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What causes instant delete and block?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m interested in what causes others to instantly delete and block a profile. Some of mine are:
Been on over a year, not photo verified, no meets, not a supporter. - Red flags
Profile text that says “fill in later” - Lazy
Blurry pics clearly lifted from a porn site - Fake
Messages saying “I know I’m not what you’re looking for, but…” - why message then?!?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When the first line of your profile is that you are currently living abroad and you get messages asking if you want to meet in Manchester that day 
Literally not read one thing on the profile but messaged anyway.. |
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Coming from cock photo profiles/silhouette profiles
When it’s apparent they cheated through my filters
When it’s obvious they haven’t read my profile
Any mention of mummy/sugar mummy/sugar daddy/feet/meet me in my hotel now/girlfriend wants to try another female
Profiles with cringe statuses
(Just to mention a few) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The sort of message that you can tell havnt read your profile"
Spot on. I don't even open the message. I just open profile, block person and delete message without opening. I don't even want to read that crap if they can't be bothered
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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- Not reading my profile
- Weird, copied and pasted stories of what they want to do to me
- cock pics as profile pics or cock pics in messages
- boring "how you doing babe" messages
- asking me for dirty pics (usually happens when we come off Fab)
- any other reason that makes me not want to hear from them again 
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"I’m interested in what causes others to instantly delete and block a profile. Some of mine are:
Been on over a year, not photo verified, no meets, not a supporter. - Red flags
Profile text that says “fill in later” - Lazy
Blurry pics clearly lifted from a porn site - Fake
Messages saying “I know I’m not what you’re looking for, but…” - why message then?!?
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I'm glad it's not just us, but also upset that it happens to other people. We don't exactly have the works of Shakespeare, but we are real and we always show up. We have been messaging already, looking forward to meeting in Amigos x |
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"Friend invites without chatting first instant block. Might sound harsh but god it’s frustrating!"
Definitely, although we do a 2 tier approach to winks, unsolicited from single men qe delete but between couples is an initial nod of interest, if reciprocal we start to chat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh and huge long messages starting with “so you’re waiting in a bar for me…” and the huge tedious message reads out from there, 49 paragraphs long and none of it interesting.
Also any profiles mentioning ‘sniff’ or ‘420’ in any way gets blocked. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
i never open the message first i always look at the profile and most get blocked and deleted at that point .... if profile is ok then ill open message and got to say most will be blocked and message deleted ....99% of messages are rubbish clearly most dont read profiles but that aside most are hey hows you ... you ok ... will you be my mommy ... ill make you squirt ... or the fancy a fuck types...
but lets be honest those messages make life so much easier because the few hot guys who get it right stand out so much more and its quick n easy to block n delete .... and the good thing is there are guys on here who really do want to swing but its harder to find them that match but still very do-able
thing is i block for many reasons sometines for something so simple like attraction because if im not attracted to you i aint meeting you and no its not only sexual attrition but i also block when i see sexist - racist - bullies - men who name n shame - porn script status - porn scrip forum post - not acting age - posting that they like a certian body shape then message you and your totally the opposite - love to lick for hours - pics taken in bathroom - pics taken in gym - ,boxing pics or ''oh look at me type pics- partly covers face pics - anyone stupid enought to take pic in uniform - and i could sit here all day with this list but wont
none of its negative for me it helping me filter and if you wondering how big is my block list well you cant know for sure as after 250 they disappear off your list but mine must be 1,000s n 1,000s but im ok with that as ist works so well |
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Messages where the content shows they haven’t read our profile.
Copy and pasted messages
Vulgar, crude or desperate status updates
Offering money
If they repeat message when we’ve already deleted original
There are lots of words and phrases that I can’t stand too…. Which is are instant block. Yes I know it’s a bit weird.
Filthy
Dirty
Tits
HnH
C***t
Cum dump
Repeat cummer
Stamina
Balls need emptying
I’ll make you squirt
Come sit on my face
I don’t bite….. the list goes on and on
Jules x
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"When the first line of your profile is that you are currently living abroad and you get messages asking if you want to meet in Manchester that day
Literally not read one thing on the profile but messaged anyway.."
Why don't you say yes, provide a place and a time? Let them figure out out  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ah I forgot the ‘love to lick for hours’ lot… in other words they’re shit at everything else or don’t get hard.
One I get a lot is “can I clean up after a bbc has fucked you?” - No, you can’t.. |
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Too local
Blokes who aren't let's say polite.
Profile pics I don't wanna look at.
Profiles I take a dislike to.
Blank profiles.
Couples who message repeatedly with zero male pics.
Anyone cheating.
The obvious fakes.
The self entitled.
Ranty rude profiles.
That's probably about it.
Mrs |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"Another of mine is message from solo guy profiles saying: “want to meet me and my mrs/fwb?”
Why haven’t you got a couples profile then?!? "
Because some brains are not evolved enough to follow two profiles at the same time and also it's tricky to post photos if an imaginary lady. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Another of mine is message from solo guy profiles saying: “want to meet me and my mrs/fwb?”
Why haven’t you got a couples profile then?!?
Because some brains are not evolved enough to follow two profiles at the same time and also it's tricky to post photos if an imaginary lady."
Exactly this. |
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By *oulivCouple
over a year ago
Newtown |
Couples profiles where the Woman has been removed... or was never there. Bin it and get a single one and stop dodging the filters.
Photos of men in women's underwear or Fab if you... photos
If your home looks like a grenade went off in the laundry basket..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been on here for a few years now and have made our profile very explicit in terms of what we are and ain't looking for. However at least half the messages we get are still people who have not checked our profile, which means we instant delete these messages (and obviously no reply). If they then send another message despite their previous messages not receiving a reply, that's an instant ban |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being called a Lady as it shows that they have not read my profile.
If you can't take 5 mins to read my profile I am not goings to take my time in responding. |
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Any form of being pushy and not accepting our boundaries
For example when I was on bed one night ,jack was talking to a couple who asked him to wake me so we could meet them for sex .It was late at night,as if.
Abuse or rudeness
Not liking their status updates ie if they slate other people or moan about the site all the time.
Some pics on a profile cause me to block them so I don't see them in our updates.
Suggesting that if we met they'd want girly fun ,when they've been told I'm straight & it's on our profile .
If the couple have no pics at all or just pics of the lady.
Miss |
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By *neforutoMan
over a year ago
Fantasy land in the SW |
Reading this from the perspective of being blocked for sending a polite message and then getting a rant back......
I have to say that if at least half of whats been written on this thread is real then Im surprised that blokes get any meets at all. I would love to say I struggle to believe whats been written but having listened to other blokes at work and socials Im amazed that any procreation happens and Im truly staggered that the population is now over 7 billion people. |
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All the above!
And because of our fetish based profile, guys who think it is permission to vomit out their deepest darkest fantasies in the very first message, which are often disagreeable in so many levels (and that is saying something bearing in mind our wide tastes)!
Also, notwithstanding we have clearly said on our profile they need to introduce themselves before sending friend requests, they just take a splatter gun approach sending uninvited requests, so frustrating. |
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A lot of the above and also where men message and tell Mr R about what they would do to me/only want to talk about me and what I would like. As we only play together it shows a lack of interest in us as a couple as well as no interest in talking to me as a person. |
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"Ah I forgot the ‘love to lick for hours’ lot… in other words they’re shit at everything else or don’t get hard.
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Oh yes, this.
Why are there guys who'll completely hide the fact they can't get hard/cum until you're at their house?
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"Ah I forgot the ‘love to lick for hours’ lot… in other words they’re shit at everything else or don’t get hard.
Oh yes, this.
Why are there guys who'll completely hide the fact they can't get hard/cum until you're at their house?
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Isn’t it better for them to get hard when they get to your house?  |
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"Another of mine is message from solo guy profiles saying: “want to meet me and my mrs/fwb?”
Why haven’t you got a couples profile then?!? "
To be fair, I have a FWB who is also on here, and we only meet up a handful of times a year... Sometimes when we do, we have been know to put up a status asking if anyone wants to join us! We don't see each other enough to warrant having a couples account! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The sort of message that you can tell havnt read your profile
This is our number one frustration on fab
Mr"
Ours too… Literally the first line in our p e is no dick pics.
Already had 3 sent this morning lol |
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"Friend invites without chatting first instant block. Might sound harsh but god it’s frustrating!"
I might take to blocking them aswell. Glad it's not just me that finds it weird. I get it's probably to look at the friends pictures but they aren't public for a reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Friend invites without chatting first instant block. Might sound harsh but god it’s frustrating!
I might take to blocking them aswell. Glad it's not just me that finds it weird. I get it's probably to look at the friends pictures but they aren't public for a reason. "
We do the same |
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"Reading this from the perspective of being blocked for sending a polite message and then getting a rant back......
I have to say that if at least half of whats been written on this thread is real then Im surprised that blokes get any meets at all. I would love to say I struggle to believe whats been written but having listened to other blokes at work and socials Im amazed that any procreation happens and Im truly staggered that the population is now over 7 billion people."
Agree totally you can see who gets messages on here by who’s commenting lots of f and couples hardly any men. And judging by the comments I surprised anyone gets laid |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
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A lot of what's already been said.
We also use blocks to highlight anyone who's profile information indicates we wouldn't click.
Those who chance it and send a friend request over without actually interacting in any way get the block too!
C x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forgot to add:
- any reference to BBC. It actually disgusts me as the term has foundations in racism. The term BWC or any B_C will get you blocked.
- Hidden profiles
- Profile pics of cocks
- Miles away but messaging me
- couples profiles that have only pictures of the woman or couples profiles that send pics of just her but it's the guy messaging.
- most weird sub requests
This could go on for a while
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"I’m interested in what causes others to instantly delete and block a profile. Some of mine are:
Been on over a year, not photo verified, no meets, not a supporter. - Red flags
Profile text that says “fill in later”
- Lazy
Blurry pics clearly lifted from a porn site - Fake
Messages saying “I know I’m not what you’re looking for, but…” - why message then?!?
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Yes all the above also.... 'hi how are you'
'I'm not bi but ......'
'Are you free tonight?'
No public pics
Anything that disregards our profile is a instant block. |
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Instant block. Unloading fantasies in my inbox . They are always my dislikes too, like they went inside my head, found my worst fucking nightmare, wrote it down and hit send
Delete - small talk or maybe I just cba then if i don't respond and they message again I block |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pet names.
Cock pic as profile pic.
*ANY* screenshotted pics on their profile.
Private replies to forums posts - usually because they have been banned from the forums.
"Txt spk" or horrid vernacular/grammar. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"Being called a Lady as it shows that they have not read my profile.
If you can't take 5 mins to read my profile I am not goings to take my time in responding. "
5 mins? Just took me 69 seconds, and I'm not a morning person either  |
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