Following on from another thread about sti. So many people who message me want oral. But I fear majority of them wouldn't wear protection doing it. No idea what women should wer down there to protect men. So does that completely dampen the fab experience? |
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"Never even thought about protection for oral tbh 
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Very few do, including myself"
I never met anyone who thought about it. They just think about penetration and that's because they worry about pregnancy |
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"Sucked a bloke who insisted on wearing a condom , not nice , took the fun /rudeness away "
So I'm guessing only other way is getting regularly screened for sti and able to trust that person is clean? Minefield really as oh course oral sex is fun |
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"The thing for protected oral on ladies is the dental dam.
There's a reason why they aren't popular, may as well just cling film her pussy beforehand. Yuck...."
Sounds awful!! I want all the yummy wetness all over my mouth and face, not behind cling film 
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"The thing for protected oral on ladies is the dental dam.
There's a reason why they aren't popular, may as well just cling film her pussy beforehand. Yuck....
Sounds awful!! I want all the yummy wetness all over my mouth and face, not behind cling film
Mr"
Guess you just gota make sure the person is clean |
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I get what you mean.
But in reality you just have to weigh it up. Is the risk worth it?
Personally I'd stop having sex if it meant using condoms/dental dam for giving/ receiving oral! You won't feel anything so whats the point!
Regular sti checks and condoms for penetration for me. |
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"Possibly flavoured condoms or flavoured lube to ease the taste"
Does lube protect you from sti? Not sure how high risk it is? I given plenty of bjs in my time and been lucky keeping clean but I generally don't go for men who extremely sexually active |
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I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.  |
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"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex. "
I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing? |
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"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.
I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?"
You would know if you had an ulser or some sort of cut in your mouth wouldn't you ? |
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"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.
I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?
You would know if you had an ulser or some sort of cut in your mouth wouldn't you ?"
You get ulcers because of other reasons so don't think that's the only indicator you may have sti. Testing is the best way to know but I noticed standard sti tests just tests for only afew of the sti |
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"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.
I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?
You would know if you had an ulser or some sort of cut in your mouth wouldn't you ?
You get ulcers because of other reasons so don't think that's the only indicator you may have sti. Testing is the best way to know but I noticed standard sti tests just tests for only afew of the sti"
Pay the extra money and get the full sti check done. |
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"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.
I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?"
I don't actually meet overly You have to wait 4 weeks for for some tests to come back anyway. I don't have to wait 3 months its just the recommended. I just book in when I need to.
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"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.
I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?
You would know if you had an ulser or some sort of cut in your mouth wouldn't you ?"
Yes of course haha I have never even had a cold sore. I'm as careful as I can be. |
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"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.
I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?
You would know if you had an ulser or some sort of cut in your mouth wouldn't you ?
You get ulcers because of other reasons so don't think that's the only indicator you may have sti. Testing is the best way to know but I noticed standard sti tests just tests for only afew of the sti
Pay the extra money and get the full sti check done."
I looked into them. They ask you more questions that I don't know the answers too like has your partner had sex with sex worker, tattoo abroad etc. When you go on fab meets, isn't it a massive turn off asking all this? Lol |
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"I know the risks and choose not to do or receive oral wearing protection. I test after any meet. I obviously can never tell if someone is totally clean in that regard, I would never meet with a cut or sore in my mouth etc. I can only look after my own sexual health. It's safer sex for that reason not safe sex.
I tried to get more regular tests but my gum clinic says every 3 months. I'm guessing you got to pay if you want more testing?
You would know if you had an ulser or some sort of cut in your mouth wouldn't you ?
You get ulcers because of other reasons so don't think that's the only indicator you may have sti. Testing is the best way to know but I noticed standard sti tests just tests for only afew of the sti
Pay the extra money and get the full sti check done.
I looked into them. They ask you more questions that I don't know the answers too like has your partner had sex with sex worker, tattoo abroad etc. When you go on fab meets, isn't it a massive turn off asking all this? Lol"
Just answer as honestly as you can. It really doesn't matter, what really matter is the test results. |
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