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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are men far to obsessed with their cocks?
Most on here will know their size and have photos of it on their profile.
It is as if their cock is the only thing they believe others want.
For me I am more interested in your personality, your looks and possibly your body... Your cock is way, way down the list just below your shoe size.
So, stop obsessing and think about what really matters to us women... a cock picture won't get us into bed but a silver tongue might. |
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"Are men far to obsessed with their cocks? "
Short answer yes, men with a small one want bigger and men with a big one want to show it off all the time i.e. send dick pics or parade around the changing room with it swinging around.
PS. My shoe size is a 10  |
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I just tell them when they send multiple photos of thier cock.....yawn. is
You can have the best perfect Suze, perfect looking cock in the world but if it's attached to a Quasimodo u ain't coming near me.
One day guys will come to understand women like to see what it's attached to etc. But I think hell will freeze over before that happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some definitely are! Usually the chaps with an extreme close up of their cock for their profile pic - paired with a lacklustre bio it seems they might not have much else to offer."
Best they continue as they are. Instantly avoided.
Why tell them how to lie and behave a certain way and waste our time. |
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By *archelCouple
over a year ago
A field somewhere |
100% this. We've a few cock pics of Mr's for those who like it, but most of our photos are showing our faces/body, so people know what they're getting.
It switches me straight off when I see a profile full of dick pics.
Physical attraction and chemistry is king for me, not cock size. No wonder I say no more than yes lol
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"100% this. We've a few cock pics of Mr's for those who like it, but most of our photos are showing our faces/body, so people know what they're getting.
It switches me straight off when I see a profile full of dick pics.
Physical attraction and chemistry is king for me, not cock size. No wonder I say no more than yes lol
Mrs "
To be fair, none of your photos show your face or body, and the first 2 on your profile are of Mr’s dick. |
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Not me. I don't have a cock pick, just 2 play pics...as I find it all a bit ridickulous 
Standing with your phone in one hand and your Pen15 in the other.
Then getting an angle in the mirror.
Why bother?
We all have one. |
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"Are men far to obsessed with their cocks?
Most on here will know their size and have photos of it on their profile.
It is as if their cock is the only thing they believe others want.
For me I am more interested in your personality, your looks and possibly your body... Your cock is way, way down the list just below your shoe size.
So, stop obsessing and think about what really matters to us women... a cock picture won't get us into bed but a silver tongue might. "
Yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are men far to obsessed with their cocks?
Most on here will know their size and have photos of it on their profile.
It is as if their cock is the only thing they believe others want.
For me I am more interested in your personality, your looks and possibly your body... Your cock is way, way down the list just below your shoe size.
So, stop obsessing and think about what really matters to us women... a cock picture won't get us into bed but a silver tongue might. "
Guess so. The Brain is a tool aswell!!
What one gets used more?? |
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By *archelCouple
over a year ago
A field somewhere |
"100% this. We've a few cock pics of Mr's for those who like it, but most of our photos are showing our faces/body, so people know what they're getting.
It switches me straight off when I see a profile full of dick pics.
Physical attraction and chemistry is king for me, not cock size. No wonder I say no more than yes lol
Mrs
To be fair, none of your photos show your face or body, and the first 2 on your profile are of Mr’s dick. "
The ones showing our face and body are in our friends only album and we always send them with either the first or second message.
As for the first two pics showing Mr's cock, he didn't particularly want them on public, he's not really a show off, but I like his cock and asked him to put them to public. As for them being the first two, it's probably because they were the last ones uploaded to the site.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Guess so. The Brain is a tool aswell!!
What one gets used more?? "
Guess which one gets photographed the most?
Still have not had a photo of the brain and judging by the messages and photos we get a brain is a pretty rare thing on here |
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"100% this. We've a few cock pics of Mr's for those who like it, but most of our photos are showing our faces/body, so people know what they're getting.
It switches me straight off when I see a profile full of dick pics.
Physical attraction and chemistry is king for me, not cock size. No wonder I say no more than yes lol
Mrs "
I’d hope the cock pics are Mr’s lol |
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By *archelCouple
over a year ago
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"100% this. We've a few cock pics of Mr's for those who like it, but most of our photos are showing our faces/body, so people know what they're getting.
It switches me straight off when I see a profile full of dick pics.
Physical attraction and chemistry is king for me, not cock size. No wonder I say no more than yes lol
Mrs
I’d hope the cock pics are Mr’s lol"
They are lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After looking through many profiles on here I find women equally obsessed with breasts and sucking the cocks. I believe its a personal thing by the looks of it. What else is there for a man to advertise other than his manhood. Just imagine if you make chat with a guy and the first meet you have he ends up having an acorn. So some women like the let's see what your packing pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s up to the individual what they want on their p e.
Personally it does nothing for me and getting them sent privately with ‘want to suck this’ is a big turn off  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Are men far to obsessed with their cocks?
Most on here will know their size and have photos of it on their profile.
It is as if their cock is the only thing they believe others want.
For me I am more interested in your personality, your looks and possibly your body... Your cock is way, way down the list just below your shoe size.
So, stop obsessing and think about what really matters to us women... a cock picture won't get us into bed but a silver tongue might. "
Too many people on Fab speak as if their own opinions are those of every Fab member. What matters to me is quite different to what matters to you. When I'm swinging I don't look for personality (though I have found it), I look for fantasy sex with strangers, and my fantasies don't involve playing with what I consider to be an unattractive cock so I like to see 'the goods' as I browse profiles. Far from obsessing, many guys realise that quite a few women feel the same as me and therefore post pictures of their cocks. People should be allowed to post whatever (legal) photos they like without criticism, but in the knowledge those pictures won't appeal to everyone. |
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"Are men far to obsessed with their cocks?
Most on here will know their size and have photos of it on their profile.
It is as if their cock is the only thing they believe others want.
For me I am more interested in your personality, your looks and possibly your body... Your cock is way, way down the list just below your shoe size.
So, stop obsessing and think about what really matters to us women... a cock picture won't get us into bed but a silver tongue might.
Too many people on Fab speak as if their own opinions are those of every Fab member. What matters to me is quite different to what matters to you. When I'm swinging I don't look for personality (though I have found it), I look for fantasy sex with strangers, and my fantasies don't involve playing with what I consider to be an unattractive cock so I like to see 'the goods' as I browse profiles. Far from obsessing, many guys realise that quite a few women feel the same as me and therefore post pictures of their cocks. People should be allowed to post whatever (legal) photos they like without criticism, but in the knowledge those pictures won't appeal to everyone. "
Well said. A cock cock.
I think that most want affirmation that theirs is the best looking cock.
I must admit being able to see the goods upfront does help in the decision making process |
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"Some definitely are! Usually the chaps with an extreme close up of their cock for their profile pic - paired with a lacklustre bio it seems they might not have much else to offer.
Best they continue as they are. Instantly avoided.
Why tell them how to lie and behave a certain way and waste our time."
It's an easy filter for sure  |
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By *llie AssMan
over a year ago
South Yorkshire |
"Are men far to obsessed with their cocks?
Most on here will know their size and have photos of it on their profile.
It is as if their cock is the only thing they believe others want.
For me I am more interested in your personality, your looks and possibly your body... Your cock is way, way down the list just below your shoe size.
So, stop obsessing and think about what really matters to us women... a cock picture won't get us into bed but a silver tongue might. "
No, but them I'm unusual |
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I wouldn't say obsessed. I like mine, im always a bit unsure if its big enough etc, I have pics of it because this is a swinging site and I was under the impression that its what you do? Show the goods...
Would you buy a car online just based on the wording and no pictures?? |
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"Are men far to obsessed with their cocks?
Most on here will know their size and have photos of it on their profile.
It is as if their cock is the only thing they believe others want.
For me I am more interested in your personality, your looks and possibly your body... Your cock is way, way down the list just below your shoe size.
So, stop obsessing and think about what really matters to us women... a cock picture won't get us into bed but a silver tongue might. "
You can't blame them. The amount of meets, status's wanting big cock drives it! |
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By *onicZMan
over a year ago
Nottinghamshire |
It can be difficult to know what's best to do regarding this.
As a lot have said on the thread, no one wants to play with a horrible looking cock, but at the same time people don't want it shoved in their face.
Personally I try to keep my profile with some mystery even though I do enjoy showing off. People can always ask for more.
I don't even have a full on picture on fab or my phone so I'd be going out of my way to get one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After looking through many profiles on here I find women equally obsessed with breasts and sucking the cocks. I believe it’s a personal thing by the looks of it. What else is there for a man to advertise other than his manhood. Just imagine if you make chat with a guy and the first meet you have he ends up having an acorn. So some women like the let's see what your packing pic."
…men could advertise torso/candid body pics etc Many dick pics on here don’t even belong to the profile -
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When it comes to sex all men have is their cock so why not, we can do what we want. Time some of the women on here stopped been so obsessed with trying to look young with their fake hair color, fake tans and tacky lingerie and plastering self indulgent photos of themselves on their profile. Not attractive! |
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"When it comes to sex all men have is their cock so why not, we can do what we want. Time some of the women on here stopped been so obsessed with trying to look young with their fake hair color, fake tans and tacky lingerie and plastering self indulgent photos of themselves on their profile. Not attractive!"
Off to get some popcorn, anyone else want some? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When it comes to sex all men have is their cock so why not, we can do what we want. Time some of the women on here stopped been so obsessed with trying to look young with their fake hair color, fake tans and tacky lingerie and plastering self indulgent photos of themselves on their profile. Not attractive!
Off to get some popcorn, anyone else want some? "
Haha..best way to turn women off slate them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many dick pics on here don’t even belong to the profile -
I don't understand that kind of thing. I want people to want to meet *me*."
*nods* It’s a ruse to initiate chat & reel people in. Men that do this aren’t likely to meet or hope that the people that do meet them will let them off |
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Tbh a lot of a man’s sexuality or lack of is driven or expesed through their penis. It’s where they will probably fist notice a response to a stimulus. An erection is a clear personal statement of I am up for it and ready |
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By *llie AssMan
over a year ago
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"Many dick pics on here don’t even belong to the profile -
I don't understand that kind of thing. I want people to want to meet *me*. *nods* It’s a ruse to initiate chat & reel people in. Men that do this aren’t likely to meet or hope that the people that do meet them will let them off "
I worry enough that I live up to my own profile pics and videos. Never mind someone else's! |
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"When it comes to sex all men have is their cock so why not, we can do what we want. Time some of the women on here stopped been so obsessed with trying to look young with their fake hair color, fake tans and tacky lingerie and plastering self indulgent photos of themselves on their profile. Not attractive!"
All men have is their cock?
Houston. We have a problem.
I won't even dare comment on the rest of it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When it comes to sex all men have is their cock so why not, we can do what we want. Time some of the women on here stopped been so obsessed with trying to look young with their fake hair color, fake tans and tacky lingerie and plastering self indulgent photos of themselves on their profile. Not attractive!"
All men have is their cock??! Wow
I'd rather use a dildo then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When it comes to sex all men have is their cock so why not, we can do what we want. Time some of the women on here stopped been so obsessed with trying to look young with their fake hair color, fake tans and tacky lingerie and plastering self indulgent photos of themselves on their profile. Not attractive!
All men have is their cock??! Wow
I'd rather use a dildo then. "
Exactly |
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By *archelCouple
over a year ago
A field somewhere |
"100% this. We've a few cock pics of Mr's for those who like it, but most of our photos are showing our faces/body, so people know what they're getting.
It switches me straight off when I see a profile full of dick pics.
Physical attraction and chemistry is king for me, not cock size. No wonder I say no more than yes lol
Mrs
To be fair, none of your photos show your face or body, and the first 2 on your profile are of Mr’s dick. "
On friends they do and via dm...Guess you didn't spot we've 40 friends only photos |
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"When it comes to sex all men have is their cock so why not, we can do what we want. Time some of the women on here stopped been so obsessed with trying to look young with their fake hair color, fake tans and tacky lingerie and plastering self indulgent photos of themselves on their profile. Not attractive!"
You know a tongues not just for talking, or fingers just for typing.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Odd thread, are women obsessed with their teats? All the profiles have their teats out….
Just saying
Teats
That made me laugh "
It's funny how certain words just make you giggle lol |
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"Odd thread, are women obsessed with their teats? All the profiles have their teats out….
Just saying
Teats
That made me laugh
It's funny how certain words just make you giggle lol"
Teats teats teats |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Odd thread, are women obsessed with their teats? All the profiles have their teats out….
Just saying
Teats
That made me laugh
Joining in here as well "
Getting my teats out for the boys
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For my serious contribution, I'll say that people are different: a big spectrum all the way from completely obsessed to indifferent.
You shouldn't "promote" your cock to those who don't want to see or hear about it. If you want to show it off, find those who do want to see it and indulge with them. Which obviously means no cock pic as a first approach - unless maybe they're asking for such in their profile. |
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"Odd thread, are women obsessed with their teats? All the profiles have their teats out….
Just saying
Teats
That made me laugh
Joining in here as well
Getting my teats out for the boys
(.Y.)"
Thank you very much |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Odd thread, are women obsessed with their teats? All the profiles have their teats out….
Just saying
Teats
That made me laugh
Joining in here as well
Getting my teats out for the boys
(.Y.)
Thank you very much "
You're welcome  lolol |
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
Fairytale Wood |
Some are - "Rate my cock threads"
Think reality is that most of the guys that join site are very naive, live in a fantasy, watch porn and think that cock is all girls want and flashing it they will drop their panties.
Some women encourage it, like guys fighting over them (cock fights ). Peer pressure to display their cock is better than the next guy to cause the said dropping of panties.
Don't know about obsession more competition.
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