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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
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I think you do need pics on your profile most people won't interact with a blank profile. As for the type of pic, everyone is different, different people like to see different things so you'll never get a consensus on what pics people like to see. I just go with what I am happy with on my own profile, if I like a pic I'll fab it or maybe send a msg. |
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"Is it essential to have pictures on your profile ? What kind of pictures do people like to see ? "
100% yes
We like sexy tasteful pics , not fans of close up gynaecological shots but def a good all round look at who owns the profile |
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Yep ,we don't reply to shadows
Preferably pics of both people when it's a couple who both play,so we can get an idea of them.
I prefer more teasing pics than ones where everything is on display.
Miss
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"I think you do need pics on your profile most people won't interact with a blank profile. As for the type of pic, everyone is different, different people like to see different things so you'll never get a consensus on what pics people like to see. I just go with what I am happy with on my own profile, if I like a pic I'll fab it or maybe send a msg."
Sorry think I am misunderstanding what you wrote, you like pics the same as what you post did you mean ? |
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"Is it essential to have pictures on your profile ? What kind of pictures do people like to see ?
100% yes
We like sexy tasteful pics , not fans of close up gynaecological shots but def a good all round look at who owns the profile "
So no shots where you can see their Sunday dinner ? |
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"Yep ,we don't reply to shadows
Preferably pics of both people when it's a couple who both play,so we can get an idea of them.
I prefer more teasing pics than ones where everything is on display.
Miss
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Thanks for the reply, see when we take pics it usually mr behind the camera taking Mrs in front we have loads of pics of us together but all usually like selfie shots or stuff with our faces in which we keep for our friends only pics, how do couples get naughty pics together to a decent quality ? |
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"We don't have face pics on our profile page but always send them in messages.
We like anything tasteful and not seedy. Dick pics are a turn off for us. "
What about vagina shots ? Or a tasteful dick pic where it’s not just wham bam here’s my cock kinda thing ? |
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over a year ago
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I think pics are essential to gauge early on whether an attraction could come, but a picture is nothing more than a cover on a book.
The story tells you who the person is. |
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"Yep ,we don't reply to shadows
Preferably pics of both people when it's a couple who both play,so we can get an idea of them.
I prefer more teasing pics than ones where everything is on display.
Miss
Thanks for the reply, see when we take pics it usually mr behind the camera taking Mrs in front we have loads of pics of us together but all usually like selfie shots or stuff with our faces in which we keep for our friends only pics, how do couples get naughty pics together to a decent quality ? "
You could set a timer |
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"Yep ,we don't reply to shadows
Preferably pics of both people when it's a couple who both play,so we can get an idea of them.
I prefer more teasing pics than ones where everything is on display.
Miss
Thanks for the reply, see when we take pics it usually mr behind the camera taking Mrs in front we have loads of pics of us together but all usually like selfie shots or stuff with our faces in which we keep for our friends only pics, how do couples get naughty pics together to a decent quality ?
You could set a timer "
Might have to give it a whirl, I am sure it’ll work it’s just getting the quality right. Someone suggested videoing and screen shotting it but the quality was awful |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
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"I think you do need pics on your profile most people won't interact with a blank profile. As for the type of pic, everyone is different, different people like to see different things so you'll never get a consensus on what pics people like to see. I just go with what I am happy with on my own profile, if I like a pic I'll fab it or maybe send a msg.
Sorry think I am misunderstanding what you wrote, you like pics the same as what you post did you mean ? "
No I just meant asking what pics people like to see on here you will get loads of different answers so just post what you are happy with its your profile  |
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"Instantly ignore profiles that have zero pictures, no need for it."
It’s difficult as I think safety and discretion seems to be a massive issue from what I’ve picked up on other threads but yeah I think your approach seems to be the best to cut time wasters and fakes |
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"I think you do need pics on your profile most people won't interact with a blank profile. As for the type of pic, everyone is different, different people like to see different things so you'll never get a consensus on what pics people like to see. I just go with what I am happy with on my own profile, if I like a pic I'll fab it or maybe send a msg.
Sorry think I am misunderstanding what you wrote, you like pics the same as what you post did you mean ?
No I just meant asking what pics people like to see on here you will get loads of different answers so just post what you are happy with its your profile "
Yeah we just wanted to gauge what individually people like really rather than a general consensus, apologies shoulda made that clearer |
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"The pics on my profile are of me and my face, I think it’s important to put these up as an introduction to myself and also to prove I’ve nothing to hide "
I think that’s brilliant, honestly I can’t applaud you enough, but just speaking from other threads I’ve been a part of there seems to be very little trust amongst the swinging community, you here constantly about safety, from our own side we have plenty of pics of the Mrs and a few ones of the Mr on our main profile with friends pics we have our faces to try and keep our discretion as such. |
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"I think pics are essential to gauge early on whether an attraction could come, but a picture is nothing more than a cover on a book.
The story tells you who the person is. "
So would you say a bio is just as if not more important than a pic ? |
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over a year ago
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"I think pics are essential to gauge early on whether an attraction could come, but a picture is nothing more than a cover on a book.
The story tells you who the person is.
So would you say a bio is just as if not more important than a pic ? "
I do, probably a contradiction as I’m sure my bio is shocking. But I can be wooed by someone’s words as I can be by a picture |
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"Is it essential to have pictures on your profile? What kind of pictures do people like to see?
Your a couple maybe a photo of the 2 of you."
I think we are a sucker for quality, I asked before on a comment on how people get good quality pics of you together without a third party ? We’ve tried taking a video and screen shotting it but the quality is usually crap, someone said a timer so we might try that, do you have any other suggestions ? |
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"Is it essential to have pictures on your profile ? What kind of pictures do people like to see ? "
It's essential for me, I'd never respond to a profile with no pics or just one half of the couple, I need some attraction.
Mrs |
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"Is it essential to have pictures on your profile? What kind of pictures do people like to see?
Your a couple maybe a photo of the 2 of you.
I think we are a sucker for quality, I asked before on a comment on how people get good quality pics of you together without a third party ? We’ve tried taking a video and screen shotting it but the quality is usually crap, someone said a timer so we might try that, do you have any other suggestions ?"
We use a tripod and Bluetooth clicker with our phones, super easy to take pics together then.
Mrs x |
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By *lappyMan
over a year ago
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"The pics on my profile are of me and my face, I think it’s important to put these up as an introduction to myself and also to prove I’ve nothing to hide
I think that’s brilliant, honestly I can’t applaud you enough, but just speaking from other threads I’ve been a part of there seems to be very little trust amongst the swinging community, you here constantly about safety, from our own side we have plenty of pics of the Mrs and a few ones of the Mr on our main profile with friends pics we have our faces to try and keep our discretion as such."
Thank you for the kind words and comments, I firmly believe a large part of the swinging lifestyle is all about honesty and trust so I would think it would be a little dubious if pics aren’t viewable ( can’t understand if initially there is a little hesitation, maybe pics can be exchanged after a while of texting ). Pictures are a great part of an introduction but of course there has to be an attraction and a social as the other person may have the personality of a pencil |
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"I think pics are essential to gauge early on whether an attraction could come, but a picture is nothing more than a cover on a book.
The story tells you who the person is.
So would you say a bio is just as if not more important than a pic ?
I do, probably a contradiction as I’m sure my bio is shocking. But I can be wooed by someone’s words as I can be by a picture "
I think key things though can be fair hard to get across in bios such as humour, what was the best bio you’ve read and why ? |
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"Is it essential to have pictures on your profile? What kind of pictures do people like to see?
Your a couple maybe a photo of the 2 of you.
I think we are a sucker for quality, I asked before on a comment on how people get good quality pics of you together without a third party ? We’ve tried taking a video and screen shotting it but the quality is usually crap, someone said a timer so we might try that, do you have any other suggestions ?
We use a tripod and Bluetooth clicker with our phones, super easy to take pics together then.
Mrs x"
What are you looking at cost wise ? |
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"Is it essential to have pictures on your profile? What kind of pictures do people like to see?
Your a couple maybe a photo of the 2 of you.
I think we are a sucker for quality, I asked before on a comment on how people get good quality pics of you together without a third party ? We’ve tried taking a video and screen shotting it but the quality is usually crap, someone said a timer so we might try that, do you have any other suggestions ?
We use a tripod and Bluetooth clicker with our phones, super easy to take pics together then.
Mrs x
What are you looking at cost wise ?"
Few pounds from eBay or Amazon.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think pics are essential to gauge early on whether an attraction could come, but a picture is nothing more than a cover on a book.
The story tells you who the person is.
So would you say a bio is just as if not more important than a pic ?
I do, probably a contradiction as I’m sure my bio is shocking. But I can be wooed by someone’s words as I can be by a picture
I think key things though can be fair hard to get across in bios such as humour, what was the best bio you’ve read and why ?"
Wouldn’t mention the names but it was about her rules and how straight to the point she was. Made me respect her and what she stands for. Even if I thought the rules were harsh. |
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"The pics on my profile are of me and my face, I think it’s important to put these up as an introduction to myself and also to prove I’ve nothing to hide
I think that’s brilliant, honestly I can’t applaud you enough, but just speaking from other threads I’ve been a part of there seems to be very little trust amongst the swinging community, you here constantly about safety, from our own side we have plenty of pics of the Mrs and a few ones of the Mr on our main profile with friends pics we have our faces to try and keep our discretion as such.
Thank you for the kind words and comments, I firmly believe a large part of the swinging lifestyle is all about honesty and trust so I would think it would be a little dubious if pics aren’t viewable ( can’t understand if initially there is a little hesitation, maybe pics can be exchanged after a while of texting ). Pictures are a great part of an introduction but of course there has to be an attraction and a social as the other person may have the personality of a pencil "
Yeah we agree to allow a third party or another couple into your sex life is a major deal isn’t it and we certainly wouldn’t do that without having a degree of trust for that person. So would you be open to chatting to a blank profile with a view to obtaining pics and getting to know that person more down the line or would it be a blank profile a flat no ? |
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"Is it essential to have pictures on your profile? What kind of pictures do people like to see?
Your a couple maybe a photo of the 2 of you.
I think we are a sucker for quality, I asked before on a comment on how people get good quality pics of you together without a third party ? We’ve tried taking a video and screen shotting it but the quality is usually crap, someone said a timer so we might try that, do you have any other suggestions ?
We use a tripod and Bluetooth clicker with our phones, super easy to take pics together then.
Mrs x
What are you looking at cost wise ?
Few pounds from eBay or Amazon.
Mrs "
Thanks we will check that out |
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"I think pics are essential to gauge early on whether an attraction could come, but a picture is nothing more than a cover on a book.
The story tells you who the person is.
So would you say a bio is just as if not more important than a pic ?
I do, probably a contradiction as I’m sure my bio is shocking. But I can be wooed by someone’s words as I can be by a picture
I think key things though can be fair hard to get across in bios such as humour, what was the best bio you’ve read and why ?
Wouldn’t mention the names but it was about her rules and how straight to the point she was. Made me respect her and what she stands for. Even if I thought the rules were harsh. "
Ah brill so like she was dominating you with her words to a degree ? |
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over a year ago
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Pictures are essential. We ignore blank profiles unless they send pics with the first message.
Personally I think you should upload pictures that best represent you and what you’re looking for and don’t worry too much about what other people like to see. |
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"I think pics are essential to gauge early on whether an attraction could come, but a picture is nothing more than a cover on a book.
The story tells you who the person is.
So would you say a bio is just as if not more important than a pic ?
I do, probably a contradiction as I’m sure my bio is shocking. But I can be wooed by someone’s words as I can be by a picture
I think key things though can be fair hard to get across in bios such as humour, what was the best bio you’ve read and why ?
Wouldn’t mention the names but it was about her rules and how straight to the point she was. Made me respect her and what she stands for. Even if I thought the rules were harsh.
Ah brill so like she was dominating you with her words to a degree ?"
You could say dominating. Though I’d just say putting me/ everyone in their place beforehand. |
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"Pictures are essential. We ignore blank profiles unless they send pics with the first message.
Personally I think you should upload pictures that best represent you and what you’re looking for and don’t worry too much about what other people like to see."
It wasn’t to use as such in reference to our own profile but more a general convo around what people’s preferences are Individually, but we like you have took the approach to ignore blank profiles |
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"I think pics are essential to gauge early on whether an attraction could come, but a picture is nothing more than a cover on a book.
The story tells you who the person is.
So would you say a bio is just as if not more important than a pic ?
I do, probably a contradiction as I’m sure my bio is shocking. But I can be wooed by someone’s words as I can be by a picture
I think key things though can be fair hard to get across in bios such as humour, what was the best bio you’ve read and why ?
Wouldn’t mention the names but it was about her rules and how straight to the point she was. Made me respect her and what she stands for. Even if I thought the rules were harsh.
Ah brill so like she was dominating you with her words to a degree ?
You could say dominating. Though I’d just say putting me/ everyone in their place beforehand. "
See sometimes I read them and think they come across a bit bossy almost haha |
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"Pictures are essential. We ignore blank profiles unless they send pics with the first message.
Personally I think you should upload pictures that best represent you and what you’re looking for and don’t worry too much about what other people like to see.
It wasn’t to use as such in reference to our own profile but more a general convo around what people’s preferences are Individually, but we like you have took the approach to ignore blank profiles "
It’s pointless chatting to someone if there’s no attraction. |
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"Is it essential to have pictures on your profile ? What kind of pictures do people like to see ?
Yours are perfect but maybe a few more of the male."
Yeah we’ve said above we are gonna look at getting a tripod to get some decent quality ones |
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"Pictures are essential. We ignore blank profiles unless they send pics with the first message.
Personally I think you should upload pictures that best represent you and what you’re looking for and don’t worry too much about what other people like to see.
It wasn’t to use as such in reference to our own profile but more a general convo around what people’s preferences are Individually, but we like you have took the approach to ignore blank profiles
It’s pointless chatting to someone if there’s no attraction."
We agree at first we did and some profiles got pretty uppity when we asked to see a picture as like you attraction is a big part granted not the only part but a big part of what we are doing |
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By *lappyMan
over a year ago
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"Pictures are essential. We ignore blank profiles unless they send pics with the first message.
Personally I think you should upload pictures that best represent you and what you’re looking
for and don’t worry too much about what other people like to see.
It wasn’t to use as such in reference to our own profile but more a general convo around what people’s preferences are Individually, but we like you have took the approach to ignore blank profiles
It’s pointless chatting to someone if there’s no attraction."
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah we’ve said above we are gonna look at getting a tripod to get some decent quality ones "
Good Luck and have fun..
The Timer Function can be pretty fun but don't forget some Mobiles have a Voice-activation function as well or a "Selfie-stick" at a push..
I cheat on mine as they're not on a mobile |
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Yeah we’ve said above we are gonna look at getting a tripod to get some decent quality ones
Good Luck and have fun..
The Timer Function can be pretty fun but don't forget some Mobiles have a Voice-activation function as well or a "Selfie-stick" at a push..
I cheat on mine as they're not on a mobile"
Do you have all the gear for it all I am guessing ? |
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Do you have all the gear for it all I am guessing ?"
Yeah, I've got pretty much everything.. won't go into the list as some will sit there going "what the hell is this muppet on about" lol |
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Do you have all the gear for it all I am guessing ?
Yeah, I've got pretty much everything.. won't go into the list as some will sit there going "what the hell is this muppet on about" lol"
Hahaha fair play mate |
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Yeah we’ve said above we are gonna look at getting a tripod to get some decent quality ones
Good Luck and have fun..
The Timer Function can be pretty fun but don't forget some Mobiles have a Voice-activation function as well or a "Selfie-stick" at a push..
I cheat on mine as they're not on a mobile"
Smart watches can work as remotes too which can make taking pictures with a tripod easier. |
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Hahaha fair play mate "
Always happy to do a shoot if You're down this way (done a couple(shoots).. can be Professional and not get involved!
But You can have a giggle doing them yourself and finding better angles/things to lean the phone on/how to lift it higher (or waterproof them a bit) |
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Smart watches can work as remotes too which can make taking pictures with a tripod easier."
Never owned one (only got my 1st smartphone about 12yrs ago) but that's a good call.. would work as well as a B/T or IR remote |
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Yeah we’ve said above we are gonna look at getting a tripod to get some decent quality ones
Good Luck and have fun..
The Timer Function can be pretty fun but don't forget some Mobiles have a Voice-activation function as well or a "Selfie-stick" at a push..
I cheat on mine as they're not on a mobile
Smart watches can work as remotes too which can make taking pictures with a tripod easier."
I’ve a Garmin so might have to check that out |
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I think it is, to really get to maximise your potential here. And, especially for people who struggle.
People search around for those who may match their needs. Some will get blocked, if they don't suit.
And many of us search and exclude anyone without pics.
That said - it's your profile to manage as suits you. We're all different |
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