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I love seeing a beautiful couples profile, pictures of both is especially nice so both of us can perv or window shop.
Does it go for, or against you, if you only show images of Miss and none of Mr though? |
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"(Mr)
I love seeing a beautiful couples profile, pictures of both is especially nice so both of us can perv or window shop.
Does it go for, or against you, if you only show images of Miss and none of Mr though?"
We tried both. But recently put a picture up of the missus on her own and the amount of single males just addressing her was pretty hilarious. Us men are in the background are waving like hello there, I’m the cock block  |
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We get winks and messages off profiles that we don't reply too that only have photo's of the Lady. If there were photo's of both we're more likely to reply. However people put whatever pics they want up even if they decreases their chances of a reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are looking to meet both then yes I’d want to see pics of the man.
But as we are just looking for single men we don’t feel the need. We do always send private face pics of the both of us though. Just to show he’s real  |
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By *inojCouple
over a year ago
Manchester |
As we are only looking for single guys and I'm a straight voyeur...a high percentage of our pics are focused on Jo. There's one of the 2 of us and a few of me just to proved I exist  |
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"We tested putting a single pic of me up (mr) very little response but then but a single of T and it went mental. I understand I'm punching and I'm happy living that life."
You have some great pictures on your profile. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"If it is a couple you are looking to meet both so both should have pictures"
That word "should" again. The only "should" is that you should show the photos that work best for you. That some people don't like your choice is immaterial. |
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"If it is a couple you are looking to meet both so both should have pictures
That word "should" again. The only "should" is that you should show the photos that work best for you. That some people don't like your choice is immaterial. "
Oh. & this |
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By *ITnTATCouple
over a year ago
newcastle |
We have a lot of pics of tit as she’s hot as fuck and I (male) wanna show her off lol HOWEVER for us to meet a couple I wanna see both of you….neither of us “takes one for the team” so to speak
Tat x |
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"If there's only pics of the woman I assume the man is hideous and they are hoping that the woman in a couple wanting to meet them will fuck him anyway.  "
We discovered pretty quickly that if there's no pictures of the man but they said they wanted full swap, he wasn't interested and was either going along with it for his partners sake or just wanted to watch his partner with another man and or woman. After a couple of very depressing encounters where this quickly became obvious we use it as a clumsy filter. It might mean we miss some really great people but so be it. |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
West midlands |
"If there's only pics of the woman I assume the man is hideous and they are hoping that the woman in a couple wanting to meet them will fuck him anyway. "
Lol.
Men unless they are gym fit ripped are unglamorous , especially Asians. |
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Firstly I know that people may post whatever photos they want within site rules.
Apart from my reasons stated earlier I feel that expecting me to turn up to meet a couple even for a social where I'm the only one who hasn't seen what the person I'm expected to get sexual with is pretty disrespectful to me. Do I not matter or is it assumed I'm less important than the woman in the other couple and that I'll just go along with it all? |
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"If there's only pics of the woman I assume the man is hideous and they are hoping that the woman in a couple wanting to meet them will fuck him anyway.
Lol.
Men unless they are gym fit ripped are unglamorous , especially Asians. "
Respectfully what's the significance of glamour to the women you hope to meet? |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
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"Firstly I know that people may post whatever photos they want within site rules.
Apart from my reasons stated earlier I feel that expecting me to turn up to meet a couple even for a social where I'm the only one who hasn't seen what the person I'm expected to get sexual with is pretty disrespectful to me. Do I not matter or is it assumed I'm less important than the woman in the other couple and that I'll just go along with it all? "
I think nobody here go on blind dates.
Before you could plan a social meet, I am sure you swap face pics and then decide.
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"Firstly I know that people may post whatever photos they want within site rules.
Apart from my reasons stated earlier I feel that expecting me to turn up to meet a couple even for a social where I'm the only one who hasn't seen what the person I'm expected to get sexual with is pretty disrespectful to me. Do I not matter or is it assumed I'm less important than the woman in the other couple and that I'll just go along with it all?
I think nobody here go on blind dates.
Before you could plan a social meet, I am sure you swap face pics and then decide.
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We do meet socially and swap face pictures but if I can't see the guy on the profile we don't even interact with them. As I said earlier we've had too many experiences where it turns out he's not interested |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
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We do meet socially and swap face pictures but if I can't the guy we don't even interact with the profile. As I said earlier we've had too many experiences where it turns out he's not interested "
Lucky you , we hardly get any female half of a cpl chatting to us and planning meets. Most of the time is the male chatting, which is not an issue at all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Firstly I know that people may post whatever photos they want within site rules.
Apart from my reasons stated earlier I feel that expecting me to turn up to meet a couple even for a social where I'm the only one who hasn't seen what the person I'm expected to get sexual with is pretty disrespectful to me. Do I not matter or is it assumed I'm less important than the woman in the other couple and that I'll just go along with it all? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have pictures of us both and plenty of face pictures of us as a couple....and they are recent. We love couple profiles but there are usually no pictures of the males. |
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over a year ago
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"If there's only pics of the woman I assume the man is hideous and they are hoping that the woman in a couple wanting to meet them will fuck him anyway.
Lol.
Men unless they are gym fit ripped are unglamorous , especially Asians. "
In your opinion.
I'm not into gym fit ripped men at all, no matter who they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a couples profile, pics of both should be on the profile and ours has, if we are trying to get a couple to swap with us then they both need to see us, likewise we would expect the same.
The only time female only pics in a couples profile would work (I imagine) if it's for mfm play? Where the people they are meeting are only interested in the female?
Danish x |
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I think it goes against most profiles, if they don't show the male on their profile (if both play).
Why? Because of all the posts from couples asking why they can't meet a fem or are struggling to get replies from other couples.I've also seen threads moaning that men only address the woman of the couple ,when there's just pics of her .
Unless only the lady plays ,it's in their interests to show both people ,even one or two of the man to give an idea of his build etc.
I'm straight,so I'd only be interested in the male anyway.
we've been here years now and just ignore these types of profiles now,unless they attach pics of him in a message.
Past experience often showed us that it's hard to get pics of him ,there can be excuses of why they don't have them.Then when we finally did see him ,there would often be no attraction on my part.
Of course everyone can choose how to run their profiles & we can ignore the ones that don't appeal.
It feels as if the profiles full of just the ladies ,are only looking for fem play or for the lady to be the centre of play.
We come as a couple and both play ,so why wouldn't we show Jack too.
Just my musings .
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"Firstly I know that people may post whatever photos they want within site rules.
Apart from my reasons stated earlier I feel that expecting me to turn up to meet a couple even for a social where I'm the only one who hasn't seen what the person I'm expected to get sexual with is pretty disrespectful to me. Do I not matter or is it assumed I'm less important than the woman in the other couple and that I'll just go along with it all? "
I'm totally with you on this, and trying to get a photo via message is usually useless too so we just pass any of those profiles.
I'm not into blind date.
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We do meet socially and swap face pictures but if I can't the guy we don't even interact with the profile. As I said earlier we've had too many experiences where it turns out he's not interested
Lucky you , we hardly get any female half of a cpl chatting to us and planning meets. Most of the time is the male chatting, which is not an issue at all.
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It's most often me typing messages but Mr N reads them all and has equal input. We're looking for couple's whose dynamic matches ours i.e. they're both in it for the same reasons. If a couples dynamic is that the male doesn't want to show what he looks like on the profile we respect that and wish them well but we're not compatible. |
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"(Mr)
I love seeing a beautiful couples profile, pictures of both is especially nice so both of us can perv or window shop.
Does it go for, or against you, if you only show images of Miss and none of Mr though?"
Against as I'm bi  |
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"Firstly I know that people may post whatever photos they want within site rules.
Apart from my reasons stated earlier I feel that expecting me to turn up to meet a couple even for a social where I'm the only one who hasn't seen what the person I'm expected to get sexual with is pretty disrespectful to me. Do I not matter or is it assumed I'm less important than the woman in the other couple and that I'll just go along with it all?
I'm totally with you on this, and trying to get a photo via message is usually useless too so we just pass any of those profiles.
I'm not into blind date.
Mrs "
We did try asking for photos via message. Some outright refused, some sent a very blurry shot which could have been anybody and some sent a penis, which again could have been anybody  |
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We only had pics of kez and realised that wasn’t right for us as those we contact want to see pics of both of us, the balance isn’t there yet but will update with more.
I think most people still only look at pics of kez anyway, understandably |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to see both if they are both meeting, I generally won't reply to ones I can't see the man.
Mrs "
Same for us too! We want to see what both look like.
J x |
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"(Mr)
I love seeing a beautiful couples profile, pictures of both is especially nice so both of us can perv or window shop.
Does it go for, or against you, if you only show images of Miss and none of Mr though?
Your profile says that Mr is bisexual and Miss is bicurious so why do you need pictures of both for both of you to be able to perv? Mr is bi sexual so will be happy perving at pictures of men or women and Miss is bicurious so will be happy perving at pictures of men and at the very least curious about pictures of women.
So therefore either the sexual orientations stated on your profile aren’t accurate or the comment about pictures of both being best isn’t accurate "
It's not about us, we wonder why some people only post pics of the missus when it's as likely a couple (regardless of orientation) might like to see both of you. |
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Just to clarify, I'm not saying people *must* post pics of both, but trying to gauge the respective motivations for doing or not doing so.
We're not blind, if we post a picture of him only it gets a couple of Fabs, if we post a picture of just her it gets 10 times more minimum.
But our motivation is to be transparent, those who take an instant dislike to either of us makes things a lot easier. |
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over a year ago
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"Just to clarify, I'm not saying people *must* post pics of both, but trying to gauge the respective motivations for doing or not doing so.
We're not blind, if we post a picture of him only it gets a couple of Fabs, if we post a picture of just her it gets 10 times more minimum.
But our motivation is to be transparent, those who take an instant dislike to either of us makes things a lot easier."
Men Fab pics a lot more than women do, hence the difference.
If I Fab a pic I'll often get a message saying some shite like "you fancy me? Let's fuck!"
But I just liked the pic..  |
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"Just to clarify, I'm not saying people *must* post pics of both, but trying to gauge the respective motivations for doing or not doing so.
We're not blind, if we post a picture of him only it gets a couple of Fabs, if we post a picture of just her it gets 10 times more minimum.
But our motivation is to be transparent, those who take an instant dislike to either of us makes things a lot easier.
Men Fab pics a lot more than women do, hence the difference.
If I Fab a pic I'll often get a message saying some shite like "you fancy me? Let's fuck!"
But I just liked the pic.. "
It's *almost* like they haven't read your profile and haven't picked up on the subtle hint of your orientation |
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"Just to clarify, I'm not saying people *must* post pics of both, but trying to gauge the respective motivations for doing or not doing so.
We're not blind, if we post a picture of him only it gets a couple of Fabs, if we post a picture of just her it gets 10 times more minimum.
But our motivation is to be transparent, those who take an instant dislike to either of us makes things a lot easier.
Men Fab pics a lot more than women do, hence the difference.
If I Fab a pic I'll often get a message saying some shite like "you fancy me? Let's fuck!"
But I just liked the pic..
It's *almost* like they haven't read your profile and haven't picked up on the subtle hint of your orientation "
They can't wank over my profile pic and read at the same time.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say we taste better than we look
You can't just out and say stuff like that, have to prove it now "
Unfortunately we are like those little bits of naughty food they give away to try.... can only have a taster but leaves you wanting more :p haha
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I think it’s nice to see both of them in a couple , no matter what they are looking for or how they play
Obv most profiles tend to have more of the female half as guys tend to not to take as many selfies  |
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"Both of us are on there as we come as a pair. Yeah we know most just want to see her but at least he gets a few token loves!
They aren't token, he's really nice x"
Awwwww thank you! I think so too but most, even couples, just seem to want to check the girls out but he's a big boy and isn't going to worry lol |
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We decided upon joining up that we'd have a fairly nice balance of us both in our gallery, some solo, some together, plus faces on display....it stands to reason that if we're trying to attract guys and girls then it's only fair that we display what's on offer |
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"Especially low life guys post another man's photos on gay & bi sites because they're cowards about the way they truly look"
They'll never meet anyone or if they do realise it's fake. It's a zero sum game. |
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"(Mr)
I love seeing a beautiful couples profile, pictures of both is especially nice so both of us can perv or window shop.
Does it go for, or against you, if you only show images of Miss and none of Mr though?"
personally we wouldnt meet a couple where we can see both partners, there has to be an attraction |
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"We decided upon joining up that we'd have a fairly nice balance of us both in our gallery, some solo, some together, plus faces on display....it stands to reason that if we're trying to attract guys and girls then it's only fair that we display what's on offer "
You have some truly beautiful pictures of you both together, the one of you climbing up him in b&w should be a big box-canvas wall art piece x |
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We have a few pics of Mr so people can see both of us, and we have some private face pics where we are both in the photo but there's far more of me. I like showing off in my lingerie as it helps boost my confidence. |
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"Remember tho' that someone has to take the photos. Ours try to include all involved and some may have been taken by a third/fourth party."
In the absence of a 3rd party, a good posable tripod is your best friend |
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If both are meeting kind of makes sense to have both in the pics.
If you’re selling any other item you’d post of pic of it - not just a description
If there’s no pics of Mr on profiles and both are looking to meet, then it’s generally not a pleasant surprise if you then get sent pics…so we take it they aren’t going to be our type.
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I prefer to perve profiles with no men on the pics 
but Jo of course likes a bit of both.
D.
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