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By *abyblues2023 OP Woman
over a year ago
Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at |
"How do you handle with people who are Willing to play with you
Then they ghost you afterwards.
I mean do you just chalk it up to experience and not worry about it
What are the other options?"
Nothing I guess |
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over a year ago
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"How do you handle with people who are Willing to play with you
Then they ghost you afterwards.
I mean do you just chalk it up to experience and not worry about it "
I personally would chalk it up and move on. A mature adult will communicate if they have an issue. If they ghost, then they either can't communicate or just wanted to fuck and flee.
Either way, I wouldn't view them as worth any more of my time.
Plenty of men that don't pull that crap. Good luck x |
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By *abyblues2023 OP Woman
over a year ago
Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at |
"How do you handle with people who are Willing to play with you
Then they ghost you afterwards.
I mean do you just chalk it up to experience and not worry about it
I personally would chalk it up and move on. A mature adult will communicate if they have an issue. If they ghost, then they either can't communicate or just wanted to fuck and flee.
Either way, I wouldn't view them as worth any more of my time.
Plenty of men that don't pull that crap. Good luck x"
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If they imply that they want more than a one off I'd be a bit miffed. Otherwise as long as a 'thanks for a lovely time' message was received I'd just assume they didn't want to see me again. We have had incidents of people going off radar after they've met us only to reappear months later asking to meet again. I'm not too keen on that but I'm aware that they owe me nothing |
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By *abyblues2023 OP Woman
over a year ago
Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at |
"If they imply that they want more than a one off I'd be a bit miffed. Otherwise as long as a 'thanks for a lovely time' message was received I'd just assume they didn't want to see me again. We have had incidents of people going off radar after they've met us only to reappear months later asking to meet again. I'm not too keen on that but I'm aware that they owe me nothing "
Well communication was flowing until we met etc now nothing
I understand ppl are busy sometimes not even a thanks for a good time not for me tho |
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"If they imply that they want more than a one off I'd be a bit miffed. Otherwise as long as a 'thanks for a lovely time' message was received I'd just assume they didn't want to see me again. We have had incidents of people going off radar after they've met us only to reappear months later asking to meet again. I'm not too keen on that but I'm aware that they owe me nothing
Well communication was flowing until we met etc now nothing
I understand ppl are busy sometimes not even a thanks for a good time not for me tho "
I think it depends on your attitude and expectations and if they coincide with the people you meet. Did you get what you wanted from the encounter?
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"How do you handle with people who are Willing to play with you
Then they ghost you afterwards.
I mean do you just chalk it up to experience and not worry about it "
They're probably on to their next any hole's a goal pursuit. So yeah, no worries is the best way. |
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By *abyblues2023 OP Woman
over a year ago
Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at |
"How do you handle with people who are Willing to play with you
Then they ghost you afterwards.
I mean do you just chalk it up to experience and not worry about it
They're probably on to their next any hole's a goal pursuit. So yeah, no worries is the best way."
That's true |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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everyone i meet i assume ill not meet again its swinging unless you've ask for and both agreed on more then its nothing more than a meet .. if anything regular comes from a good meet then great but ill be honest alot id not want to meet again even if the meet was good ...its all part of swinging
and its not ghosting ...ghosting is when some one your in a relationship with or know very well goes quiet on you not strangers or people youve met a couple times with swinging |
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"How do you handle with people who are Willing to play with you
Then they ghost you afterwards.
I mean do you just chalk it up to experience and not worry about it
I personally would chalk it up and move on. A mature adult will communicate if they have an issue. If they ghost, then they either can't communicate or just wanted to fuck and flee.
Either way, I wouldn't view them as worth any more of my time.
Plenty of men that don't pull that crap. Good luck x"
Great response! And definitely the way to deal with it. Don’t sweat it. You probably aren’t the first and you certainly won’t be the last. |
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