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over a year ago
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"You have a verification that states that you, "make an effort with the guy and not just the women."
That could be interpreted as you being bi and that puts many couples off."
I wouldn’t think that suggested he was bi. The guy we like will engage with Mr and Mrs just in different ways. We look for things like that in verifications and take them as a positive. |
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We echo the sentiment above really.
Personally, we would expect more info on the profile and some common interests before even starting to consider a meet.
Calling yourself ‘the big bull’ is also a red flag to us.
Try to remember that couples are letting you in to their relationship. |
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If we were meeting single males (which we aren't) then going off your profile we wouldn't meet you. There's no information and your profile bio is an immediate red flag to me. You don't come across as the type of person I would want to say hello to.
You may want to considering giving more information out and consider how you come across with that information.
T |
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"If we were meeting single males (which we aren't) then going off your profile we wouldn't meet you. There's no information and your profile bio is an immediate red flag to me. You don't come across as the type of person I would want to say hello to.
You may want to considering giving more information out and consider how you come across with that information.
T"
We’d be exactly the same. Would be a delete straight away especially the bit about time wasters 
hope you can turn it round though and good luck |
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"OK how do I change my stupid username and put up a new profile please "
Go to "menu" and select, "change user name."
I can change my name up to four times a year. I'm not sure if this option is open to non site supporters. |
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"We echo the sentiment above really.
Personally, we would expect more info on the profile and some common interests before even starting to consider a meet.
Calling yourself ‘the big bull’ is also a red flag to us.
Try to remember that couples are letting you in to their relationship. "
This all day long |
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over a year ago
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If anyone has any advice for me I would really appreciate it, I'm finding it extremely difficult trying to meet a couple
I'd be more than happy to just watch if that's there thing, then possibly be invited to play |
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"Need to put some effort in!!!"
That's completely understandable and I certainly do put the effort in,very polite when messaging always complaining the female of the couple and not at all pushy
But sadly still find it very difficult |
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"Need to put some effort in!!!
That's completely understandable and I certainly do put the effort in,very polite when messaging always complaining the female of the couple and not at all pushy
But sadly still find it very difficult "
I was telling the OP as it's his thread, at least you've got a profile  |
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"Need to put some effort in!!!
That's completely understandable and I certainly do put the effort in,very polite when messaging always complaining the female of the couple and not at all pushy
But sadly still find it very difficult
I was telling the OP as it's his thread, at least you've got a profile "
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