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FAB- sex site or dating site
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its both and neither. The site is what ever the user wants it to be. Some on here have no plan to ever meet or date they just want to talk and indulged in fantasy, some meet for sex and if something develops then great. It is down to the site user. Whats your opinion OP? |
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I'd say it's a swingers site some people like dates, some like a quick fuck and go, some do look for long term partners and some have succeeded in that.
I guess it's whatever you want it to be to fit what your looking for.
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Clues in the name!
It’s a swingers site. However I’ve never seen that term described successfully so there lies the problem.
Being how the sure rules work, it attracts a variety of people using it in whatever way they want.
Some people just wanna be exhibitionists with their pics, others just want to look at the pics. Some people wanna arrange quick one time meets. Others want to use it for dating.
There’s no one answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I am looking to date
Sometimes I am looking for sex
Sometimes I just want to talk to people
Sometimes I just want to show off pictures
See it’s a what ever you want it to be site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I am looking to date
Sometimes I am looking for sex
Sometimes I just want to talk to people
Sometimes I just want to show off pictures
See it’s a what ever you want it to be site "
Exactly this  |
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"It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I am looking to date
Sometimes I am looking for sex
Sometimes I just want to talk to people
Sometimes I just want to show off pictures
See it’s a what ever you want it to be site "
100% nailed it
Having been on here 10 years tho I do feel what Fab was then is now a much watered down version of what it was
Not so much swinging but an extension more to Tinder for most
So many fake accounts too
That’s why we like clubs for meeting and fab for staying in touch
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"I’ve always been of the opinion that FAB is a sex site and cannot understand why people would be looking for a life long partner on such a site
Must be me being old fashioned "
Spent 23 years with an awful cruel man I met the ‘old fashioned’ way. Worst sex life ever
Met my best friend and life long partner through swinging 8 years ago. Best sex life ever
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I’ve always been of the opinion that FAB is a sex site and cannot understand why people would be looking for a life long partner on such a site
Must be me being old fashioned "
Fab is whatever someone wants it to be within site rules.
I always find this comment that some people make would not find a long term partner on here strange and says more about the attitude of those who say it. It's like you look down at the women on here because they are on this site so they are somehow tainted and only any good for a fuck. But it's fine for you to be on here.
I personally don't think that attitude has anything to do with being old fashioned but more to do with having double standards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I am looking to date
Sometimes I am looking for sex
Sometimes I just want to talk to people
Sometimes I just want to show off pictures
See it’s a what ever you want it to be site
Exactly this "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I am looking to date
Sometimes I am looking for sex
Sometimes I just want to talk to people
Sometimes I just want to show off pictures
See it’s a what ever you want it to be site
100% nailed it
Having been on here 10 years tho I do feel what Fab was then is now a much watered down version of what it was
Not so much swinging but an extension more to Tinder for most
So many fake accounts too
That’s why we like clubs for meeting and fab for staying in touch
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Thanks and yes the land scape is a little different now than it was back then 13 years on and off for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I am looking to date
Sometimes I am looking for sex
Sometimes I just want to talk to people
Sometimes I just want to show off pictures
See it’s a what ever you want it to be site
Exactly this
Thanks "
Spot on |
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"In your opinion is Fab a dating site or a sex site ?"
It is neither - it is a swinging site.
I respect those who want to date but they are missing the point. Those who think it is just about sex are also missing the point.
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"I’ve always been of the opinion that FAB is a sex site and cannot understand why people would be looking for a life long partner on such a site
Must be me being old fashioned
Fab is whatever someone wants it to be within site rules.
I always find this comment that some people make would not find a long term partner on here strange and says more about the attitude of those who say it. It's like you look down at the women on here because they are on this site so they are somehow tainted and only any good for a fuck. But it's fine for you to be on here.
I personally don't think that attitude has anything to do with being old fashioned but more to do with having double standards. "
This is very true
No set rules where or when you can fall in love |
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"I’ve always been of the opinion that FAB is a sex site and cannot understand why people would be looking for a life long partner on such a site
Must be me being old fashioned
Fab is whatever someone wants it to be within site rules.
I always find this comment that some people make would not find a long term partner on here strange and says more about the attitude of those who say it. It's like you look down at the women on here because they are on this site so they are somehow tainted and only any good for a fuck. But it's fine for you to be on here.
I personally don't think that attitude has anything to do with being old fashioned but more to do with having double standards.
This is very true
No set rules where or when you can fall in love "
There’s several couples who’ve met on here isn’t there….. |
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When I was single I had no luck at all from this site. People not turning up, people chatting then disappearing, dealing with idiots and time wasters. I can honestly say I had lots of good experiences and fun from a couple of vanilla dating sites. As a result now with a lady who shares my interests. |
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"I’ve always been of the opinion that FAB is a sex site and cannot understand why people would be looking for a life long partner on such a site
Must be me being old fashioned
Fab is whatever someone wants it to be within site rules.
I always find this comment that some people make would not find a long term partner on here strange and says more about the attitude of those who say it. It's like you look down at the women on here because they are on this site so they are somehow tainted and only any good for a fuck. But it's fine for you to be on here.
I personally don't think that attitude has anything to do with being old fashioned but more to do with having double standards.
This is very true
No set rules where or when you can fall in love
There’s several couples who’ve met on here isn’t there….."
There is indeed , we know loads of couples that met on here or in the scene and their relationships rock solid |
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For me it’s a sex site.
But as long as people are clear their intentions with the people they talk too and meet then they are free to use it however they wish 
Can’t help where you meet people if you fall for them.
I “vanilla” date as I don’t wish to swing in a relationship but have dated from here too.
As long as everyone’s honest |
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"Its both and neither. The site is what ever the user wants it to be. Some on here have no plan to ever meet or date they just want to talk and indulged in fantasy, some meet for sex and if something develops then great. It is down to the site user. Whats your opinion OP? "
This!
And it's supposed to be a swingers site - for people who enjoy non-monogamy. Not just a quick "any hole is a goal" hook up site or a "sex chat" site, but also not another Match. However, people use it in so many different ways, and if you find the right person/people, it can be a match made in heaven. I met my partner on here, at the time when I was at my lowest, and we are still together nearly 5 years on. We have an open relationship and that works well for both of us. |
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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago
Kingsbridge |
"Its both and neither. The site is what ever the user wants it to be. Some on here have no plan to ever meet or date they just want to talk and indulged in fantasy, some meet for sex and if something develops then great. It is down to the site user. Whats your opinion OP? "
Very reasoned and sensible comments! |
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It’s a site for both really however people seem to get annoyed when you say no and you get back “you shouldn’t be on a sex sore then” just because people are on here doesn’t mean they want to do anything with you |
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"I’ve always been of the opinion that FAB is a sex site and cannot understand why people would be looking for a life long partner on such a site
Must be me being old fashioned "
Double standards on your part I expect. |
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Its a swinging site ,but used by different people for different things.
Some see it as a sex site,others use it for socials and the forum and then you get people who use fab to meet partners
As long as people are upfront about their intentions,it can be whatever they want it to be.
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