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Add you but don't communicate in any way
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So we regularly have couples and females who add us, but don't message, don't wink don't fab our pictures, it makes us suspicious why you would add someone and not do any of the above, we started messaging them but when no reply or read we unfriend them, I woukd its easier to say no thanks etc |
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"I don't add anyone till I've spoken to them for a bit first, the random friend requests just get bulk deleted all they want is to look at your friends only pics."
We might have to start doing that thank you ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"Probably single men wanting access to your friends only pics. "
Possibly but I’ve had verified women and couples do the same. I state in my profile that if asking or agreeing to be added as a friend I expect some effort at communication otherwise what is the point. I avoid anyone asking for fabs in return for a friend invite as that is just too needy. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I don't add anyone till I've spoken to them for a bit first, the random friend requests just get bulk deleted all they want is to look at your friends only pics."
All of us.
Some do like to chat and keep upto date with what's going on. ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I get this too. Really annoys me!
It's worse when they add you talk and then ignore afterwards unfortunately they get removed too"
I like to chat to my face friends, but not all if them are good at replying.
My 'sent' messages is a stream of yellow. ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"I don't add anyone till I've spoken to them for a bit first, the random friend requests just get bulk deleted all they want is to look at your friends only pics."
This ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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We block most people who send a friends request without speaking first, we have a lot of face pics in ours and sometimes we accept take a look at theirs to find nothing but cock pics then delete and block. |
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We get this all the time…. It’s frustrating but we won’t add until we’ve chatted a while first
The big one for us is those who chat for a few days and then add us…. Once added they go radio silent it makes absolutely no sense to us at all …. Think we might just start refusing to add people until we have met them …. Seems like the way forward
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh, I use my friends only list for people I’ve met in person only, otherwise it’s too confusing, there are too many requests to keep up with, it’s easier on me and less of a chore if I only add after meeting in person |
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