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"Bit of a generalisation there saying women like black ! This one doesn't ! Everyone's individual in what they find attractive in a person. That's the whole point of the site and of writing profiles as we all have different desires and likes. "it was a statement not a generalisation so sorry if it sounded like that ! I meant ' some ' women do ! | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? " Why does it bother you so much if they do? You'd be far better concentrating on the people who do want to meet you rather than those who don't...complaining about being excluded is unlikely to make them change their minds... | |||
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"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? Why does it bother you so much if they do? You'd be far better concentrating on the people who do want to meet you rather than those who don't...complaining about being excluded is unlikely to make them change their minds..." just something to discuss , I don't lose my sleep so please don't worry about me ! | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? " How many profiles are there where the women don't mention a guys colour? Getting a bit tiresome this | |||
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"Ok I meant to say ' on some profiles there seems a desire for black guys and not whites and I just wanted to ask what attributes they have we haven't besides the boring obvious lol " Why do some women prefer white men? Or Asian men? Or young men? Or old men? It's called preferences | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? Why does it bother you so much if they do? You'd be far better concentrating on the people who do want to meet you rather than those who don't...complaining about being excluded is unlikely to make them change their minds..." hw was trying to start a debate thats all why do people have to twist everything on here its beyond me  | |||
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"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? " I just like nice guys I'm attracted to. If some women feel they are more attracted to black/white/Mediterranean or whatever then why should they not specify on their profile? | |||
"Ok I meant to say ' on some profiles there seems a desire for black guys and not whites and I just wanted to ask what attributes they have we haven't besides the boring obvious lol Why do some women prefer white men? Or Asian men? Or young men? Or old men? It's called preferences" jeez I know that ! I know what the word preference means | |||
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"Wish I'd never put it up lol how do you delete a topic ? " in answer to your question apart from the obvious cliche size etc, some black guys can be very dominant and rough and have a dif attitude toward woman. which can be appealing to SOME women but u will find alot that wont sleep with blacks guys aswell for that reason | |||
" So women what do you think ? hw was trying to start a debate thats all why do people have to twist everything on here its beyond me "He asked me what I thought, I told him what I thought, no twisting of anything...I asked him a legitimate question based on his original posting... If people are in the market for starting a "debate" then I'm afraid they have to be prepared not to get the answers they are looking for...don't get your knickers in a such a twist, after all, in the grand scheme of things it's all pretty trivial... | |||
"...some black guys can be very dominant and rough and have a dif attitude toward woman. " If you take out the word 'black' this post would make perfect sense  | |||
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"...some black guys can be very dominant and rough and have a dif attitude toward woman. If you take out the word 'black' this post would make perfect sense "Yes that thought crossed my mind too. Non of those characteristics are unique or conversely in anyway defining of black men | |||
" Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else? " OP - I would like to ask what do YOU define as 'the obvious'? | |||
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" So women what do you think ? hw was trying to start a debate thats all why do people have to twist everything on here its beyond me
He asked me what I thought, I told him what I thought, no twisting of anything...I asked him a legitimate question based on his original posting...
If people are in the market for starting a "debate" then I'm afraid they have to be prepared not to get the answers they are looking for...don't get your knickers in a such a twist, after all, in the grand scheme of things it's all pretty trivial..."another generalisation, iv'e not got my knickers in a twist, just like the op isnt loosing sleep over it either. ive got eyes i know waht people do on here, the disagreeing or trying to kill the post is fun to some. its not debating wen the guy asks a simple question yet noone can give a simple answer,dont have to be in agreement u know what u did there im not getting drawn in again  | |||
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"The ones who have taken me out have been witty and charming and a gentleman outside the bedroom as well as in it. That goes for younger guys as much as the older ones. However....whatever ethnic origin my dates have I like these traits, and would actively pick them over someone who was rude, ignorant and mean. I don't select anyone on the basis of their skin colour or cock size. What makes me like them is if we get on and they treat me nicely. "Thats how it should be  | |||
"once u go black u never go back son "In my case never a truer word spoken. My preference, my decision and my choice not to have to justify either. | |||
"...some black guys can be very dominant and rough and have a dif attitude toward woman. If you take out the word 'black' this post would make perfect sense
Yes that thought crossed my mind too. Non of those characteristics are unique or conversely in anyway defining of black men"thats why the word SOME!!! black guys its obvious it can be across the board wht ever colour u are but in my experience of talking to alot of woman about it thats there reasoning dont turn it into a race thing when it clearly isnt ment that way!! | |||
" So women what do you think ? hw was trying to start a debate thats all why do people have to twist everything on here its beyond me
He asked me what I thought, I told him what I thought, no twisting of anything...I asked him a legitimate question based on his original posting...
If people are in the market for starting a "debate" then I'm afraid they have to be prepared not to get the answers they are looking for...don't get your knickers in a such a twist, after all, in the grand scheme of things it's all pretty trivial...another generalisation, iv'e not got my knickers in a twist, just like the op isnt loosing sleep over it either. ive got eyes i know waht people do on here, the disagreeing or trying to kill the post is fun to some. its not debating wen the guy asks a simple question yet noone can give a simple answer,dont have to be in agreement u know what u did there im not getting drawn in again "Yet once again you are the one making off topic posts derailing the thread by complaining about the posts other people have made. As far as I can see you are the only person not discussing the original topic | |||
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"Bit of a generalisation there saying women like black ! This one doesn't ! Everyone's individual in what they find attractive in a person. That's the whole point of the site and of writing profiles as we all have different desires and likes. " nope this one doesnt either. | |||
"Wish I'd never put it up lol how do you delete a topic ? in answer to your question apart from the obvious cliche size etc, some black guys can be very dominant and rough and have a dif attitude toward woman. which can be appealing to SOME women but u will find alot that wont sleep with blacks guys aswell for that reason "replying to the post no?? was it not u that just went on about how im tarring all coloured guys the same | |||
"...some black guys can be very dominant and rough and have a dif attitude toward woman. If you take out the word 'black' this post would make perfect sense
Yes that thought crossed my mind too. Non of those characteristics are unique or conversely in anyway defining of black men thats why the word SOME!!! black guys its obvious it can be across the board wht ever colour u are but in my experience of talking to alot of woman about it thats there reasoning dont turn it into a race thing when it clearly isnt ment that way!! " calm down Yam, not accusing you of anything matey. Just pointing out that the reason you gave for some ladies prefering Black men makes no sense as these attributes can be found in all men regardless of colour  | |||
"...some black guys can be very dominant and rough and have a dif attitude toward woman. If you take out the word 'black' this post would make perfect sense
Yes that thought crossed my mind too. Non of those characteristics are unique or conversely in anyway defining of black men thats why the word SOME!!! black guys its obvious it can be across the board wht ever colour u are but in my experience of talking to alot of woman about it thats there reasoning dont turn it into a race thing when it clearly isnt ment that way!!
calm down Yam, not accusing you of anything matey. Just pointing out that the reason you gave for some ladies prefering Black men makes no sense as these attributes can be found in all men regardless of colour "i am calm lol its cool | |||
"...some black guys can be very dominant and rough and have a dif attitude toward woman. If you take out the word 'black' this post would make perfect sense
Yes that thought crossed my mind too. Non of those characteristics are unique or conversely in anyway defining of black men thats why the word SOME!!! black guys its obvious it can be across the board wht ever colour u are but in my experience of talking to alot of woman about it thats there reasoning dont turn it into a race thing when it clearly isnt ment that way!! "I read what you said and it isn't clear at all that you are not referring to race, since you make the point that some BLACK guys are dominant and rough. No offence but that has to be the silliest statement I have read on the forums in a while. | |||
" So women what do you think ? hw was trying to start a debate thats all why do people have to twist everything on here its beyond me
He asked me what I thought, I told him what I thought, no twisting of anything...I asked him a legitimate question based on his original posting...
If people are in the market for starting a "debate" then I'm afraid they have to be prepared not to get the answers they are looking for...don't get your knickers in a such a twist, after all, in the grand scheme of things it's all pretty trivial...another generalisation, iv'e not got my knickers in a twist, just like the op isnt loosing sleep over it either. ive got eyes i know waht people do on here, the disagreeing or trying to kill the post is fun to some. its not debating wen the guy asks a simple question yet noone can give a simple answer,dont have to be in agreement u know what u did there im not getting drawn in again "Maybe that's because there isn't one simple answer
Some will like black guys because if the myth about the size of their wangers.
Some will like them because they can be percieved to be more dominant (even though that's a load of bollocks)
Some will like it because it's taboo to them and if their family found out there would be uproar (yes this does happen)
Some will like it because they like the contrast in skin tone
Some will like it just to puss the whiney white boys off
See......lots of answers to just one question.....I even said the 'boring obvious' one | |||
"The ones who have taken me out have been witty and charming and a gentleman outside the bedroom as well as in it. That goes for younger guys as much as the older ones. However....whatever ethnic origin my dates have I like these traits, and would actively pick them over someone who was rude, ignorant and mean. I don't select anyone on the basis of their skin colour or cock size. What makes me like them is if we get on and they treat me nicely.
Thats how it should be "I'm sure some people are happy to go with each other just for the cock size and skin colour, not saying that's a bad thing because again it's their preferences and what they want. I must admit, sometimes I'm quite happy to be approached for how I look (especially in a club) because it's good for my ego but other times I like it when people find me interesting and want to get to know me better. Both have their place and it's nice to know you can pull based on your looks as well as make friends because of your personality. crystal | |||
"Why do most women like chocolate?" Substances found in chocolate, such as phenylethylamine, theobromine, anandamide and tryptophan trigger mood enhancing chemicals and neurotransmitters to be released in the brain. Phenylethylamine is a chemical found in the body that is similar to amphetamine. It helps mediate feelings of giddiness, attraction, euphoria and excitement. Researchers believe phenylethylamine causes the brain to release mesolimbic dopamine in the pleasure centers of the brain, which peaks during an orgasm. This may be why women report to prefer chocolate to sex. So that's why that last rolo is so important...
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"Am I the only one cringing at the OP?? Sounds like someone has a very large chip on their shoulder. "lol no chip on my shoulder at all ! I have many black guy mates and don't have a problem , it was just an observation and I seriously didn't mean anything nasty ! | |||
"Am I the only one cringing at the OP?? Sounds like someone has a very large chip on their shoulder. lol no chip on my shoulder at all ! I have many black guy mates and don't have a problem , it was just an observation and I seriously didn't mean anything nasty ! "surely you will observe many profiles on here where women do not put that on their profile, as well as a lot that also say no black or asian males as well. Personal choice. | |||
" Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else? OP - I would like to ask what do YOU define as 'the obvious'?" well it's a common thought that they are more well endowed which I'm sure you you are aware | |||
" Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else? OP - I would like to ask what do YOU define as 'the obvious'?well it's a common thought that they are more well endowed which I'm sure you you are aware " not really, I've seen just as many with smaller ones as well as bigger. | |||
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"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? " Please explain, what is the 'obvious' reason. I'm struggling to be honest because I cannot think of 1 reason which is obvious ? Oh, hang on! I've just had a eureka moment ... are you trying to say that all black guys have massive cocks ? Is that it ? | |||
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"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? Please explain, what is the 'obvious' reason. I'm struggling to be honest because I cannot think of 1 reason which is obvious ? Oh, hang on! I've just had a eureka moment ... are you trying to say that all black guys have massive cocks ? Is that it ?" yes and I'm sure you know I'm saying that ! Lol | |||
" Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else? OP - I would like to ask what do YOU define as 'the obvious'?well it's a common thought that they are more well endowed which I'm sure you you are aware " It's a myth - as I'm sure you are aware. All sizes of penis can be found within the entire male population. What is more prevalent with black men is a good physic, pleasing personality traits, manners and stamina. As it has been said before, ultimately everyone has preferences. If no-one had preferences there would be no need to apply filters and no-one would find themselves unwanted...it would be a shag fest for all!! | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? Please explain, what is the 'obvious' reason. I'm struggling to be honest because I cannot think of 1 reason which is obvious ? Oh, hang on! I've just had a eureka moment ... are you trying to say that all black guys have massive cocks ? Is that it ?yes and I'm sure you know I'm saying that ! Lol" You must have a lot of insider information of the size of black guys cocks then, as I am sure you would not be so silly as to make assumptions based on absolutely no evidence?  | |||
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"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? " Not all of us do ! x | |||
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"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? Please explain, what is the 'obvious' reason. I'm struggling to be honest because I cannot think of 1 reason which is obvious ? Oh, hang on! I've just had a eureka moment ... are you trying to say that all black guys have massive cocks ? Is that it ?yes and I'm sure you know I'm saying that ! Lol You must have a lot of insider information of the size of black guys cocks then, as I am sure you would not be so silly as to make assumptions based on absolutely no evidence? "playing footy and being in showers gives you a good insight lol | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? Please explain, what is the 'obvious' reason. I'm struggling to be honest because I cannot think of 1 reason which is obvious ? Oh, hang on! I've just had a eureka moment ... are you trying to say that all black guys have massive cocks ? Is that it ?yes and I'm sure you know I'm saying that ! Lol You must have a lot of insider information of the size of black guys cocks then, as I am sure you would not be so silly as to make assumptions based on absolutely no evidence? "playing footy and being in showers gives you a good insight lol | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? " I have no preference for skin colour, but don't get the question!
Do white guys get a raw deal?
I think not...most black guys that have contacted me have been more thoughtful, articulate,able to read my profile and write a message that I can read...some guys make an effort..some DON'T! | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? " Just out of interest - what 'raw deal' ate 'us guys' supposed to be getting? I'm confused?  | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? Just out of interest - what 'raw deal' ate 'us guys' supposed to be getting? I'm confused? "Does he mean some guys get a raw deal cos some women have preferences? | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? Why does it bother you so much if they do? You'd be far better concentrating on the people who do want to meet you rather than those who don't...complaining about being excluded is unlikely to make them change their minds...hw was trying to start a debate thats all why do people have to twist everything on here its beyond me "Well said....gets very boring doesnt it!! | |||
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"Massive generalisation! Most profiles I read just say they want to meet nice guys and in this bracket would include black guys!" | |||
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"see... this topic always comes up... and i always now say.... for ever profile that goes on about BBC or whatever nonsense... I'll show you one that says "no black guys" ect ect.... why do people always tend to concentrate on the things that exclude them... as opposed to going out and impressing those who they can!! the fact is that you are never going to appeal to everyone.... so i am not sure why people get so bent up about it!" Agreed. There's a lot of bollocks and myth surrounding black men (whatever 'black' means?). If evolution deemed that a big 'shlong' was better than a small one then I would not have been able to produce three kids and Rio would not have multiple orgasms. I rest my case. | |||
"Ok I meant to say ' on some profiles there seems a desire for black guys and not whites and I just wanted to ask what attributes they have we haven't besides the boring obvious lol " . You've not noticed the many profiles where women/couples explicitly state they're looking for white males? Would you have a theory on that or just accept it's a personal preference? | |||
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"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? Just out of interest - what 'raw deal' ate 'us guys' supposed to be getting? I'm confused?
Does he mean some guys get a raw deal cos some women have preferences?
"They do? Since when?
Nobody told me!!!
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"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? Just out of interest - what 'raw deal' ate 'us guys' supposed to be getting? I'm confused?
Does he mean some guys get a raw deal cos some women have preferences?
They do? Since when?
Nobody told me!!!
Damn - that's where I'm going wrong!! "They also make exceptions to those preferences. | |||
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"i noticed that quite a few state "no blacks or asians" so it equals itself out in peoples preferences. "i notice age comes up in preferences too,like no older than 35 years,or age groups 35-55years etc. | |||
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"i noticed that quite a few state "no blacks or asians" so it equals itself out in peoples preferences.
i notice age comes up in preferences too,like no older than 35 years,or age groups 35-55years etc."I think most folk have some preferences. And some of them will make exceptions to those preferences if they see someone they like or strike up a conversation they enjoy. | |||
"Ok I meant to say ' on some profiles there seems a desire for black guys and not whites and I just wanted to ask what attributes they have we haven't besides the boring obvious lol " I've een on countless ladies profiles "No offence intended,: not interested in black guys - just my preference. White guys only", or words to that effect. Now this is entirely the preference of the person - you seek what you want. I still believe for as many women want black guys, are just as many women that want white guys (or whatever preference) - the trick is in finding the matches. | |||
"Ok I meant to say ' on some profiles there seems a desire for black guys and not whites and I just wanted to ask what attributes they have we haven't besides the boring obvious lol I've een on countless ladies profiles "No offence intended,: not interested in black guys - just my preference. White guys only", or words to that effect. Now this is entirely the preference of the person - you seek what you want. I still believe for as many women want black guys, are just as many women that want white guys (or whatever preference) - the trick is in finding the matches." didnt mean for it to cause such a stir ! | |||
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"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? Please explain, what is the 'obvious' reason. I'm struggling to be honest because I cannot think of 1 reason which is obvious ? Oh, hang on! I've just had a eureka moment ... are you trying to say that all black guys have massive cocks ? Is that it ?yes and I'm sure you know I'm saying that ! Lol" Errrrrrr! Excuse me - I'll be the first to tell you that is NOT entirely true! If I had a penny each time I met someone and they've looked at "me" and gone "Sorry, not big enough", I'd be rich! Someone people make assumptions the best sex comes (only) with a big cock, and therefore the best sex is with (any) black guy, good luck to them. I personally want to meet on the basis of a person: not just because am black, a male, straight, or even have a pulse - but for everything that makes me me!" | |||
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"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? " I am curious as to what you mean by "the obvious" ? | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? I am curious as to what you mean by "the obvious" ? "Darker skin colour than white men. | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? I am curious as to what you mean by "the obvious" ?
Darker skin colour than white men."Look good in rap videos?? Lol. | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? I am curious as to what you mean by "the obvious" ?
Darker skin colour than white men.
Look good in rap videos?? Lol."Are you forgetting Flavor Flav? | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? Someone people make assumptions the best sex comes (only) with a big cock, and therefore the best sex is with (any) black guy, good luck to them. I personally want to meet on the basis of a person: not just because am black, a male, straight, or even have a pulse - but for everything that makes me me!"" well said | |||
" Someone people make assumptions the best sex comes (only) with a big cock, and therefore the best sex is with (any) black guy, good luck to them. I personally want to meet on the basis of a person: not just because am black, a male, straight, or even have a pulse - but for everything that makes me me!"" Could not agree with more.. and that is a similar situation to being "selected" by much younger guys based on my "mature" age. I dont want to be chosen for that but for what and who I am! | |||
" Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else? OP - I would like to ask what do YOU define as 'the obvious'?well it's a common thought that they are more well endowed which I'm sure you you are aware " no they are not, thats a myth.. does that give an insight into the 'raw deal' part of your OP maybe..? | |||
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"Out of interest the smallest ones Ive ever seen were neither white or black. "If it was green there's a chance they guy was dead. | |||
"Out of interest the smallest ones Ive ever seen were neither white or black. "im with you on this one | |||
"Cant say Ive been with a black guy for a while, but when Ive been on dates they have been the ultimate gentlemen. Nice touch. "This is true. And refreshing. | |||
"We can categorically state we have seen the biggest cocks on white men." wouldn't say biggest cocks are better prefer average anyday | |||
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"Its what you do with it really anyway. Well for me, anyway. A bit of girth is nice but I really dont like that feeling that someone is trying to play ping pong with my cervix. " totally agree its soo uncomfortable | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? Please explain, what is the 'obvious' reason. I'm struggling to be honest because I cannot think of 1 reason which is obvious ? Oh, hang on! I've just had a eureka moment ... are you trying to say that all black guys have massive cocks ? Is that it ?yes and I'm sure you know I'm saying that ! Lol You must have a lot of insider information of the size of black guys cocks then, as I am sure you would not be so silly as to make assumptions based on absolutely no evidence? playing footy and being in showers gives you a good insight lol"Do your team all run around the showers with a hardon? | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? " I find some black guys as sexy as some white guys, just like i find some white guys non sexy, as I find some black guys non sexy, of course everyone has a preference. What gets me on profiles is when you see women or couples put NO blacks or NO Asians, I personally find that a bit offensive, for me it would be better to say what you are looking for as to what your not looking for, I am not sure I have seen a profile saying NO whites, in this day an age people make themselves look an sound narrowminded on here, | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? I find some black guys as sexy as some white guys, just like i find some white guys non sexy, as I find some black guys non sexy, of course everyone has a preference. What gets me on profiles is when you see women or couples put NO blacks or NO Asians, I personally find that a bit offensive, for me it would be better to say what you are looking for as to what your not looking for, I am not sure I have seen a profile saying NO whites, in this day an age people make themselves look an sound narrowminded on here, " Even funnier when they add "We are not racists"... Surely putting "NO blacks or NO Asians" already gives a bad signal... Granted they don't want to meet black or asian men but it also seems to they wont even have a conversation with them on here. Every time I read a profile like that, I just ask myself "They still make people like you!?" | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? I find some black guys as sexy as some white guys, just like i find some white guys non sexy, as I find some black guys non sexy, of course everyone has a preference. What gets me on profiles is when you see women or couples put NO blacks or NO Asians, I personally find that a bit offensive, for me it would be better to say what you are looking for as to what your not looking for, I am not sure I have seen a profile saying NO whites, in this day an age people make themselves look an sound narrowminded on here, Even funnier when they add "We are not racists"... Surely putting "NO blacks or NO Asians" already gives a bad signal... Granted they don't want to meet black or asian men but it also seems to they wont even have a conversation with them on here. Every time I read a profile like that, I just ask myself "They still make people like you!?"" How is that different to someone putting 'blacks only' though? It objectifies people. | |||
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"it is not racist to have a preference one way our they other, or even to mention it in your profile. racism is to look at another creed as being less than yourself. I prefer blondes, does that make me prejudice against redheads and brunettes? I think not. Same applies here too." No one has said its racist to have a preference, thats common sense and no need to even mention it, all I am saying is it's better to say what you are looking for, than to say No blacks, No asians, or in fact anything else they may not be looking for be it fat, thin, old, young, it's about having the manners to word it in an unoffensive manner, and to be fair, for me personally the people who can not understand what I am saying are not really worth bothering with. | |||
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"I personally never been with any other guy then white purely because sexually I'm only attracted to white guys, but I do have lots of friends who are different nationality and colour many of them did ask me out or in bed but I just find myself attracted to white guys only. Saying that maybe I've not met the one I would find attractive yet. You never know and you can't put all in one bag. Same like I'm not in to guys with big cock as I never cum when he's got big cock. We are all different " I agree | |||
"it is not racist to have a preference one way our they other, or even to mention it in your profile. racism is to look at another creed as being less than yourself. I prefer blondes, does that make me prejudice against redheads and brunettes? I think not. Same applies here too. No one has said its racist to have a preference, thats common sense and no need to even mention it, all I am saying is it's better to say what you are looking for, than to say No blacks, No asians, or in fact anything else they may not be looking for be it fat, thin, old, young, it's about having the manners to word it in an unoffensive manner, and to be fair, for me personally the people who can not understand what I am saying are not really worth bothering with." . That's an extremely good point, some 3 dimensional thinking going on there! I often come across such profiles and whilst of course people are merely expressing a preference it does on some occasions come across as though they're celebrating their intransigence! Like you said a less offensive way to state things is to simply say what you are looking for, rather than over gilding the lily in stating what you don't want! | |||
"it is not racist to have a preference one way our they other, or even to mention it in your profile. racism is to look at another creed as being less than yourself. I prefer blondes, does that make me prejudice against redheads and brunettes? I think not. Same applies here too. No one has said its racist to have a preference, thats common sense and no need to even mention it, all I am saying is it's better to say what you are looking for, than to say No blacks, No asians, or in fact anything else they may not be looking for be it fat, thin, old, young, it's about having the manners to word it in an unoffensive manner, and to be fair, for me personally the people who can not understand what I am saying are not really worth bothering with. . That's an extremely good point, some 3 dimensional thinking going on there! I often come across such profiles and whilst of course people are merely expressing a preference it does on some occasions come across as though they're celebrating their intransigence! Like you said a less offensive way to state things is to simply say what you are looking for, rather than over gilding the lily in stating what you don't want! "The only problem is, taking my example, I used to state what I was looking for (women) ... but got challenged repeatedly by bi guys (not so many gay guys, but still a few) that would say "but nothing in your profile says you're not interested - to us that means you're open to offers as you have not said no". So sorry, I agree with those stating what they don't want. If a lady wants to put on her profile: "no black guys", "no single guys", "no straight guys", "no guys younger than 35","no guys shorter than 6 ft", "no guys less than 10 inch cocks" (or whatever) then that's her prerogative and fine by me. | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? I find some black guys as sexy as some white guys, just like i find some white guys non sexy, as I find some black guys non sexy, of course everyone has a preference. What gets me on profiles is when you see women or couples put NO blacks or NO Asians, I personally find that a bit offensive, for me it would be better to say what you are looking for as to what your not looking for, I am not sure I have seen a profile saying NO whites, in this day an age people make themselves look an sound narrowminded on here, Even funnier when they add "We are not racists"... Surely putting "NO blacks or NO Asians" already gives a bad signal... Granted they don't want to meet black or asian men but it also seems to they wont even have a conversation with them on here. Every time I read a profile like that, I just ask myself "They still make people like you!?"" Well well well...there goes the race discussion again, it always finds a way to creep in doesn't it... I say this as a black man (not that i look TYPICALLY like one), while it is easy to play the race card in almost any situation, i would like to think that it is really not fair to play that card here conclusively......surely sex is a part of our life where we are sooooo specific as to what we like...some have racial reasons and some just preferential, my humble opinion, it is neither possible nor fair to generalise!!! | |||
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"...some black guys can be very dominant and rough and have a dif attitude toward woman. If you take out the word 'black' this post would make perfect sense ". | |||
"..its not debating wen the guy asks a simple question yet noone can give a simple answer,dont have to be in agreement u know what u did there im not getting drawn in again ". ..but it's not a simple question that will receive a simple answer, the most constructive responses so far perhaps don't placate the OP, it's about preferences-plain...and simple. | |||
"Many many profiles the women want black ! Now besides the obvious reason is there anything else ? Personality ? Looks? Pleasure as in pleasing the lady ? I think white guys have these attributes ! So women what do you think ? And guys , do we get a raw deal ? I find some black guys as sexy as some white guys, just like i find some white guys non sexy, as I find some black guys non sexy, of course everyone has a preference. What gets me on profiles is when you see women or couples put NO blacks or NO Asians, I personally find that a bit offensive, for me it would be better to say what you are looking for as to what your not looking for, I am not sure I have seen a profile saying NO whites, in this day an age people make themselves look an sound narrowminded on here, Even funnier when they add "We are not racists"... Surely putting "NO blacks or NO Asians" already gives a bad signal... Granted they don't want to meet black or asian men but it also seems to they wont even have a conversation with them on here. Every time I read a profile like that, I just ask myself "They still make people like you!?" Well well well...there goes the race discussion again, it always finds a way to creep in doesn't it... I say this as a black man (not that i look TYPICALLY like one), while it is easy to play the race card in almost any situation, i would like to think that it is really not fair to play that card here conclusively......surely sex is a part of our life where we are sooooo specific as to what we like...some have racial reasons and some just preferential, my humble opinion, it is neither possible nor fair to generalise!!!" . On a thread asking why (some) women prefer black guys it would be rather difficult to avoid discussions about 'race'. | |||
