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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now shes got the green card. Watch out it might not feel horny one day 
Mrs C
Was 9 years ago "
That you know of. That's the thing with cheating, it's mostly a secret |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Sharing is caring cheating is abhorrent.. that’s not why we like to do what we do.. why ruin a good thing, I love him dearly but cheating is the lowest.. just no
Exactly this. "
Yes. It’s the lies not the sex. After so many years too. There were excuses but ….. |
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"Finding out your wife cheated!! Being absolutely fuming. Then few weeks later…..getting all the details…finding it horny as feck!!
Anyone else?"
Well that’s nice for you but the deception would be too much for me to accept |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"Finding out your wife cheated!! Being absolutely fuming. Then few weeks later…..getting all the details…finding it horny as feck!!
Anyone else?
Well that’s nice for you but the deception would be too much for me to accept"
I did struggle with that. Mitigating circumstances too though |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
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"It'd be horny when she was kicked out the house for cheating.
That was close. There may be valid reasons too…..
Valid reasons for cheating? Care to give an example?  "
My terrible behaviour…..it’s difficult to explain …. |
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"It'd be horny when she was kicked out the house for cheating.
That was close. There may be valid reasons too…..
Valid reasons for cheating? Care to give an example?
My terrible behaviour…..it’s difficult to explain …."
Still a nope from us. |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"It'd be horny when she was kicked out the house for cheating.
That was close. There may be valid reasons too…..
Valid reasons for cheating? Care to give an example?
My terrible behaviour…..it’s difficult to explain ….
Still a nope from us. "
That’s fine. I don’t need and didn’t ask for you approval or otherwise but thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It'd be horny when she was kicked out the house for cheating.
That was close. There may be valid reasons too…..
Valid reasons for cheating? Care to give an example?
My terrible behaviour…..it’s difficult to explain …."
Do you both feel better now it's in the open? Sounds like you can get through it. |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"It'd be horny when she was kicked out the house for cheating.
That was close. There may be valid reasons too…..
Valid reasons for cheating? Care to give an example?
My terrible behaviour…..it’s difficult to explain ….
Do you both feel better now it's in the open? Sounds like you can get through it. "
Was nearly ten years ago so yeah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finding out your wife cheated!! Being absolutely fuming. Then few weeks later…..getting all the details…finding it horny as feck!!
Anyone else?"
Nope if wife cheated it would be the end of our 40 year old relationship .
It's the ultimate betrayal.
There would be no coming back from that. |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"Finding out your wife cheated!! Being absolutely fuming. Then few weeks later…..getting all the details…finding it horny as feck!!
Anyone else?
Nope if wife cheated it would be the end of our 40 year old relationship .
It's the ultimate betrayal.
There would be no coming back from that."
I thought that…at first |
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"Finding out your wife cheated!! Being absolutely fuming. Then few weeks later…..getting all the details…finding it horny as feck!!
Anyone else?
Nope if wife cheated it would be the end of our 40 year old relationship .
It's the ultimate betrayal.
There would be no coming back from that."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting ……."
She is not going behind your back.
It's the betrayal of trust.
That's cheating.
You being there is more swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting ……."
Do you know what cheating means? |
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My now X wife and I used to swing together, go to clubs and had regular 3 sums with a few male friends. I found out she cheated on me one night with her boss. Have to say I had mixed emotions. 1 min I was fuming the next I was turned on. Long story short we split up and she kept the house. Found out months later that she had been fucking my best mate all the way through our relationship. Also after speaking to her some years later she admitted to having a 6 man gang bang whilst I was at work. It destroyed me at the time. Now 20 years later I think about it and have a wank. How emotions can change over time  |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"My now X wife and I used to swing together, go to clubs and had regular 3 sums with a few male friends. I found out she cheated on me one night with her boss. Have to say I had mixed emotions. 1 min I was fuming the next I was turned on. Long story short we split up and she kept the house. Found out months later that she had been fucking my best mate all the way through our relationship. Also after speaking to her some years later she admitted to having a 6 man gang bang whilst I was at work. It destroyed me at the time. Now 20 years later I think about it and have a wank. How emotions can change over time "
Crikey!!! |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means? "
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there? |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….She is not going behind your back.
It's the betrayal of trust.
That's cheating.
You being there is more swinging."
Of course you can give it different names. It’s still cheating though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?"
Strange bloke. |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
There’s a subtle but significant difference between cheating and ENM. "
Very subtle. And easier to excuse |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke."
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental "
Go on then define cheating ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?"
Sure... If you're there but don't consent to your partner fucking someone else.
If you consent that is not cheating. |
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Go on then define cheating ?"
I was interested so took a look. The definition of cheating in the Oxford dictionary is not in the context of sex at all, just dishonesty for gain.
But it defines Adultery as “ sex between a married person and someone who is not their husband or wife” so im guessing that by that definition all married swingers would be adulterers ? How odd
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental "
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheating is simple. Cheating is done behind the partners back without consent.
Exactly.
And in front is cheating with permission? But the lady still wants other men and not their partner? "
Sorry but you seem to be lost in your own despair
I'll leave you to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheating is simple. Cheating is done behind the partners back without consent.
Exactly.
And in front is cheating with permission? But the lady still wants other men and not their partner? "
If she wants to fuck other men but doesn't want her partner then he's a cuckold or perhaps he needs to be single. |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
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Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cheating is simple. Cheating is done behind the partners back without consent.
Exactly.
And in front is cheating with permission? But the lady still wants other men and not their partner? "
Or maybe she wants both? |
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people "
No , you are wrong
Cheating , to cheat is by definition being deceptive. Deceiving someone for personal gain in whatever wall of life be it money , sex , items
If you are having sex with other people with the full knowledge of your partner it is consensual and not deceptive in any way therefore can not be cheating or to cheat
It’s very easy to understand if you understand grammar and the use of words to describe |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people
No , you are wrong
Cheating , to cheat is by definition being deceptive. Deceiving someone for personal gain in whatever wall of life be it money , sex , items
If you are having sex with other people with the full knowledge of your partner it is consensual and not deceptive in any way therefore can not be cheating or to cheat
It’s very easy to understand if you understand grammar and the use of words to describe "
Ok I’m wrong. You are right. Didn’t mean to hurt your ego there. Although …having sex with someone who is not your partner but ok as they are there….well….it’s NOT cheating. Deffo is being faithful ! |
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people
No , you are wrong
Cheating , to cheat is by definition being deceptive. Deceiving someone for personal gain in whatever wall of life be it money , sex , items
If you are having sex with other people with the full knowledge of your partner it is consensual and not deceptive in any way therefore can not be cheating or to cheat
It’s very easy to understand if you understand grammar and the use of words to describe
Ok I’m wrong. You are right. Didn’t mean to hurt your ego there. Although …having sex with someone who is not your partner but ok as they are there….well….it’s NOT cheating. Deffo is being faithful ! "
Lol it’s not my ego that’s hurting, it’s my eyes from reading such bullshit !
I literally give up because I can’t help you to understand words and what those words mean
Keep believing your missus cheats if that’s your horn whilst is real swingers carry on seeing it for the reality we know it is
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people "
This thread seems to have gone rogue!
I think you’ll find that it’s a case of agreeing to disagree! Swinging means different things to different people and so (it seems!!) does cheating!
It all depends what your personal agreement is within your relationship. Ours is if either of us fuck someone else behind each other’s back it’s cheating and game over - the trust is gone. However, either one of us can fuck someone else with the other’s consent in the same room and that absolutely TO US is not cheating because we agreed it. Yes I do want to fuck other men, he wants to fuck other women and it works for us. If that’s different for you in your relationship then fair play!
You do you, we’ll do us. Live and let live. Fuck and let fuck …
Anyone for an orgy?! |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people
No , you are wrong
Cheating , to cheat is by definition being deceptive. Deceiving someone for personal gain in whatever wall of life be it money , sex , items
If you are having sex with other people with the full knowledge of your partner it is consensual and not deceptive in any way therefore can not be cheating or to cheat
It’s very easy to understand if you understand grammar and the use of words to describe
Ok I’m wrong. You are right. Didn’t mean to hurt your ego there. Although …having sex with someone who is not your partner but ok as they are there….well….it’s NOT cheating. Deffo is being faithful !
Lol it’s not my ego that’s hurting, it’s my eyes from reading such bullshit !
I literally give up because I can’t help you to understand words and what those words mean
Keep believing your missus cheats if that’s your horn whilst is real swingers carry on seeing it for the reality we know it is
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Ok calm down. You keep on thinking shagging others is not cheating if being present! Wow so much nastiness. |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I think that you should talk it through because you may have pushed her to it with out knowing and it’s not like she has stopped loving you or you her "
I did. And it was 9 years ago. We got through it |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people
This thread seems to have gone rogue!
I think you’ll find that it’s a case of agreeing to disagree! Swinging means different things to different people and so (it seems!!) does cheating!
It all depends what your personal agreement is within your relationship. Ours is if either of us fuck someone else behind each other’s back it’s cheating and game over - the trust is gone. However, either one of us can fuck someone else with the other’s consent in the same room and that absolutely TO US is not cheating because we agreed it. Yes I do want to fuck other men, he wants to fuck other women and it works for us. If that’s different for you in your relationship then fair play!
You do you, we’ll do us. Live and let live. Fuck and let fuck …
Anyone for an orgy?! "
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people
This thread seems to have gone rogue!
I think you’ll find that it’s a case of agreeing to disagree! Swinging means different things to different people and so (it seems!!) does cheating!
It all depends what your personal agreement is within your relationship. Ours is if either of us fuck someone else behind each other’s back it’s cheating and game over - the trust is gone. However, either one of us can fuck someone else with the other’s consent in the same room and that absolutely TO US is not cheating because we agreed it. Yes I do want to fuck other men, he wants to fuck other women and it works for us. If that’s different for you in your relationship then fair play!
You do you, we’ll do us. Live and let live. Fuck and let fuck …
Anyone for an orgy?! "
I'm in! With full consent of Mr Mischief  |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
chester |
"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people
This thread seems to have gone rogue!
I think you’ll find that it’s a case of agreeing to disagree! Swinging means different things to different people and so (it seems!!) does cheating!
It all depends what your personal agreement is within your relationship. Ours is if either of us fuck someone else behind each other’s back it’s cheating and game over - the trust is gone. However, either one of us can fuck someone else with the other’s consent in the same room and that absolutely TO US is not cheating because we agreed it. Yes I do want to fuck other men, he wants to fuck other women and it works for us. If that’s different for you in your relationship then fair play!
You do you, we’ll do us. Live and let live. Fuck and let fuck …
Anyone for an orgy?!
I'm in! With full consent of Mr Mischief "
Or not!! As the case may be |
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people
This thread seems to have gone rogue!
I think you’ll find that it’s a case of agreeing to disagree! Swinging means different things to different people and so (it seems!!) does cheating!
It all depends what your personal agreement is within your relationship. Ours is if either of us fuck someone else behind each other’s back it’s cheating and game over - the trust is gone. However, either one of us can fuck someone else with the other’s consent in the same room and that absolutely TO US is not cheating because we agreed it. Yes I do want to fuck other men, he wants to fuck other women and it works for us. If that’s different for you in your relationship then fair play!
You do you, we’ll do us. Live and let live. Fuck and let fuck …
Anyone for an orgy?!
I'm in! With full consent of Mr Mischief "
At the risk of thread hijacking … that’s a good start! |
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people
No , you are wrong
Cheating , to cheat is by definition being deceptive. Deceiving someone for personal gain in whatever wall of life be it money , sex , items
If you are having sex with other people with the full knowledge of your partner it is consensual and not deceptive in any way therefore can not be cheating or to cheat
It’s very easy to understand if you understand grammar and the use of words to describe
Ok I’m wrong. You are right. Didn’t mean to hurt your ego there. Although …having sex with someone who is not your partner but ok as they are there….well….it’s NOT cheating. Deffo is being faithful !
Lol it’s not my ego that’s hurting, it’s my eyes from reading such bullshit !
I literally give up because I can’t help you to understand words and what those words mean
Keep believing your missus cheats if that’s your horn whilst is real swingers carry on seeing it for the reality we know it is
Ok calm down. You keep on thinking shagging others is not cheating if being present! Wow so much nastiness. "
Lol again failing to understand words you are reading or saying
I’m outta here it’s boring me trying to help someone understand that doesn’t want to understand
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people
No , you are wrong
Cheating , to cheat is by definition being deceptive. Deceiving someone for personal gain in whatever wall of life be it money , sex , items
If you are having sex with other people with the full knowledge of your partner it is consensual and not deceptive in any way therefore can not be cheating or to cheat
It’s very easy to understand if you understand grammar and the use of words to describe
Ok I’m wrong. You are right. Didn’t mean to hurt your ego there. Although …having sex with someone who is not your partner but ok as they are there….well….it’s NOT cheating. Deffo is being faithful !
Lol it’s not my ego that’s hurting, it’s my eyes from reading such bullshit !
I literally give up because I can’t help you to understand words and what those words mean
Keep believing your missus cheats if that’s your horn whilst is real swingers carry on seeing it for the reality we know it is
Ok calm down. You keep on thinking shagging others is not cheating if being present! Wow so much nastiness.
Lol again failing to understand words you are reading or saying
I’m outta here it’s boring me trying to help someone understand that doesn’t want to understand
Yawn "
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people
No , you are wrong
Cheating , to cheat is by definition being deceptive. Deceiving someone for personal gain in whatever wall of life be it money , sex , items
If you are having sex with other people with the full knowledge of your partner it is consensual and not deceptive in any way therefore can not be cheating or to cheat
It’s very easy to understand if you understand grammar and the use of words to describe
Ok I’m wrong. You are right. Didn’t mean to hurt your ego there. Although …having sex with someone who is not your partner but ok as they are there….well….it’s NOT cheating. Deffo is being faithful !
Lol it’s not my ego that’s hurting, it’s my eyes from reading such bullshit !
I literally give up because I can’t help you to understand words and what those words mean
Keep believing your missus cheats if that’s your horn whilst is real swingers carry on seeing it for the reality we know it is
Ok calm down. You keep on thinking shagging others is not cheating if being present! Wow so much nastiness.
Lol again failing to understand words you are reading or saying
I’m outta here it’s boring me trying to help someone understand that doesn’t want to understand
Yawn
Ahhh so sorry you don’t get nuance. Keep your ego though. Enjoy. Try to calm down "
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over a year ago
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people
No , you are wrong
Cheating , to cheat is by definition being deceptive. Deceiving someone for personal gain in whatever wall of life be it money , sex , items
If you are having sex with other people with the full knowledge of your partner it is consensual and not deceptive in any way therefore can not be cheating or to cheat
It’s very easy to understand if you understand grammar and the use of words to describe
Ok I’m wrong. You are right. Didn’t mean to hurt your ego there. Although …having sex with someone who is not your partner but ok as they are there….well….it’s NOT cheating. Deffo is being faithful !
Lol it’s not my ego that’s hurting, it’s my eyes from reading such bullshit !
I literally give up because I can’t help you to understand words and what those words mean
Keep believing your missus cheats if that’s your horn whilst is real swingers carry on seeing it for the reality we know it is
Ok calm down. You keep on thinking shagging others is not cheating if being present! Wow so much nastiness.
Lol again failing to understand words you are reading or saying
I’m outta here it’s boring me trying to help someone understand that doesn’t want to understand
Yawn
Ahhh so sorry you don’t get nuance. Keep your ego though. Enjoy. Try to calm down
Ok Mr fantasist
Good night "
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Tash and I split up with each other for about 6 months absolutely buckled me at the time got back together and here we are 10 years later and those stories are now part of our sex life and have helped us move to a different level altogether love it! |
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"Tash and I split up with each other for about 6 months absolutely buckled me at the time got back together and here we are 10 years later and those stories are now part of our sex life and have helped us move to a different level altogether love it!"
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people
No , you are wrong
Cheating , to cheat is by definition being deceptive. Deceiving someone for personal gain in whatever wall of life be it money , sex , items
If you are having sex with other people with the full knowledge of your partner it is consensual and not deceptive in any way therefore can not be cheating or to cheat
It’s very easy to understand if you understand grammar and the use of words to describe
Ok I’m wrong. You are right. Didn’t mean to hurt your ego there. Although …having sex with someone who is not your partner but ok as they are there….well….it’s NOT cheating. Deffo is being faithful !
Lol it’s not my ego that’s hurting, it’s my eyes from reading such bullshit !
I literally give up because I can’t help you to understand words and what those words mean
Keep believing your missus cheats if that’s your horn whilst is real swingers carry on seeing it for the reality we know it is
Ok calm down. You keep on thinking shagging others is not cheating if being present! Wow so much nastiness.
Lol again failing to understand words you are reading or saying
I’m outta here it’s boring me trying to help someone understand that doesn’t want to understand
Yawn
Ahhh so sorry you don’t get nuance. Keep your ego though. Enjoy. Try to calm down
Ok Mr fantasist
Good night
Night night. Hope you and your ego have a nice sleep "
Pmsl
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"I think that you should talk it through because you may have pushed her to it with out knowing and it’s not like she has stopped loving you or you her
I did. And it was 9 years ago. We got through it "
And yet you’re meeting now as a couple, she seems to be getting all the action and you still class it as cheating??Seems like you aren’t over it to me. How bizarre and what a mess to bring others into |
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"I think that you should talk it through because you may have pushed her to it with out knowing and it’s not like she has stopped loving you or you her
I did. And it was 9 years ago. We got through it
And yet you’re meeting now as a couple, she seems to be getting all the action and you still class it as cheating??Seems like you aren’t over it to me. How bizarre and what a mess to bring others into "
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people
No , you are wrong
Cheating , to cheat is by definition being deceptive. Deceiving someone for personal gain in whatever wall of life be it money , sex , items
If you are having sex with other people with the full knowledge of your partner it is consensual and not deceptive in any way therefore can not be cheating or to cheat
It’s very easy to understand if you understand grammar and the use of words to describe
Ok I’m wrong. You are right. Didn’t mean to hurt your ego there. Although …having sex with someone who is not your partner but ok as they are there….well….it’s NOT cheating. Deffo is being faithful !
Lol it’s not my ego that’s hurting, it’s my eyes from reading such bullshit !
I literally give up because I can’t help you to understand words and what those words mean
Keep believing your missus cheats if that’s your horn whilst is real swingers carry on seeing it for the reality we know it is
Ok calm down. You keep on thinking shagging others is not cheating if being present! Wow so much nastiness.
Lol again failing to understand words you are reading or saying
I’m outta here it’s boring me trying to help someone understand that doesn’t want to understand
Yawn
Ahhh so sorry you don’t get nuance. Keep your ego though. Enjoy. Try to calm down
Ok Mr fantasist
Good night
Night night. Hope you and your ego have a nice sleep
Pmsl
Ego ?
Mate , honestly "
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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago
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To be fair to the OP, he was the one cheated on and he decided to stay together. Thread has got a bit confrontational, and maybe he has been a bit too defensive, but he hasn't done anything wrong. Fair enough cheating may finish a lot of relationships, but a lot also work through it. |
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"To be fair to the OP, he was the one cheated on and he decided to stay together. Thread has got a bit confrontational, and maybe he has been a bit too defensive, but he hasn't done anything wrong. Fair enough cheating may finish a lot of relationships, but a lot also work through it. "
I don’t think anyone argues with that
It’s more that he insists having sex with other people with their partners knowledge is still classed as cheating
That’s what has annoyed more people, very poor choice of words and incorrect
Unfortunately , when I have tried to help explain the difference differently he decided to be very confrontational and say I had a big ego ?
Have lit no idea what he was on about ? Strange comeback when you are in the wrong but hey ho , none such strange as folk |
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I’ve been thinking about this a bit more today and I’m wondering OP whether you prefer to class it that you wife is cheating because that’s what got you so turned on (after the initial fall out) all those years ago.
God knows why this has carried on spinning round in my head all day … I guess I’m just intrigued why a simple post turned into such a hotbed of disagreement.
Not looking to whip it up again, just interested if perhaps that might be the reason? Is it simply that the cheating element has turned into your own personal kink?
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I’ve been thinking about this a bit more today and I’m wondering OP whether you prefer to class it that you wife is cheating because that’s what got you so turned on (after the initial fall out) all those years ago.
God knows why this has carried on spinning round in my head all day … I guess I’m just intrigued why a simple post turned into such a hotbed of disagreement.
Not looking to whip it up again, just interested if perhaps that might be the reason? Is it simply that the cheating element has turned into your own personal kink?
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Cheating would end our relationship quite simply.
Everything we do in the swing world is based on openess, honesty and trust. Remove one of those and the relationship is over. We are free to meet others, we both have fwb's so it would be hard to imagine being cheated in our married relationship when we can have relationships with others openly. It's a tough call for others in less of an open situation. If I put myself in your shoes I'm not sure I could ever trust again, that would then cause jealousy issues (and I don't experience the jealousy emotion in swinging, only fomo!) |
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By *im Royle OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Cheating would end our relationship quite simply.
Everything we do in the swing world is based on openess, honesty and trust. Remove one of those and the relationship is over. We are free to meet others, we both have fwb's so it would be hard to imagine being cheated in our married relationship when we can have relationships with others openly. It's a tough call for others in less of an open situation. If I put myself in your shoes I'm not sure I could ever trust again, that would then cause jealousy issues (and I don't experience the jealousy emotion in swinging, only fomo!) "
And I thought too…but to give away 3 decades of a partnership over a …oh never mind. Free to meet others is the same really! |
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"People making out of wife shags someone but they are there it’s not cheating! Lol she wants other men??? Interesting …….
Do you know what cheating means?
Do you know it’s still cheating if you are there?
Strange bloke.
Lol most people would think swinging is strange. How very judgmental
Why are you on here. ?
Don’t mean to be rude but you have no idea of what swinging is about and are quite offensive banding cheating and swinging as the same
Being honest? I could say it’s offensive not agreeing ! It’s two sides of same coin. I agree it’s not honest with having an affair. But to say a wife or hubby shagging others isn’t cheating is an excuse to cheat. If one isn’t having sex with ones partner, they are cheating….it’s that simple. Fun!! But cheating still. Hope that helps and not judge like other nasty people
This thread seems to have gone rogue!
I think you’ll find that it’s a case of agreeing to disagree! Swinging means different things to different people and so (it seems!!) does cheating!
It all depends what your personal agreement is within your relationship. Ours is if either of us fuck someone else behind each other’s back it’s cheating and game over - the trust is gone. However, either one of us can fuck someone else with the other’s consent in the same room and that absolutely TO US is not cheating because we agreed it. Yes I do want to fuck other men, he wants to fuck other women and it works for us. If that’s different for you in your relationship then fair play!
You do you, we’ll do us. Live and let live. Fuck and let fuck …
Anyone for an orgy?!
I'm in! With full consent of Mr Mischief
Or not!! As the case may be "
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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago
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I know my wife would never cheat. She can fuck who she likes and as long as I know about it then its all good. Plus she knows how lucky she is to have me (when i see her laughing later on her phone ill know shes just read this x) |
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"I know my wife would never cheat. She can fuck who she likes and as long as I know about it then its all good. Plus she knows how lucky she is to have me (when i see her laughing later on her phone ill know shes just read this x)"
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"Finding out your wife cheated!! Being absolutely fuming. Then few weeks later…..getting all the details…finding it horny as feck!!
Anyone else?"
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Seems like you have some kind of fetish in regards to your wife cheating and theirs absolutely nothing wrong with that at all.
Surely tho you know the difference between being sneaky and deceiving someone you are supposed to care about and having a loving and honest with plenty of communication relationship.. |
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Nope. I don't see cheating as sexy or a turn on. We do things together. IF Mrs J would say to me, she'd like to play separately with some planning etc that's different to me. If she went (or myself) without planning, talking to each other and thoroughly working through this plan and kissed or slept with someone else, then that isn't on. That's cheating. Also, that's goodbye. Myself or Mrs J are worth a lot more than not being able to be honest with each other.
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Mrs cheated on me back in 2015. didn't knkw it at the tike but was charing with the guy about it. he was nice and he said she said that you 2 broke up. Not true. He was fucking her in the flat while I was at work. He also was forthcoming on all the stuff he was doing with her. it was a major turn on when he was telling me |
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