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Mmf …who knew?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We only learnt today that the order in which you display your threesome details who is penetrating who.
As in mmf (bi)
Mfm (only female being penetrated)
We may have sent some misleading messages in the past. 
Is this common knowledge? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What's MMMMF then?"
A bi train?
It was only because we saw mmf and mfm referenced in the same thread, commented that we thought it was the same thing so got researching. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"We only learnt today that the order in which you display your threesome details who is penetrating who.
As in mmf (bi)
Mfm (only female being penetrated)
We may have sent some misleading messages in the past.
Is this common knowledge? "
In theory…. Yes
In practice….. it doesn’t matter… for most people mmf will always mean woman in middle  |
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"We only learnt today that the order in which you display your threesome details who is penetrating who.
As in mmf (bi)
Mfm (only female being penetrated)
We may have sent some misleading messages in the past.
Is this common knowledge? "
I don’t think you will be surprised to know that quite a lot of people don’t know or understand this. I didn’t when I had my first rodeo on here lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never knew this. "
It’s useful to know when you’re in a couple telling people you have had multiple mmfs and he’s not bi when in Fact you have had mfms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know it but it never crosses my mind and we always refer to MMF even though in reality what we look for is MFM. I’d like to think we’d iron out what we want with the extra M before we hit it! We don’t approach bi men for this reason … even those who ‘play straight’ lol! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would think that the majority of people on here understand the difference between an mmf meet and an mfm meet.
It's discussed quite frequently.
I've known for years "
In all honesty- we are quite new to the forums so we are learning on the job so to speak. |
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Those saying that this is common knowledge are, and I say this with unreserved politeness, frankly incorrect. I certainly wasn't aware until I read it on here a few weeks back and I've been on Fab since around 2009 and other sites before the dawn of here. Until very recently anyone saying MMF or MFM or even FMM I'd just assume they were meaning a 1 female to 2 male threesome. If the males were bi I would simply expect it to have the term bi prefixing it.
So it may now be gaining popularity and I for one would be happy to embrace as it does work quite well to be fair, but most people I speak to anyway have never made the distinction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whilst there is technically a difference between the two it shouldn't matter because the person should be reading peoples profiles for their preferences and yours very clearly says under him that he's straight.
I know there are a lot of men and women on here that say they are straight but in reality are bi but then that comes down to discussing preferences and limits which should be repected before any meet occurs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We knew as we got a angry message of a man telling us we shouldn’t put in our p e that we wanted a mmf threesome if my husband is straight. Obviously at the time didn’t have a clue it was not the same  |
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I've certainly seen it discussed and many people stick to it. Personally, I think it’s a bit of a flawed system because it's not universally used, real life is not summed up well by letter order, and it does not generalise well to other groups. So threesome letter order is not a thing I put great store in. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"I've certainly seen it discussed and many people stick to it. Personally, I think it’s a bit of a flawed system because it's not universally used, real life is not summed up well by letter order, and it does not generalise well to other groups. So threesome letter order is not a thing I put great store in."
Exactly, and it's just yet another Fab myth. If you've got as far as asking someone else to join you for sex and are relying on no more than the order of three letters to define your boundaries you're asking for trouble. Personally I enjoy (straight) MMMMFs with me as the F. Try writing that without two Ms together. |
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By *entonMan
over a year ago
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Sounds like yet another example of people wanting to create a solution for a problem that never existed. Or be seen to be doing it anyway.
I've been swinging years and I've never heard of this until today. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've certainly seen it discussed and many people stick to it. Personally, I think it’s a bit of a flawed system because it's not universally used, real life is not summed up well by letter order, and it does not generalise well to other groups. So threesome letter order is not a thing I put great store in.
Exactly, and it's just yet another Fab myth. If you've got as far as asking someone else to join you for sex and are relying on no more than the order of three letters to define your boundaries you're asking for trouble. Personally I enjoy (straight) MMMMFs with me as the F. Try writing that without two Ms together."
This was our thought- we just thought it indicated the ratio of male to female in a meet. We haven’t ever had a guy turn up assuming mr is bi - but we communicate well I feel about what we want from a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds like yet another example of people wanting to create a solution for a problem that never existed. Or be seen to be doing it anyway.
I've been swinging years and I've never heard of this until today."
This makes me feel better for not knowing.
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So with a MFF would the women only play with each other?
I think people would normally discuss the dynamic a little before the event! "
From what I understand- FFM would be females playing. MFF would be male playing with both. However I literally learnt this yesterday and may be wrong. Hence this post. |
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By *abluesbabyMan
over a year ago
Gibraltar/Cheshire/London |
Nope. This ain't common knowledge.
I've enjoyed quite a few "MMF's" over the years and I can assure you, as both males were straight, only the female got penetrated. There was no prior discussion. No confusion at all. No misunderstanding No need for it.
And, most importantly: No one got "offended" haha!
If it ain't broke don't fix it.
PS - I like to host gangbangs. How do I tell people that at my MMMMMF or should I say my MFMMM or even FMMMM only the F gets penetrated???  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope. This ain't common knowledge.
I've enjoyed quite a few "MMF's" over the years and I can assure you, as both males were straight, only the female got penetrated. There was no prior discussion. No confusion at all. No misunderstanding No need for it.
And, most importantly: No one got "offended" haha!
If it ain't broke don't fix it.
PS - I like to host gangbangs. How do I tell people that at my MMMMMF or should I say my MFMMM or even FMMMM only the F gets penetrated??? "
Gang bangs you say…..Will message you. X
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"We only learnt today that the order in which you display your threesome details who is penetrating who.
As in mmf (bi)
Mfm (only female being penetrated)
We may have sent some misleading messages in the past.
Is this common knowledge?
In theory…. Yes
In practice….. it doesn’t matter… for most people mmf will always mean woman in middle "
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"Nope. This ain't common knowledge.
I've enjoyed quite a few "MMF's" over the years and I can assure you, as both males were straight, only the female got penetrated. There was no prior discussion. No confusion at all. No misunderstanding No need for it.
And, most importantly: No one got "offended" haha!
If it ain't broke don't fix it.
PS - I like to host gangbangs. How do I tell people that at my MMMMMF or should I say my MFMMM or even FMMMM only the F gets penetrated??? "
Nah, it’s common knowledge. You haven’t been having MMFs, you’ve been having MFMs…
Interesting times for the dyslexic though… but as they say.. never stop exploring
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"What's MMMMF then?
There’s no harm in stating MMFMM to indicate the female is the centre of attention…..  "
I think if you specify that the guys are straight there is absolutely no doubt she will be the centre of attention wherever the F is placed. |
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"What's MMMMF then?
There’s no harm in stating MMFMM to indicate the female is the centre of attention…..
I think if you specify that the guys are straight there is absolutely no doubt she will be the centre of attention wherever the F is placed. "
My thoughts exactly - as someone who happens to be straight but loves teaming up with other "M"s to make an "F" the centre of attention. |
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By *abluesbabyMan
over a year ago
Gibraltar/Cheshire/London |
"Nope. This ain't common knowledge.
I've enjoyed quite a few "MMF's" over the years and I can assure you, as both males were straight, only the female got penetrated. There was no prior discussion. No confusion at all. No misunderstanding No need for it.
And, most importantly: No one got "offended" haha!
If it ain't broke don't fix it.
PS - I like to host gangbangs. How do I tell people that at my MMMMMF or should I say my MFMMM or even FMMMM only the F gets penetrated???
Nah, it’s common knowledge. You haven’t been having MMFs, you’ve been having MFMs…
Interesting times for the dyslexic though… but as they say.. never stop exploring
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No. I have to respectfully disagree. Sorry, but you are wrong. Look at the comments in the thread!
I've been doing this for decades. Been on Fab years and years and pop on here pretty much everyday. Like I say never heard until today. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In all honesty. Does it really matter? "
It must be because before we knew the correct meaning to it we’ve had a few messages asking why we want a’mmf’ when my husband is straight.
Personally we don’t think it’s a big deal as before any potential meets we always discuss boundaries ect before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whilst there is technically a difference between the two it shouldn't matter because the person should be reading peoples profiles for their preferences and yours very clearly says under him that he's straight.
I know there are a lot of men and women on here that say they are straight but in reality are bi but then that comes down to discussing preferences and limits which should be repected before any meet occurs"
The format of the letters being significant is a load of rubbish. Just speak to people ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's MMMMF then?
There’s no harm in stating MMFMM to indicate the female is the centre of attention….. "
Woman watching 2 lots of straight men fucking each other. |
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According to ChatGPT
MMF can refer to multiple things depending on the context. It could stand for:Male-Male-Female: Often used in the context of relationships, indicating a romantic or sexual relationship involving two males and one female.Master of Management in Finance (MMF): A postgraduate degree program focused on finance and management.Muscle, Money, Flow: A business concept referring to three key aspects of a successful venture.Multiple Myeloma Foundation: A nonprofit organization dedicated to supporting patients and caregivers dealing with multiple myeloma, a type of cancer.If you have a specific context in mind, please provide more details for a more accurate response. |
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In 20 years of swinging the first time I ever heard of this was about 4 weeks ago. Some made up BS if you ask me and only followed by a tiny proportion, maybe it's for those who don't communicate their wants and desires properly but for us regardless of the order of a few letters all that should be discussed beforehand. |
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"We only learnt today that the order in which you display your threesome details who is penetrating who.
As in mmf (bi)
Mfm (only female being penetrated)
We may have sent some misleading messages in the past.
Is this common knowledge? "
This old chestnut again.
It doesn't make the slightest bit of difference.
It just doesn't work. Try describing a straight three males one female scenario without having two of the ms together.
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
Fairytale Wood |
Im not sure it means anything really but people do like use it to reference their own preference.
MFM two guys one female
MMF bi guys one female
FFM bi females one guy.
FMF straight females one guy
MFF bi females guy watching 
MMFF bi couples
MFMF swapping couples or soft swing |
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"Im not sure it means anything really but people do like use it to reference their own preference.
MFM two guys one female
MMF bi guys one female
FFM bi females one guy.
FMF straight females one guy
MFF bi females guy watching
MMFF bi couples
MFMF swapping couples or soft swing "
And three straight males and a female or the other war around?
It's really not difficult to say bi mmf or bi ffm, Then everyone knows where they stand instead of relying on some 'convention' that doesn't work for all cases. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"Im not sure it means anything really but people do like use it to reference their own preference.
MFM two guys one female
MMF bi guys one female
FFM bi females one guy.
FMF straight females one guy
MFF bi females guy watching
MMFF bi couples
MFMF swapping couples or soft swing "
MFFM swapping couples or soft swing with straight male and some female play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not sure it means anything really but people do like use it to reference their own preference.
MFM two guys one female
MMF bi guys one female
FFM bi females one guy.
FMF straight females one guy
MFF bi females guy watching
MMFF bi couples
MFMF swapping couples or soft swing
And three straight males and a female or the other war around?
It's really not difficult to say bi mmf or bi ffm, Then everyone knows where they stand instead of relying on some 'convention' that doesn't work for all cases. "
Talk to people? Like communicate?
That will never catch on. Sex tick _oxes all the way. |
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"Im not sure it means anything really but people do like use it to reference their own preference.
MFM two guys one female
MMF bi guys one female
FFM bi females one guy.
FMF straight females one guy
MFF bi females guy watching
MMFF bi couples
MFMF swapping couples or soft swing
And three straight males and a female or the other war around?
It's really not difficult to say bi mmf or bi ffm, Then everyone knows where they stand instead of relying on some 'convention' that doesn't work for all cases.
Talk to people? Like communicate?
That will never catch on. Sex tick _oxes all the way."
It's a sad state of affairs that that is probably the right answer |
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"This isn't a thing. Can we stop trying to make it a thing, and just communicate what we want?
LvM"
I’ve seen it that much and with being new to exploring that side of fun. I genuinely thought it was a thing lmao |
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"Is this common knowledge?
It's only a recent thing, presumably derived from p0rn sites. "
yep I think you are right. I've been calling an mmf an mmf and a bi-mmf a bi-mmf for 2p years so I'm not going to change now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We only learnt today that the order in which you display your threesome details who is penetrating who.
As in mmf (bi)
Mfm (only female being penetrated)
We may have sent some misleading messages in the past.
Is this common knowledge? "
news to us!! so how do you display 3 guys and a woman where only she gets penetrated then or is that just termed a straight gangbang? |
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By *iguy1130Man
over a year ago
Caerphilly borough |
Mmf as far as I am understand is 2 males with female in middle getting the attention she deserve..upto mm if any play between themselves..I am not gay in any way,but some guys like to suck my cock..some are good at it and some are rubbish..females gives better bj..much prefer the f getting pleasured..love a nice spitroast..hmm getting hard thinking about it..need to stop fantasising about it..nothing worse having a hard on in other people's company, unless that's the purpose  |
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If I saw MMF, I wouldn't automatically assume it's a bi-threesome, just a threesome
But if it specifically says MFM, I know it is straight contact only
Also, it may be a kink perspective, but using upper and lower case letters implies a power difference, e.g. Ds for Dom and sub.
So Mmf might be a bull and cuckold situation, (or typing quickly)
As a sidenote for people who care about body count, does MFM count as 1 or 2 for the males? It's a threesome but you only play with one of the other people. |
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"We only learnt today that the order in which you display your threesome details who is penetrating who.
As in mmf (bi)
Mfm (only female being penetrated)
We may have sent some misleading messages in the past.
Is this common knowledge?
news to us!! so how do you display 3 guys and a woman where only she gets penetrated then or is that just termed a straight gangbang?"
Oh that's easy, you have to write it like this:
-----M----
M--F--M
Simple
LvM |
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