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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

A social, A meet how many turn into a second date...or are you a one hit wonder...

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By *ranfondoMan over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I tend to like to do a social first then the second and subsequent meets as I prefer fun and friendship so not a one hit wonder for me...

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple over a year ago

doncaster

We like to do socials first if we click we will always go through with a second meet the times we have skipped socials have not been great experiences so it’s better to get the feel right….that’s for us at least respect everyone has there own way

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By *heelerMan over a year ago

Northants

I like to be a regular it gets easier the more you meet, but i do like the challenge of a new meet to get to have fun together.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Social unless it is a specific scenario like a bindfolded/darkroom. Play on a first meet social can and does happen but usually we play on subsequent meets.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple over a year ago

Rushden

I'd love to find guys for regular meets but its proving very difficult

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By *umalotagainMan over a year ago

a town called malice

As a single guy on here even getting to the social is hard enough. I have one couple who wee are on the 3rd meet coming up but normally timing and other factors get in the way

Does that put me in the “unfuckables” category

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Almost all, but not regular meets , more like occasional FB & few turn into occasional FWB where the friendship develops.

A regular is just another name for a relationship / girlfriend isn’t it ? It’s difficult to have more than one of those isn’t t ?

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

In all my years on here? All bar one. One is now a fiancé.

I like the friendships that come about. I'm really not one for one night stands, I think it's quite obvious. There's nothing wrong with being a one hit wonder if that's what you both want.

I'm actively trying to not see any lovers regularly currently. Listening to a wise old grumpy man and it's working well for me. I'm breaking the patterns of behaviour he keeps pointing out to me.

I think as long as you're both enjoying it, it doesn't matter how long it lasts, how often you see each other. Nothing lasts forever. If it's for one night, years? Great.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Several and we've become very good friends

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By *antric_lover77Woman over a year ago

south east

I don't like it when people assume sex on the first meet. I like to go with the flow, if i like them, we see eachother as much as we want. No real rules tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love a social first then a few days later another meet. To be fair most my meets turned into play on day one and I do prefer regular meets with connection.

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By *urora1912Woman over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Social first then progress to the nice time with it being a meet, then hopefully being regular