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Anybody have an opinion on off putting pics IE toilet in background,untidy room the old sky remote pic or anything in general I know we’re all not professional photographers but some of us do try to take a acceptable pic any thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Toilet pics, messy backgrounds, animals in the shot, blurry out of focus and close ups of genitals. I really don't like being sent pics of people having bare back sex with a random from a singles profile either haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pics which make me feel like it’s a medical exam.
Lazy photos (lads more guilty of this) putting up a zero effort pic (usually preceding moaning about lack of interest)
Messy background /toilet in background
Looking miserable |
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Can't stand seeing photos in bathrooms with toilet in background, dirty fingernails, brown stained bum holes, dirty untidy homes. There are some properly ugly and dirty people on this site, why would you think it's sexy to show scabby spotty skin! |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Pretty much all have been said already in this thread.
It's always a shame as well when a profile is NOTHING but photos of up close genitals. Even worse when it's a couple's profile and there's only one person represented.
Yes, there are lots of people who don't know how to compose a picture and that's fine. If they find it sexy, why should we yuck their yum. They just don't excite us I'm afraid.
C x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Photos which look like they were taken on a poorly focused polaroid camera circa 1981, then photocopied, then photocopy photocopied through three rounds, the resulting photo then photographed with a 2008 Nokia.
...you can just make out it is a...
...yes, you guessed it... a cock (I think?) |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Actually forgot to mention those suspect photos that are sent which are heavily compressed/pixilated and don't flag up on reverse search. They are normally a big waving red flag...
Either they took them using a fancy calculator or they have been swiped from someone's private social media!
C x |
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"Anybody have an opinion on off putting pics IE toilet in background,untidy room the old sky remote pic or anything in general I know we’re all not professional photographers but some of us do try to take a acceptable pic any thoughts "
Oh fuck. That's my entire portfolio |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
Sandwich |
Rude words written on (usually a woman’s) body.
Single guy profiles with lots of pics of them having sex with someone.
Pictures where the person has taken a good beating/ whipping.
Also all of the ones mentioned above.
It appears I am rather fussy lol. Or I have standards.   |
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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire/Northwest |
Messy backgrounds and dirty fingernails are very off putting as is the obligatory 'cock over a toilet' picture.
Although no cock pic on a profile is also off putting as its the only thing mrs cherry is interested in. |
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Action pics when you can't actually tell who the profile owner is.You can get this often on couple profiles too ,where theres loads of group sex and it's not obvious who the male of the couple actually is.
Close up cock/pussy pics
Anything held open or gaping.
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We have a couple that most people on this thread are put off by lol, you can't please everyone so do as you please.
I'm put off when people send photos that are years old, alot can change in a year.
Mrs,
P.s the one's who don't like to see close ups have a look at mine, might just change your mind. Lol
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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago
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"We have a couple that most people on this thread are put off by lol, you can't please everyone so do as you please.
I'm put off when people send photos that are years old, alot can change in a year.
Mrs,
P.s the one's who don't like to see close ups have a look at mine, might just change your mind. Lol
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I am the world's worst for zooming in to photos n checking out the shit tip in the background.
Dick pics full stop do absolutely nothing for me! They're just not pretty imho.
Dirty fingernails,
Bad decor,
Close ups,
Genitals that look like they may need some medical attention.
Stuff that looks as though zero effort has gone into it,
If someone isn't making any effort with thier profile, what they going to be like when they meet? |
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"Extreme close ups do nothing for me
I'm sure 10 years ago when you mailed us there was a close up on our profile, didn't put you off then, lol"
Who can even remember who mailed them 10 years ago?
I can't even remember who mailed me last week! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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• Over the loo or if there is a loo in the shot and the seat/lid is up. 
• Guys with pics of them 'tributing' women on their profile. If you tribute someone and that person displays your tribute on their page, great, having dozens of them on your own.. just no!
• Screenshots! Like why?! For one they are not original and not allowed if you read the photo rules. You find the pic on your phone, take a screenshot, come on fab, then upload screenshot? Why don't you just upload the original pic?! It is on the same device the screenshot is 
• The same god awful out of focus, low res, grainy pic being uploaded multiple times.
There are more but we'll stop now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some I'm not keen on sure, legs wide open, tits flapping about, action shots but....its not my profile and they obv think the pics are ok so who am I to judge? |
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A picture of little Johnny in the background in his year 6 uniform beaming proudly down from the mantlepiece whilst below his mum is sucking some stranger off whilst his dad watches.
Anything with kids toys in the picture, clear it up and show some respect. |
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"Anybody have an opinion on off putting pics IE toilet in background,untidy room the old sky remote pic or anything in general I know we’re all not professional photographers but some of us do try to take a acceptable pic any thoughts "
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I think all of us girls pay attention to all of that ... bed sheets wallpaper ... nails lol  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
Photos of women (or men) bending over and sticking their naked arses into the camera are pet hates of mine. To me it's ungainly, vulgar and the opposite of erotic, yet so many do it. While I'll defend anyone's right to post whatever (legal) picture they like, to me these photos are a filter. |
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"Anybody have an opinion on off putting pics IE toilet in background,untidy room the old sky remote pic or anything in general I know we’re all not professional photographers but some of us do try to take a acceptable pic any thoughts "
Gaping arses and diamond butt plugs. |
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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago
Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat |
Rings anywhere tbh.
Especially C..k ones.
Tongue studs.
Chains anywhere bar round there neck.
Seriously how can anyone ruin the sext horny body parts doing these crazy things.
F.y.i-
It's only-Impo.
T x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Close up vagina pics especially the ones with spunk on them.
As males we’re supposed to find that attractive/stimulating…..,,,,
No thanks  "
In the same vein of things we're meant to find attractive, what on earth do some women think is attractive about a shot of them biting their lower lip?
It's a hoary old chestnut that in theory is meant to imply a degree of arousal on the woman's part but in practice it's utterly cringe-inducing.
At best it looks contrived and awkward, at worst it looks like autocannibalism.
I've never seen anyone on here make it look anything less than embarrassing. |
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"Anybody have an opinion on off putting pics IE toilet in background,untidy room the old sky remote pic or anything in general I know we’re all not professional photographers but some of us do try to take a acceptable pic any thoughts
Gaping arses and diamond butt plugs."
Totally agree.
Love Female.
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Hairy fannies or cocks .For god sake shave people .
The worst of all-Pics of people flexing their muscles and showing off how proud they are of their "gym " bodies".Men and women who do this just come across as vain and shallow to me . They give off the impression of 'look at me look at me ".
Women with lip filler. They just remind me of sucker fish .
And photos taken in a mirror where you can see the phone in the mirror.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything gaping. Generally hate shots with cum in them.
Kids stuff all over the place icks me too, like when a dude snaps a dick pic with a cot in the distance."
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"Anybody have an opinion on off putting pics IE toilet in background,untidy room the old sky remote pic or anything in general I know we’re all not professional photographers but some of us do try to take a acceptable pic any thoughts "
The men with pics of their cock over a bog or a sink just boggle my mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've a spot in my living room I take most of my pics from, out of the way of the dogs etc dirty hands for me, seen some real sights, like I can almost snell the picture |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"The old cock over the toilet seat is a big no go for me. Same with the sky remote but hate the ones where a guy sends you a pic of him bend over with his cheeks spread I'm just like why?."
Disgusting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The old cock over the toilet seat is a big no go for me. Same with the sky remote but hate the ones where a guy sends you a pic of him bend over with his cheeks spread I'm just like why?."
We haven’t worked it out either but to scared to ask them incase it might encourage them. |
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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago
birmingham |
"The old cock over the toilet seat is a big no go for me. Same with the sky remote but hate the ones where a guy sends you a pic of him bend over with his cheeks spread I'm just like why?.
We haven’t worked it out either but to scared to ask them incase it might encourage them. "
I usually just delete and move on safest way I find just need eye bleach after for the images lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I (Mrs) hate pics of cum all over a face - ??
Also - why do some men keep their socks on? Looks crap. Or are they hiding freaky feet??"
Men keep their socks on in case they get cold feet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I (Mrs) hate pics of cum all over a face - ??
Also - why do some men keep their socks on? Looks crap. Or are they hiding freaky feet??
Men keep their socks on in case they get cold feet?"
Still a turn off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I (Mrs) hate pics of cum all over a face - ??
Also - why do some men keep their socks on? Looks crap. Or are they hiding freaky feet??
Men keep their socks on in case they get cold feet?
Still a turn off"
No I mean cold feet......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rude words written on (usually a woman’s) body.
Single guy profiles with lots of pics of them having sex with someone.
Pictures where the person has taken a good beating/ whipping.
Also all of the ones mentioned above.
It appears I am rather fussy lol. Or I have standards. "
This! |
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"Cock pics with everyday goods as size comparisons. Whether it's a fun sized Mars bar or a full size Pringles tube, there's nothing sexy about it to me!"
Mr W&W always looks nervous when i get the tictacs out  |
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Close up vulvas, with duvet cover lips, spunk all over. My lady bits are the tidy tucked in version so was quite amazed to learn that not all vulvas are tucked in one's like mine.
Toilet seat pictures etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I just put up my very first 'fab if...' pic, just for a bit of a laugh. Maybe I should delete it after reading this thread? Haha.
I think everyone has different likes and dislikes so just post pics you think are good and hopefully they'll attract others with similar interests.
For me, some pics are better than no pics, even if they're not to my taste. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gym pics
Muscle flexing pics ( why do people think looking like Popeye on Spinich looks attractive ?)
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Is not one of Fabs requirements as being gym fit? |
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Dirty messy backgrounds.
Anything that looks like it was taken through a blanket by a man passing on a bicycle.
Blurred and wobbly action pics borderline acceptable, multi tasking is not everyones strong point.
Cock pics that remind me of a gnome hiding in a shrubbery.
Wake him up and comb his hair for fucks sake. Hes on the internet.
Other than that, its a reflection of who posted it, so,yeah, post what you like. |
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"Gym pics
Muscle flexing pics ( why do people think looking like Popeye on Spinich looks attractive ?)
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I would take a gym pic for a guy any day than a selfie that’s taken more like a girls pose
It’s hard for men as their pics tend to look better being taken by someone else or doing something casually in every day life |
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"Anybody have an opinion on off putting pics IE toilet in background,untidy room the old sky remote pic or anything in general I know we’re all not professional photographers but some of us do try to take a acceptable pic any thoughts "
As a former pro photographer and studio art director, I try really hard not to bring my old career to this particular table.
But the struggle is real.
Pics taken in rooms that resemble the local tip,, and videos shot with ‘Eastenders’ or ‘The Chase’ clearly visible or audible, I really don’t find erotic.
However, I really can’t blame people for poor lighting or unflattering camera angles because they are not things that are obvious to everyone..
I’m always willing to give people some tips and share some tricks of the trade though, to help them improve their content
Equally willing to come and take photos or videos for people, I still really enjoy photography and video and people have always been my favourite muse. |
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"I've recently found a new sub-set of pics to dislike.
Willies with blemishes or warts on them.
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Sadly we have discovered the same and always block just in case they might message and potentially meet |
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"People asking for fabs...
Dirty house...
Feet around a cock.. 
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Hmmm, I take it you've never had your cock massaged by a pair of nice feet? I'm going to assume you haven't, you should definitely try it.
Frank |
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Reading these posts is so reassuring! I find close up pussy and asshole pics just vulgar! Oh and cum shots! Leave some mystery for the magic moments! Maybe I'm a little old fashioned but this is a swingers site not a porn site (in my view) |
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And if you have the same duvet cover as my teenage son that’s a no from me too haha 
