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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
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just a general question to all about all ... is the scene (swinging of course) becoming more and more awashed with ''needy'' people...
what do you consider ''needy''
how do you deal with ''needy''
are you ''needy'' if so why
me i really cannot be done with needy people swinging for me is fun sexy friendship time to totally relax n chill with other hot n sexy people for me needy is a instant turn off and a 100% not meeting again ..
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We find it a complete turn off.
Our circumstances are such that we chat for quite a while with potential playmates because our free time is limited so needy switches us both off straight away........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Huge turn off we block so many guys that claim to be confident doms or bulls that turn into needy men when you don’t reply to them instantly it’s a huge no no for us  |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure what would class as needy during swinging?
I guess the most needy we have incurred is people needing daily messages and I CBA with that.
Mrs "
yep thats needy ... it quite often small things but some not so ...
needy can be anything outside what your offering or wanting so we will all be different ... quite often it comes with drama jealousy ...
i met a guy a few weeks back on another site we had a hot meet great fun and everyday since has messaged every day 3 or 4 times a day every message different wants to know everything family work of course i say nothing then ignore and move on (no block button)...
i dont want or need to know the ins and outs of a person im meeting i dont tell them anything i consider private yet more and more seem to be overstepping that line like they forget swinging is about fun its almost as if alot are getting poly and swinging mixed uop lol like one shag and they want to know everything like an obsession ....yuk yuk yuk
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's certainly not an attractive trait, and unfortunately people tend to act on their first impulse or thought that enters their head, particularly when it
Comes to communication.
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Surely this is due to poor communication? Some people need things spelling out for them. "
yep you would think so but im very forward in telling people whats ok for me and whats not im very clear on alot via profile too not that i rely on that as most dont read anyway ... |
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