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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never on the foot step but local. It is actually difficult to find single man’s, the sheer quantity even within 20, 30 miles make it different and the ocean of dick pics makes it almost impossible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Need some distance for any meet as the old saying goes dont shit on your own doorstep not that either are cheating but we have a private life and a swinging life two different worlds lol |
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"Localish . If I like them then we can meet more regular and I love a last minute booty call to mine , just makes this possible . Princess zx"
Yeah I fully get that side one thing that’s always worry’s most is that if it goes wrong then they may turn nasty and it’s horrible to hear when people are dicks and out people! |
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"Localish . If I like them then we can meet more regular and I love a last minute booty call to mine , just makes this possible . Princess zx
Yeah I fully get that side one thing that’s always worry’s most is that if it goes wrong then they may turn nasty and it’s horrible to hear when people are dicks and out people! "
Yeah thats always a risk , I try hard to be picky , always meet for social away from home etc chat for ages first , never meet too often to avoid any full on attachment , only meet people with verifications etc x but yeah always a risk I suppose x ty fir your thoughts , I will certainly try and be careful |
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"What is a big thing for a couple, do you prefer to have a single male local to you or do you prefer a single guys that’s just visiting your area?? "
Doesn't matter what you prefer, profile doesn't get read anyway.  
Mrs |
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"What is a big thing for a couple, do you prefer to have a single male local to you or do you prefer a single guys that’s just visiting your area??
Doesn't matter what you prefer, profile doesn't get read anyway.
Mrs"
Yeah this is a true point, I don’t get why most men don’t read a profile  |
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Same as others, we prefer localish. Bumping into someone from fab on school run..with his wife (not so single then) isn't ideal. Learned our lesson (and will be reminded of it for next several years  )
Equally the visiting guy from over an hour away we'd love to see more regularly but just not realistic |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
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"What is a big thing for a couple, do you prefer to have a single male local to you or do you prefer a single guys that’s just visiting your area?? "
Are you asking purely out of interest or because you’re trying to work out whether it’s better to set your location to begin local to a couple or to being far away and saying you’ll be visiting the area? |
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"What is a big thing for a couple, do you prefer to have a single male local to you or do you prefer a single guys that’s just visiting your area??
Are you asking purely out of interest or because you’re trying to work out whether it’s better to set your location to begin local to a couple or to being far away and saying you’ll be visiting the area?"
No just wanted to see what people opinions are on it! That’s the point of a forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We definatley don't shit where we eat and nobody gets near our family home. Clubs or hotels a minimum 20 miles away. Don't want the kids answering the door to some pissed up wanker looking for a follow up meet because he's horny and thought it was a good idea after a slab of Stella. |
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"We definatley don't shit where we eat and nobody gets near our family home. Clubs or hotels a minimum 20 miles away. Don't want the kids answering the door to some pissed up wanker looking for a follow up meet because he's horny and thought it was a good idea after a slab of Stella."
This is our fear if we met local |
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Localish is fine, we want to build a connection with someone and have at least the option to meet more than once.
I'd be hesitant to meet someone super close, like within a couple of miles, as the likelihood of bumping into someone we know would be increased.
We are happy to travel too, esp if meeting couples that go to same clubs as us for example |
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It looks like the swinging community is very 50/50 I like it! I understand both sides really well it’s all about risk/reward and I get the one stop areas because it don’t bring risk, but whatever your opinion enjoy every you can because you only live once |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We fine local meetings best as long distance meetings to hard to arrange, we can’t accommodate so always meet at there’s whoever we meet after we have chatted but we understand that everyone has there own preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The longer we are on the site, the more we realise the most common used phrase on single male profiles is “discretion a must”
Unless you keep uploading content you disappear off the face of the earth.
Most just don’t both to read profiles.
Swinging is not an easy lifestyle.
Distance becoming subjective if you actual want to connect with the right people.
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