So for your socials, where do you like to meet?
Coffee, pub, restaurants etc.... What's your go to place for a social, we've done bars, coffee but our upcoming one is bowling and I'm super excited.
Mrs |
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"So for your socials, where do you like to meet?
Coffee, pub, restaurants etc.... What's your go to place for a social, we've done bars, coffee but our upcoming one is bowling and I'm super excited.
Mrs "
Same as really , lunch , coffee etc
Have fun bowling 
Mrs W&W x |
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We've met in pubs, restaurants and coffee shops. Anywhere public.
Love the ideas on bowling or crazy golf - how did I never think? Would be great, though i don't like losing so would have to be on best behaviour and not throw a strop if I do!   
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"So for your socials, where do you like to meet?
Coffee, pub, restaurants etc.... What's your go to place for a social, we've done bars, coffee but our upcoming one is bowling and I'm super excited.
Mrs
Same as really , lunch , coffee etc
Have fun bowling
Mrs W&W x"
Thanks I'm sure we will x |
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"Always somewhere public as my 1st social is just that...a social with no play. Love having a coffee/drink whatever and a good natter..even played crazy golf a couple of times  "
Crazy golf sounds fun, not something I'd have thought of, I may have to steal this idea.
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We've met in pubs, restaurants and coffee shops. Anywhere public.
Love the ideas on bowling or crazy golf - how did I never think? Would be great, though i don't like losing so would have to be on best behaviour and not throw a strop if I do!
x J"
Haha I'm very prepared to loose
I'll hope for no strops
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"Always somewhere public as my 1st social is just that...a social with no play. Love having a coffee/drink whatever and a good natter..even played crazy golf a couple of times
Crazy golf sounds fun, not something I'd have thought of, I may have to steal this idea.
Mrs "
Good way to judge if they can get it in the hole (joking) |
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"Always somewhere public as my 1st social is just that...a social with no play. Love having a coffee/drink whatever and a good natter..even played crazy golf a couple of times
Crazy golf sounds fun, not something I'd have thought of, I may have to steal this idea.
Mrs
Good way to judge if they can get it in the hole (joking) "
good excuse to admire the bum too
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Pubs are fine for us.
We don't specifically have a problem with play on a first date if everyone is into it, so happy to meet couples at ours or theirs for a drink, so long as everyone understands that play is absolutely not a guarantee.
Would be ok with a coffee if earlier in the day too.
Still early days in our swinging lives though so never been invited to anything more interesting than that! |
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"So for your socials, where do you like to meet?
Coffee, pub, restaurants etc.... What's your go to place for a social, we've done bars, coffee but our upcoming one is bowling and I'm super excited.
Mrs "
Love different socials than just a boring coffee lol |
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Public place as safety first for a single lady  so few drinks in the pub ,no expectations of anything physical on a first meet but it has happened on a few happy spontaneous occasions when all are willing |
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Bars, pubs and restaurants mostly. I’d love more diverse ones a spa day or a walk or something different but then someone starts moaning it sounds ‘date like’ |
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"So for your socials, where do you like to meet?
Coffee, pub, restaurants etc.... What's your go to place for a social, we've done bars, coffee but our upcoming one is bowling and I'm super excited.
Mrs
Love different socials than just a boring coffee lol"
We thought it would break the ice a little I'm looking forward to it.
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Had a lush social out walking my friends dog in a park, the fact I still got kisses after picking up a giant poo and being clothes lined by the lead was a good indication he was into me.
Equally enjoy coffee shops. Not so keen on alcohol being involved until later down the line. |
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"Had a lush social out walking my friends dog in a park, the fact I still got kisses after picking up a giant poo and being clothes lined by the lead was a good indication he was into me.
Equally enjoy coffee shops. Not so keen on alcohol being involved until later down the line. "
Totally get where you are coming from re alcohol, things can sometimes take a wrong turn, but we don't tend to really drink (maybe 1) when socialising or playing anyway.
We'd meet anywhere for the right lady though - wink, wink |
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After all these years on the scene as a couple we've yet to have a social. We've both had them as singles but not yet as a couple. Our swinging revolves around clubs, parties and random encounters on nights out. So we can't speak from experience as such.
It's fair to say this mainly is because we have limited and random free time. But on top of that we know from experience you really can't tell if something is going to work and chemistry is right till you meet in the flesh. We fear both our time being wasted by no shows (we know this happens a lot) or just after all that ground work the chemistry just isn't there.
However we never say never and hope to experience this one day. So theoretically a good social for us would be meeting for some drinks or a nice pot of tea (like we did on our first social when we met each other as singles all that time ago). Daytime or evening. Not dinner, no food. Just refreshing drinks in a chilled environment where we can let ourselves go a bit and get comfortable in each others company. And although a social ideally with us or them having a hotel room around the corner (which doesn't need to be mentioned before hand). Thus just a no pressure social with the option for more in a neutral space if the chemistry and feeling is right. After all free time is precious and I think most people would also like that flexibility but without pressure to do anything more than a social. |
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We've met in pubs, restaurants and coffee shops. Anywhere public.
Love the ideas on bowling or crazy golf - how did I never think? Would be great, though i don't like losing so would have to be on best behaviour and not throw a strop if I do!
x J"
Ahhh. Well if you throw forfeits into the mix it can become very interesting. |
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