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“Wank Material” Compliment or not?
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
Would you take it as a compliment if women described you as "wank material"? If so, why?
As a woman of course I'm flattered if guys find me sexy enough to wank over, but I guess there are plenty of women who don't, perhaps because they want to be considered as more than just a body. |
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If it's on a photo that is meant to elicit a sexual response, such as posted on fab, it's a compliment, especially in such an over-saturated environment.
But on Facebook or LinkedIn, not so much.
Though it could be phrased better
'You excite me so much, I lose self-control'. |
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For me, I find it quite a compliment that guys find me attractive that they would do that thinking of me.
As a couple we have found that we both get turned on when we have spoken to guys who have did that x |
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By *ak4u OP Man
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Would you take it as a compliment if women described you as "wank material"? If so, why?
As a woman of course I'm flattered if guys find me sexy enough to wank over, but I guess there are plenty of women who don't, perhaps because they want to be considered as more than just a body."
“Would you take it as a compliment if women described you as "wank material"?”
I should be so lucky……  |
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"Would you take it as a compliment if women described you as "wank material"? If so, why?
As a woman of course I'm flattered if guys find me sexy enough to wank over, but I guess there are plenty of women who don't, perhaps because they want to be considered as more than just a body."
Certain dynamics don't exist or are not in vogue here....not sure any care to admit to flicking the bean over pics  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes. Mainly because I love watching men wank and it delightfully scratches a part of my brain. So if someone I was attracted to said I was wank material, even if it's a bit crude, I'd be flattered.
And sure, some men could wank over a lemon sliced in half. It's more about the sentiment behind it. And thinking about them wanking over me is never a bad thing. |
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By *onicZMan
over a year ago
Nottinghamshire |
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And sure, some men could wank over a lemon sliced in half. "
That tickled me 
I wouldn't describe anyone as "wank material" in those terms unless it was part of a sarcastic conversation where everyone was being crude |
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Nope I dislike the term 'wank material ' very much, I find it dehumanising. The same goes for 'marriage/girl/boyfriend material '. Material to me suggests that the basics are there but you're going to need to change it to make it useful.
The same goes for this trend for describing past sexual partners as a 'body count'. |
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Love the fact that we can elicit that response and happy for people to tell us, it won't necessarily translate to "ok then come on over and you can fuck me" though. Usual rules apply, we post meets, if you happen to see us say hi. We may very well have already been approached by people that rubbed one out to us the day before. So yeah, to us it's a compliment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. Mainly because I love watching men wank and it delightfully scratches a part of my brain. So if someone I was attracted to said I was wank material, even if it's a bit crude, I'd be flattered.
And sure, some men could wank over a lemon sliced in half. It's more about the sentiment behind it. And thinking about them wanking over me is never a bad thing."
Half a lemon... Probably true. But funny! |
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By *RWoodyCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
Yes I would say a compliment. We post pictures of us as a bit of sexy fun so if a guy (or girl, I guess) thinks they're hot enough to do that over then that's great and part of that fun.
J x |
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It’s a swinging site!
Why on earth people would be insulted or offended by knowing their photos have elicited such a reaction is beyond us?
But we’ve noticed on a couple of threads recently an increasing tendency of some people to take or appropriate offence where frankly none exists.
It’s all about context, and we just hope that the thought police don’t start sucking the joy out of our little community as they seem intent on doing in everyday life. |
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By *ambsfunMan
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"It’s a swinging site!
Why on earth people would be insulted or offended by knowing their photos have elicited such a reaction is beyond us?
But we’ve noticed on a couple of threads recently an increasing tendency of some people to take or appropriate offence where frankly none exists.
It’s all about context, and we just hope that the thought police don’t start sucking the joy out of our little community as they seem intent on doing in everyday life."
I kind of agree with this, people might not use the best vocabulary to basically say I think you're sexy... |
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"It’s a swinging site!
Why on earth people would be insulted or offended by knowing their photos have elicited such a reaction is beyond us?
But we’ve noticed on a couple of threads recently an increasing tendency of some people to take or appropriate offence where frankly none exists.
It’s all about context, and we just hope that the thought police don’t start sucking the joy out of our little community as they seem intent on doing in everyday life."
I'm not insulted or offended and I don't see anyone on this thread who's said they are. Not being complimented by being referred to as 'material ' is a very long way from being offended by it. I'm indifferent to the term.
I don't think any of us can tell other people what they can take offence to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a swinging site!
Why on earth people would be insulted or offended by knowing their photos have elicited such a reaction is beyond us?
But we’ve noticed on a couple of threads recently an increasing tendency of some people to take or appropriate offence where frankly none exists.
It’s all about context, and we just hope that the thought police don’t start sucking the joy out of our little community as they seem intent on doing in everyday life.
I'm not insulted or offended and I don't see anyone on this thread who's said they are. Not being complimented by being referred to as 'material ' is a very long way from being offended by it. I'm indifferent to the term.
I don't think any of us can tell other people what they can take offence to."
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