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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Asking for a friend. 
She's chatted to the guy for months, he's respectful, nice, polite (and hopefully not too polite during the act), has been reliable and she thinks he's really fit. She's talked to the OH in detail and communicated boundaries.
It's the night before and she is incredibly nervous. And no, she doesn't want to cancel, she knows it's just nerves.
Advice, tips and any suggestions are all most welcome.
TTFN
x Jess |
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By *eeboCouple
over a year ago
basingstoke |
From albeit limited experience I would say as the husband in a few mmf you having taken your time and knowing/wanting to meet the other man is the biggest thing.
Enjoy what feels good at the time within your agreed boundaries although having said that for me it has on a couple of times been a big turn on when Mrs went further than the boundaries that had been agreed. That worked because they were her own boundaries and she knew I wouldn't mind, it showed in the moment she was enjoying herself and relaxed to do a little more because it felt good.
Don't put too much pressure in trying and get through a tick list of to-do's! If it's good hopefully you will meet again and explore more over time, better to be left wanting more id say!!
Hope it goes well and enjoy being the centre of attention! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take your time, enjoy the moment and don’t feel the pressure. Best thing to do is chill and get relaxed so you’re all on that same wavelength, just take it slowly |
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Before I lost my mrs when we first started we agreed to go to a club and just let whatever happened happen and if we just talked then that was it. Which is what happened a few times first then when finally we took a guy in a room she just knew it was right and by good did she enjoy her self |
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"Asking for a friend.
She's chatted to the guy for months, he's respectful, nice, polite (and hopefully not too polite during the act), has been reliable and she thinks he's really fit. She's talked to the OH in detail and communicated boundaries.
It's the night before and she is incredibly nervous. And no, she doesn't want to cancel, she knows it's just nerves.
Advice, tips and any suggestions are all most welcome.
TTFN
x Jess"
Get hubby to pick your sexiest lingerie, 15 mins before he arrives get hubby to fuck you a little but not come inside you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best advice I can give is to know that it's not going to go 100% perfect the first time.
Relax easy said then done
Know it's perfectly normal
Don't drink or take anything.
A range a second time straight away so you don't over think it. It's easy to make problems where there aren't any.
Above all enjoy the experience. Xxx |
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
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Take it slow and steady. Nerves are entirely natural and remember, he will have his own nerves and doubts to battle too.
Get comfortable together, chat and relax and then see where things go. Don’t set goals and a tick list, on your first session just focus on getting comfortable and the nerves will drop away “, soon to be replaced by “the horn”.
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"Thanks for the helpful advice everyone. Think we'll remove the temptation of the vodka though! haha
xJ"
A wise decision. I would think you’ll enjoy it more without the effects of alcohol potentially masking any of the sensations. |
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