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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I love it when they call me Big Poppa.
Why?"
It’s a song. I don’t actually have anything to add… mostly because this subject always goes south very quickly.
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By *host1100Man 48 weeks ago
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"Okay so guys what is it you like about a girl calling you 'daddy' when you fuck?"
If I’m totally honest I think it’s just an in built pervy older man thing, if you ask men then probably 90% would love to fuck a younger woman when they get a little older and the other 10% are lying lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Okay so guys what is it you like about a girl calling you 'daddy' when you fuck?
If I’m totally honest I think it’s just an in built pervy older man thing, if you ask men then probably 90% would love to fuck a younger woman when they get a little older and the other 10% are lying lol"
100% agree. |
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I have a FWB who is into DDlg, to indulge him I call him Daddy when we flirt/tease, though not when he fucks me cos I'm not into it. I asked him once what he got out of it and he said amongst other things, that the role appealed to him because of his caring nature, and that when a woman calls him that it is a clear marker that the she is feeling safe, secure and trusting in him. So it is like a validation for him, but also while fucking etc, it is reassurance that the activities indulged in that he's serving out to her are wanted and enjoyed. Idk if his take is common or unusual (not my scene), I expect different people get off on different aspects of it, and that there is an age element for some (though not for my friend, ironically I'm old enough to be his mother). |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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It's very very similar to the Dom and sub dynamic. Daddy used to freak me out then I met a guy who liked it and I loved it too.
It is about feeling... Cared for. The connotations that your loved and safe.
Like any kink if it is between two consenting adults, do whatever you please. |
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"It's very very similar to the Dom and sub dynamic. Daddy used to freak me out then I met a guy who liked it and I loved it too.
It is about feeling... Cared for. The connotations that your loved and safe.
Like any kink if it is between two consenting adults, do whatever you please. "
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I have a FWB who is into DDlg, to indulge him I call him Daddy when we flirt/tease, though not when he fucks me cos I'm not into it. I asked him once what he got out of it and he said amongst other things, that the role appealed to him because of his caring nature, and that when a woman calls him that it is a clear marker that the she is feeling safe, secure and trusting in him. So it is like a validation for him, but also while fucking etc, it is reassurance that the activities indulged in that he's serving out to her are wanted and enjoyed. Idk if his take is common or unusual (not my scene), I expect different people get off on different aspects of it, and that there is an age element for some (though not for my friend, ironically I'm old enough to be his mother). "
Yeah the above is what I get out of it too. Big fan with a woman who's equally into it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Each to their own I guess , it's the same as being called or calling someone mummy "
That’s still equally disturbing. If someone other then my children called me mummy I’d throw up in my mouth  |
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By *r_reusMan 32 weeks ago
Coventry |
"Okay so guys what is it you like about a girl calling you 'daddy' when you fuck?"
That I can lay her head on my chest, massage her scalp and call her 'good girl'
The older/younger dynamic isn't for everyone, but it's just one more way of showing affection, which is ultimately what we're all looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"Okay so guys what is it you like about a girl calling you 'daddy' when you fuck?"
There's one scenario I enjoy where a girl calls me that. It's taboo and not for everyone tho. |
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M likes me to call her good girl, I like her calling me master or sir when we are in that D/s dynamic. I also like when she is a bit bratty and cheeky
It’s part of a role playing.
There is a subset of fet people into Adultbaby play. Girls or boys dressing in onesies wearing diapers etc.
Just go on any vanilla porn website and you will see that the top searches or most popular categories are step sister/daughter/dad/brother/mum etc.
I’ve always found that a little weird but it seems that there are a lot of people that don’t. |
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By *reg332Man 32 weeks ago
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I really like it, no idea why. I'll usually let a woman know it's something I like, but I understand if she isn't keen. Wouldn't force anyone to say it if it made them feel wierd because that's not cool  |
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"Just go on any vanilla porn website and you will see that the top searches or most popular categories are step sister/daughter/dad/brother/mum etc."
I find it cringe, but I’ve heard it said before that our society fetishises youth. |
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I personally like it.
I don't associate it with a form of family roleplay at all. It's not a play out of wanting to (consciously or subconsciously) fuck my Dad.
I like using it to show I feel secure, safe and cared for. But it falls within a kink setting for us. Perhaps it also grew from past trauma (also not trauma from my father, we had a great relationship before he died before anyone assumes daddy issues).
For him, he understands that and so it's an instant marker for him that he knows I'm enjoying the scene/experience. He'd also say it's a marker that I'm in a bratty mood rather than a submissive mood.
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By *icohxxxMan 29 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
If a woman said “fuck me Daddy” whilst I was fucking her, I certainly wouldn’t think she is fantasising about her actual dad fucking her.
Id presume she is being totally submissive and wants to be totally dominated.
Same as if a woman likes being tied up during sex, I certainly wouldn’t think she wants to be grabbed off the street and thrown into the back of a van
Or if a woman wants her guy to dress up in a police uniform, I certainly wouldn’t worry that she will be constantly breaking the law to get arrested.
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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"Okay so guys what is it you like about a girl calling you 'daddy' when you fuck?"
I personally don't really get off on it.
But I'm interested to know what it is about it. X |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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"I personally like it.
I don't associate it with a form of family roleplay at all. It's not a play out of wanting to (consciously or subconsciously) fuck my Dad.
I like using it to show I feel secure, safe and cared for. But it falls within a kink setting for us. Perhaps it also grew from past trauma (also not trauma from my father, we had a great relationship before he died before anyone assumes daddy issues).
For him, he understands that and so it's an instant marker for him that he knows I'm enjoying the scene/experience. He'd also say it's a marker that I'm in a bratty mood rather than a submissive mood.
Ms "
Thanks for sharing this makes sense. X |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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"If someone called me that, I'm retiring from sex. It would be so creepy. It would be like someone calling me a good little boy....*shudders*.
What if they called you cute boi  "
That would honestly be amazing! |
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By *icohxxxMan 28 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"I personally like it.
I don't associate it with a form of family roleplay at all. It's not a play out of wanting to (consciously or subconsciously) fuck my Dad.
I like using it to show I feel secure, safe and cared for. But it falls within a kink setting for us. Perhaps it also grew from past trauma (also not trauma from my father, we had a great relationship before he died before anyone assumes daddy issues).
For him, he understands that and so it's an instant marker for him that he knows I'm enjoying the scene/experience. He'd also say it's a marker that I'm in a bratty mood rather than a submissive mood.
Ms "
Absolutely spot on |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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In a sexual context it’s clear a sign of submission and it’s not meant as anything other than that.
I’m looking for an older man who enjoys being called it |
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By *uzy050TV/TS 18 weeks ago
Bolton |
Reading the comments seems a "lot"of Guys don,t like this at all, Being referred to As Daddy , I have on a few occasions Used the Word Daddy , Its just a Kinky expression of Submission "I have no past Daddy issues" before anyone asks LOL , but now it Seems it may be prudent to ask upfront rather than in the Middle of a Sexual Encounter as one wouldnt want to Spoil the Experience for the man , X |
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Each to their own I guess.
Had a sugar babe a couple of years ago, she had lived the experience before and called me daddy. It’s not a daddy/daughter thing for gods sake . Jeez.
But there are quite a few young ladies around who want an older guy for better sex, a mentor, financial help, guidance. |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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Always seems more of an American thing, & less taboo over there. It's even in Friends when Phoebe asks Ross "is daddy gonna spank me."
It's something I quite like, but it's a word associated with a shifting symbiotic power play than a family roleplay. |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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Been asked for this many times,usually by older men! I try not to overthink things too much, I've been in the moment and enjoy being called things I don't normally get called too |
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By *oxy jWoman 6 weeks ago
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not for me daddy or mummy but thats me i fully understand why and how others use it...
met a guy not long ago halfway thru the night said call me your daddy i just had fits of laughter killerd the night and he blocked me it just not for me... but wont kink shame it as i said i do understand why others use it kink wise |
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