Get used to it on here mate. IMHO all people do with threads like this. Airing ones problems insecurities in public highlights that they're moaners. Instead of moaning and wasting your time on what's happened to you . Use your time getting what you do want. There aren't many sympathisers on here rushing forward with tissues  |
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over a year ago
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i dont think its wrong, i dont do day meets tho as i work in the day and only get 1 day off in 7 so on my days off i have to do boring stuff like shopping etc, evening meets suit me best, between about 8 and 12 |
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"I just had a couple have a pop because I asked them if they would be interested in a daytime meet.
Does anyone else think daytime meets are wrong?"
Its not wrong but when you ask for that and can't accommodate and attached and it just looked like you were a user not a sharer and they didn't like. |
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"I just had a couple have a pop because I asked them if they would be interested in a daytime meet.
Does anyone else think daytime meets are wrong?
Its not wrong but when you ask for that and can't accommodate and attached and it just looked like you were a user not a sharer and they didn't like."
I see what you are saying |
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over a year ago
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"i dont think its wrong, i dont do day meets tho as i work in the day and only get 1 day off in 7 so on my days off i have to do boring stuff like shopping etc, evening meets suit me best, between about 8 and 12"
Duly noted.  |
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over a year ago
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We very clearly state in our profile that we struggle with daytime meets, but we still get asked or friend requests sent by people who can only meet during the day...it's the old chestnut of not reading profiles I suppose...
We're never rude unless people get pushy... |
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over a year ago
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"Did u ask them to meet within ur first message to them?"
No, I introduced myself first and a while later said what I was interested in and when I'm available |
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"I just had a couple have a pop because I asked them if they would be interested in a daytime meet.
Does anyone else think daytime meets are wrong?
Its not wrong but when you ask for that and can't accommodate and attached and it just looked like you were a user not a sharer and they didn't like."
One of the reasons I don't meet married men and those that don't accommodate: no sharing.
I meet during the day as I live with my adult daughters. When they are at work/uni I can accommodate but sometimes they thwart my plans so playmates have to be able to when that happens. |
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"We very clearly state in our profile that we struggle with daytime meets, but we still get asked or friend requests sent by people who can only meet during the day...it's the old chestnut of not reading profiles I suppose...
We're never rude unless people get pushy..."
My profile couldn't be clearer but I still get, "I know I can't accommodate and you don't do hotels but...I'm a doctor/pilot/CEO/premiership footballer...ok the last ones a lie, we could have fun.
Funny, when I say ok, but I'll only meet in the Dorchester, Savoy or Gorings I never hear back...timewasters!  |
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over a year ago
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I like to say I'm fully flexible..
but I think its important to understand that some people including myself like to have drinks etc- they might see someone who just can do day meets as being just after the sex and not much else.
there could be an issue with one half working and the other being at home..they might see u trying to get the one-on-one meet(i think lots of cpls get this when the female half may be at home)... indeed, they both find the idea of getting away from work for an hr preposterous just for a shag.
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over a year ago
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actually also a bit confused by the requirements of ur profile
clearly says married obviously
single male(acting as single of course)but aslo verified as a cpl
ur meet criteria shows ambiguity in who u are searching for
perhaps this hasnt translated well to the people uve mailed...I'd be confused |
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over a year ago
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"I just had a couple have a pop because I asked them if they would be interested in a daytime meet.
Does anyone else think daytime meets are wrong?"
we love day time meets
we both work shifts so they work better for us most times
Jo x |
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over a year ago
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Well spotted! Veri reads like it was two guys and search criteria includes MM couples but sexuality is listed as straight so am guessing the OP teams up with other guys to meet couples? Might be worth expanding that on your profile as it's confusing. |
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over a year ago
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"The profile was set up when I was part of a couple. I haven't changed that. I will do it now. Veri we from a mmf meet me and my female partner had. "
I wasnt trying to profile crit u to be honest...but its the kinda stuff people will check..a reminder to keep urself updated eh? |
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