Just putting it out there.
When you meet beyond social.
Do you always expect penetrate sex or are you just as happy with tactile
Play.
I enjoy massages and lots of hand play...guess I'm just very tactile.
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"I'd meet for however it went at the time, no preconceived plans."
This is it..I never turn up with the thought of a guarantee of sex. Pictures can lie so much. Went to one meet and the home was a shit hole...I just left.
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"I'd meet for however it went at the time, no preconceived plans.This is it..I never turn up with the thought of a guarantee of sex. Pictures can lie so much. Went to one meet and the home was a shit hole...I just left."
That's a different thing to going with the expectation upfront that there won't be penetrate sex on the cards though, no? |
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If it's not agreed beforehand that it will be soft swing I think it's reasonable to assume that full sex is on the cards. That doesn't mean it will take place, things happen to stop that.
We make it clear that we're soft swing only so anyone wanting full sex doesn't ask to meet us. |
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I think it depends. This is where the importance of honest communication comes in. If something is expected or really not wanted or whatever else, whilst it doesn't have to be stated directly, I'd like to think it would be covered beforehand. |
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"I think it depends. This is where the importance of honest communication comes in. If something is expected or really not wanted or whatever else, whilst it doesn't have to be stated directly, I'd like to think it would be covered beforehand."
agree that "rules of engagement" should be understood beforehand. Doesn't mean can't change your mind, but it is always best to be clear about what is likely.....
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I always will clarify what someone might be expecting and whether that is likely to happen. But for me, there are never any expectations for a meet and there have been plenty of surprises. I met recently for a social in a pub which then led onto some other things and finished up 10 hours later. Which was nice  |
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"Just putting it out there.
When you meet beyond social.
Do you always expect penetrate sex or are you just as happy with tactile
Play.
I enjoy massages and lots of hand play...guess I'm just very tactile.
What about you?"
I love a lot of foreplay and for me it is all part of sex, if you want penetration that is fine and optional.  |
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Totally depends on who it is I’m meeting. I often just enjoy socials, meeting up with like minded people etc. Other times it’s clear from the start it’s just for sex, nothing more. Others a social then becomes a lot more.
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