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By *icag OP Man
over a year ago
birmingham |
Hi people! We are a couple that have discussed about swinging a lot lately! We think about going to a club first,but in the same time because it would be our first time we don’t know how would that make us feel! In the same time we feel like having a couple coming over to ours will give us a little bit more confidence! After how long,or even better,when do you think it’s k to ask question? |
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If you both are seriously comfortable in your relationship then I would say you should invite a couple over and just start slowly. We had a guy come over 3 weeks in a row. First we just kissing and playing with my wife boobs. Second we move on a bit and got naked and had a little play with each other. Third we all got naked and had some sexy fun. But you need to be really strong in your relationship because at first you might find it weird or something doesn’t feel right watching another guy eating your wife or your wife not enjoying watching you fuck another woman. Before you start make sure you agree on what you can do with the other person |
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By *icag OP Man
over a year ago
birmingham |
Thanks,we will do that eventually!
Regarding my question: how was it,or is it for you? Do you go for the way they look? Or you wanna find out more about them,or even get to know them? |
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We personally look for a few things. Looks are relatively important you don’t want to be looking at someone really ugly while you are fucking them. Also they must be able to have a conversation nothing worse than someone who can’t have a conversation with you before you get naked. And we found don’t look for people who are like models or think they are super sexy because they will just look down at you if they don’t like something about you. We had one guy who didn’t like my wife stretch marks and he literally turned us down because of them from having two kids |
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"Thanks,we will do that eventually!
Regarding my question: how was it,or is it for you? Do you go for the way they look? Or you wanna find out more about them,or even get to know them? "
We generally have a social meet first, that way there is zero pressure for anyone. We can have a chat and a couple of drinks, then make arrangements to meet again or to move on somewhere more intimate.
More often though, we will go to clubs.
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