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Advice on why I’m not getting many winks or anythinf
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"Struggling to match with people on here any advice on my profile or anything I wouldn’t say I’m the best looking person but I do well with girls just haven’t had much luck on here "
Hello OP
Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a black guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.
Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.
Put on some better pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great, and a smiling picture is far more attractive to prospective meets.
However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.
There are plenty of people that would be interested in meeting with a young guy like you, but the hardest part is finding and attracting those people.
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"I’m 24 but but obviously I know that’s still young and doesn’t always interest a lot of people how do I go about changing my name and age and stuff are u able to do it ?"
You say your 24, but yur profile also says you are 22 and 23!
People notice inconsistencies like that and it will put them off. If you can't be straight about your age, then what else might you be less than truthful about.
Changing your username is easy, simply go here: https://www.fabswingers.com/account/name_manage.aspx
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"Struggling to match with people on here any advice on my profile or anything I wouldn’t say I’m the best looking person but I do well with girls just haven’t had much luck on here
Hello OP
Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a black guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.
Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.
Put on some better pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great, and a smiling picture is far more attractive to prospective meets.
However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.
There are plenty of people that would be interested in meeting with a young guy like you, but the hardest part is finding and attracting those people.
Good luck "
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"Struggling to match with people on here any advice on my profile or anything I wouldn’t say I’m the best looking person but I do well with girls just haven’t had much luck on here "
You can't do anything about your age, but your user name suggests immaturity.
The text isn't great either. I understand that some will be less bothered, but I find things easier to read when in paragraphs. Use of punctuation and capital letters also helps.
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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op it does not matter if you change your name or profile it at most may help a tiny bit but the truth is its a sausage fest on here with men out numbering women and couple 100 to 500 to one depending where you live thats the first hurdle but the main one is attraction (in its many ways) and if no one attracted then no one will get in touch attraction is not just looks it a package and the fact you are under 25 puts you in a very small wanted group by a already very very small group looking...
if i was 24 id be going to a swinger club and get known .. show your more than just your age ... ive seen young guys do very very well by going to clubs and from there getting invite to meet privately.... years ago the was a young chap who i remember was about 22 yrs old whom was told by the women in the chat room to get himself to a club so they could see him in the flesh we'll he did and in less than a year he had over 50 veri's from club meets and private.. he became well known and people loved him cheeky charming man with stamina that earnt him a rep ... i met him loads before he settled down .... so it can work if you take the right path ... and good luck .... because you will need it ..
ps you doing well in the ''real'' world makes no difference in the swinging world its a totally different game and life  |
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... that said from what I can see you're a nice looking lad