta agree with you. Its often difficult to meet at home- especially if you have kids etc, so we sometimes arrange meets at clubs and have found this to be very convenient for us, and avoids inviting unknown people to your home. Perhaps the OP may have misunderstood peoples intentions in this matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the advice, i have reported those who I think are fake so hopefully something might be done."
Think you may be being a bit presumptious Think ur gonna need something more to prove these people are promoting clubs rather than being unable - or unwilling - to meet you where you think they should |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the advice, i have reported those who I think are fake so hopefully something might be done.
Think you may be being a bit presumptious Think ur gonna need something more to prove these people are promoting clubs rather than being unable - or unwilling - to meet you where you think they should"
here! here! we have a private life and want to keep it that way...
clubs for us just ease the pressure a little... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe their houses are, like, really really untidy so that's why they only want to meet at clubs 
Oh, er... I'm not implying that those who reply to this thread have dirty houses. Honest!  "
How did you guess our house is untidy and that's why we meet at clubs lol - its not dirty tho  |
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