I've always considered "Spontaneous" meets part of the fun of this hedonistic and somewhat Bohemian pathway.
Very hard to find anyone equally keen, nowadays. I'll admit I've had a couple of bad ones but there have been fantastic times too. And there's still a chance to chat, discuss likes and dislikes, exchange pics, etc. beforehand.
I can think of worse things to do on a Monday evening... how about you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's Sunday
Yes - but my status and proposed meet show I am looking to meet on Monday evening.... zzzz"
How spontaneous is a meet planned for the next day? 
Mrs likes spontaneity, I tend to be more organised, but it works for us, I do the arranging and she can be spontaneous when it arrives. |
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"Who's near is great for spontaneity...planning it isn't spontaneous. "
Yes, I'd agree with that. I was interpreting "spontaneous" to include not meeting socially, first. although I still like to meet in a public place (e.g. hotel reception first, for everyone's security). |
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"Used to be spontaneous but after too many scary situations they’re now a no no unfortunately, just not safe anymore "
Sorry to hear that. I did once have a woman come straight to my hotel room (that was part of her fantasy) and that particular meet was fantastic. But I’d always advocate meeting in public first - even if it is just for a few moments. I think you can form an opinion about someone quite swiftly. |
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
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"Used to be spontaneous but after too many scary situations they’re now a no no unfortunately, just not safe anymore
Sorry to hear that. I did once have a woman come straight to my hotel room (that was part of her fantasy) and that particular meet was fantastic. But I’d always advocate meeting in public first - even if it is just for a few moments. I think you can form an opinion about someone quite swiftly."
Yeah, most of the time it’s fine but it only takes one time going too far and it’s enough. My last hotel meet was a couple and ended with the police doing a welfare check on me at silly am, hence the caution now, clubs tend to be the safe bet |
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"Used to be spontaneous but after too many scary situations they’re now a no no unfortunately, just not safe anymore
Sorry to hear that. I did once have a woman come straight to my hotel room (that was part of her fantasy) and that particular meet was fantastic. But I’d always advocate meeting in public first - even if it is just for a few moments. I think you can form an opinion about someone quite swiftly.
Yeah, most of the time it’s fine but it only takes one time going too far and it’s enough. My last hotel meet was a couple and ended with the police doing a welfare check on me at silly am, hence the caution now, clubs tend to be the safe bet "
Omg - that sounds awful |
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I believe that at least the first meet must be social. I give this advice to everyone and end up doing the mistake of going for a spontaneous meet myself  Except the few good ones, most of them end up being terrible. |
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