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"Or couples where the lady is bi but will keep her word when she says she will play straight, and not try to convince Mrs to try bi is incredibly difficult."
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I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces  just ask the question, discuss what you want.
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"I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces just ask the question, discuss what you want.
Mrs "
Our experience of meeting couples with a bi woman who is happy to play straight haven't been positive. This has made me wary of meeting any couple who say this unfortunately.
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"I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces just ask the question, discuss what you want.
Mrs "
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Not every straight woman fancies every man, so stands to reason the same applies to women too. |
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It is hard as so many couples expect some fem to fem play .I'm straight,its on our profile & we've had couples say that's fine they're happy with straight play.Then later try and bring up the girls playing or ask will she kiss the mrs etc ,so we just stop chatting after that .
I don't think it's just bi play ,but any couples who don't seem to respect our boundaries would be a red flag to us
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"I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces just ask the question, discuss what you want.
Mrs
Our experience of meeting couples with a bi woman who is happy to play straight haven't been positive. This has made me wary of meeting any couple who say this unfortunately.
I have absolutely no doubt that you're a woman of your word though "
Of course, I'm not sure why any bi woman would attempt to play with a straight woman, it's kind of embarrassing to be honest if that actually happens.
Always discussions up front and boundaries set.
Mrs |
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By *archel OP Couple
over a year ago
A field somewhere |
"I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces just ask the question, discuss what you want.
Mrs
Our experience of meeting couples with a bi woman who is happy to play straight haven't been positive. This has made me wary of meeting any couple who say this unfortunately.
I have absolutely no doubt that you're a woman of your word though
Of course, I'm not sure why any bi woman would attempt to play with a straight woman, it's kind of embarrassing to be honest if that actually happens.
Always discussions up front and boundaries set.
Mrs "
Sadly, in our experience, it has happened all too often, to the point that Mrs has been second guessing the lifestyle.
There has been one couple with bi woman, who asked, was told no, and never asked again. We have played with his couple a few times and respect them for respecting our preference.
If all couples were the same (pipe dream I know) then this lifestyle would be full of happier people, and threads like this would become redundant.
So, we do know there are couples who do respect others wishes/preferences/choices(enter any additional descriptive here) but they are just difficult to find.
We won't rule out playing with couples with bi women, we could miss out on the best time of our lives! |
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"I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces just ask the question, discuss what you want.
Mrs
Our experience of meeting couples with a bi woman who is happy to play straight haven't been positive. This has made me wary of meeting any couple who say this unfortunately.
I have absolutely no doubt that you're a woman of your word though
Of course, I'm not sure why any bi woman would attempt to play with a straight woman, it's kind of embarrassing to be honest if that actually happens.
Always discussions up front and boundaries set.
Mrs "
Unfortunately, it's a thing I've had to navigate as a clinically straight woman in swingers clubs and socials. Most can't hide their disappointment face to face. I've definitely had to duck out o a few interactions when the female started to reach over for me.
Not everyone is into group sex with any and everyone. |
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"I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces just ask the question, discuss what you want.
Mrs
Our experience of meeting couples with a bi woman who is happy to play straight haven't been positive. This has made me wary of meeting any couple who say this unfortunately.
I have absolutely no doubt that you're a woman of your word though
Of course, I'm not sure why any bi woman would attempt to play with a straight woman, it's kind of embarrassing to be honest if that actually happens.
Always discussions up front and boundaries set.
Mrs "
It does seem to be common sadly
We've been told that the woman of a couple can turn me bi too,no she can't .
I've no doubt lots of bi women who say they're happy with straight play are ,but some aren't either.
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"Or couples where the lady is bi but will keep her word when she says she will play straight, and not try to convince Mrs to try bi is incredibly difficult."
I’m strictly ‘top half only’. Anything else would bring up my dinner! |
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"I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces just ask the question, discuss what you want.
Mrs
Our experience of meeting couples with a bi woman who is happy to play straight haven't been positive. This has made me wary of meeting any couple who say this unfortunately.
I have absolutely no doubt that you're a woman of your word though
Of course, I'm not sure why any bi woman would attempt to play with a straight woman, it's kind of embarrassing to be honest if that actually happens.
Always discussions up front and boundaries set.
Mrs
It does seem to be common sadly
We've been told that the woman of a couple can turn me bi too,no she can't .
I've no doubt lots of bi women who say they're happy with straight play are ,but some aren't either.
Miss"
One phrase guaranteed to make me shudder is
'women are like spaghetti, straight until wet'. |
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
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I'm bi (mrs) but if the other woman isn't curious and has stated that to begin with then I respect her wishes, nothing worse than others trying to pressure you to do something your not happy with |
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"I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces just ask the question, discuss what you want.
Mrs
Our experience of meeting couples with a bi woman who is happy to play straight haven't been positive. This has made me wary of meeting any couple who say this unfortunately.
I have absolutely no doubt that you're a woman of your word though
Of course, I'm not sure why any bi woman would attempt to play with a straight woman, it's kind of embarrassing to be honest if that actually happens.
Always discussions up front and boundaries set.
Mrs
Sadly, in our experience, it has happened all too often, to the point that Mrs has been second guessing the lifestyle.
There has been one couple with bi woman, who asked, was told no, and never asked again. We have played with his couple a few times and respect them for respecting our preference.
If all couples were the same (pipe dream I know) then this lifestyle would be full of happier people, and threads like this would become redundant.
So, we do know there are couples who do respect others wishes/preferences/choices(enter any additional descriptive here) but they are just difficult to find.
We won't rule out playing with couples with bi women, we could miss out on the best time of our lives!"
I have zero FOMO.- Fear of missing out. In fact I have the opposite. JOMO- joy of missing out. People exhaust my neurodivergent brain so I have to put tons of effort into socialising and building and retaining my social skills.
the trauma survivor part of my brain says people equals bad so I spend a lot of time challenging that and would rule people out if they make me uncomfortable in any way.
Yeah, I have some hard boundaries that I'm not willing to compromise on for my own safety and sanity but also not a great idea to do things that triggers the hell out of me for people's own protection. Not a pretty sight when I lose my shit, even the professionals get traumatized. there's every day triggers and then there's the type I get which triggers a psychotic episode.
It's not worth the risk for me to interact with pushy, ambivalent, indecisive, inconsistent people. Better for me with people who say what they are going to do and then do what they say. No surprises or boundary-pushing over here...especially from unqualified people who won't know how to handle a psychotic trigger. 
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"I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces just ask the question, discuss what you want.
Mrs
Our experience of meeting couples with a bi woman who is happy to play straight haven't been positive. This has made me wary of meeting any couple who say this unfortunately.
I have absolutely no doubt that you're a woman of your word though
Of course, I'm not sure why any bi woman would attempt to play with a straight woman, it's kind of embarrassing to be honest if that actually happens.
Always discussions up front and boundaries set.
Mrs
It does seem to be common sadly
We've been told that the woman of a couple can turn me bi too,no she can't .
I've no doubt lots of bi women who say they're happy with straight play are ,but some aren't either.
Miss
One phrase guaranteed to make me shudder is
'women are like spaghetti, straight until wet'. "
Totally agree Mrs nice ,but so many aren't honest about how they play too & that's why people assume all women are bi to some degree.
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"I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces just ask the question, discuss what you want.
Mrs
Our experience of meeting couples with a bi woman who is happy to play straight haven't been positive. This has made me wary of meeting any couple who say this unfortunately.
I have absolutely no doubt that you're a woman of your word though
Of course, I'm not sure why any bi woman would attempt to play with a straight woman, it's kind of embarrassing to be honest if that actually happens.
Always discussions up front and boundaries set.
Mrs
It does seem to be common sadly
We've been told that the woman of a couple can turn me bi too,no she can't .
I've no doubt lots of bi women who say they're happy with straight play are ,but some aren't either.
Miss
One phrase guaranteed to make me shudder is
'women are like spaghetti, straight until wet'.
Totally agree Mrs nice ,but so many aren't honest about how they play too & that's why people assume all women are bi to some degree.
Miss"
Yeah I think there are a lot of reasons for that. It's a shame because the people who are totally up front can get tarred with the same brush. |
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"I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces just ask the question, discuss what you want.
Mrs
Our experience of meeting couples with a bi woman who is happy to play straight haven't been positive. This has made me wary of meeting any couple who say this unfortunately.
I have absolutely no doubt that you're a woman of your word though
Of course, I'm not sure why any bi woman would attempt to play with a straight woman, it's kind of embarrassing to be honest if that actually happens.
Always discussions up front and boundaries set.
Mrs
It does seem to be common sadly
We've been told that the woman of a couple can turn me bi too,no she can't .
I've no doubt lots of bi women who say they're happy with straight play are ,but some aren't either.
Miss"
I'm actually surprised and this and the reply above, I couldn't think of nothing more embarrassing than trying to push myself on a straight woman it's just not on, I mean if it was a man doing this to a women that had stated no there would be a whole uproar about it.
I'd be pissed if I was expecting straight play and the women made a move on me after previously discussing things, I'm not attracted to every woman.
Sorry guys you've been through this I'd be absolutely mortified!
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We won't rule out playing with couples with bi women, we could miss out on the best time of our lives!
I'm sorry other people have ruined something beautiful "
I wouldn't say it's ruined. I have pretty strict boundaries due to my mental health and autistic traits and when I stay within those boundaries, I'm always rewarded in the most beautiful way because I've stayed true to myself and I feel the most safe and secure and connected with those people who are capable of staying within my boundaries despite their own desires.
I used to be a people pleaser...that lead to psychotic breakdowns. So I don't do that anymore.
Sticking to my boundaries works for me...not only in swinger life but with family, friends and work and I'm happier because of it. |
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Right, time for a controversial...or just dumb...question.
If a lady is straight, or is playing straight, doesn't the act of sucking a cock with the other ladies fluids on it make it a bit bi ?
By this I mean, it would be easier with a bi lady who likes the taste of women and doesn't mind that part of "straight play".
This is a serious question but I am prepared to be ridiculed. |
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"Right, time for a controversial...or just dumb...question.
If a lady is straight, or is playing straight, doesn't the act of sucking a cock with the other ladies fluids on it make it a bit bi ?
By this I mean, it would be easier with a bi lady who likes the taste of women and doesn't mind that part of "straight play".
This is a serious question but I am prepared to be ridiculed. "
No it doesn't she's sucking a cock.
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"Or couples where the lady is bi but will keep her word when she says she will play straight, and not try to convince Mrs to try bi is incredibly difficult.
I’m strictly ‘top half only’. Anything else would bring up my dinner! "
Oh dear....I don't even kiss women. I can't even imagine being in that scenario of doing top half only and someone suddenly switching to the bottom half.
Shudder. |
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"I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces just ask the question, discuss what you want.
Mrs
Our experience of meeting couples with a bi woman who is happy to play straight haven't been positive. This has made me wary of meeting any couple who say this unfortunately.
I have absolutely no doubt that you're a woman of your word though
Of course, I'm not sure why any bi woman would attempt to play with a straight woman, it's kind of embarrassing to be honest if that actually happens.
Always discussions up front and boundaries set.
Mrs
It does seem to be common sadly
We've been told that the woman of a couple can turn me bi too,no she can't .
I've no doubt lots of bi women who say they're happy with straight play are ,but some aren't either.
Miss
I'm actually surprised and this and the reply above, I couldn't think of nothing more embarrassing than trying to push myself on a straight woman it's just not on, I mean if it was a man doing this to a women that had stated no there would be a whole uproar about it.
I'd be pissed if I was expecting straight play and the women made a move on me after previously discussing things, I'm not attracted to every woman.
Sorry guys you've been through this I'd be absolutely mortified!
Mrs "
It's not your fault Mrs ,
Yes I agree that if it was men doing this there would be an uproar.
That's why I try and make it clear on our profile that there would be no girl play ,for those looking specifically for it.
I often think it's driven by the man too ,ie on my single profile i've had men from couples message saying their Mrs wants to try a woman.Or one admitted he'd put his lady as bi as he thought that would attract more meets.
I wish people would just be honest with themselves and upfront with others on here .After all if you can't be honest here ,where can you be.
My other half can be orally bi,like you it isn't essential and he'd never try anything with a straight male,it's just best to be totally honest we find. |
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By *archel OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Right, time for a controversial...or just dumb...question.
If a lady is straight, or is playing straight, doesn't the act of sucking a cock with the other ladies fluids on it make it a bit bi ?
By this I mean, it would be easier with a bi lady who likes the taste of women and doesn't mind that part of "straight play".
This is a serious question but I am prepared to be ridiculed.
No it doesn't she's sucking a cock.
Mrs "
Exactly this 
the same as it doesn't make me gay/bi because I kiss her after she has sucked someone's cock. |
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"I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces just ask the question, discuss what you want.
Mrs
Our experience of meeting couples with a bi woman who is happy to play straight haven't been positive. This has made me wary of meeting any couple who say this unfortunately.
I have absolutely no doubt that you're a woman of your word though
Of course, I'm not sure why any bi woman would attempt to play with a straight woman, it's kind of embarrassing to be honest if that actually happens.
Always discussions up front and boundaries set.
Mrs
It does seem to be common sadly
We've been told that the woman of a couple can turn me bi too,no she can't .
I've no doubt lots of bi women who say they're happy with straight play are ,but some aren't either.
Miss
One phrase guaranteed to make me shudder is
'women are like spaghetti, straight until wet'. "
Cringe, shudder, vom....triggered trauma response....freeze, flight, fight or fawn.
the thought of someone trying to soften you up like spaghetti...  Eww...coercion vibes.
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"I'm bi (mrs) but if the other woman isn't curious and has stated that to begin with then I respect her wishes, nothing worse than others trying to pressure you to do something your not happy with "
Facts...I don't even want to play with indecisive men who aren't sure if they want to play or not.... even that makes me uncomfortable if they are not giving an enthusiastic yes! |
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"Right, time for a controversial...or just dumb...question.
If a lady is straight, or is playing straight, doesn't the act of sucking a cock with the other ladies fluids on it make it a bit bi ?
By this I mean, it would be easier with a bi lady who likes the taste of women and doesn't mind that part of "straight play".
This is a serious question but I am prepared to be ridiculed.
No it doesn't she's sucking a cock.
Mrs
Exactly this
the same as it doesn't make me gay/bi because I kiss her after she has sucked someone's cock."
Even if she is covered in sperm? |
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"Right, time for a controversial...or just dumb...question.
If a lady is straight, or is playing straight, doesn't the act of sucking a cock with the other ladies fluids on it make it a bit bi ?
By this I mean, it would be easier with a bi lady who likes the taste of women and doesn't mind that part of "straight play".
This is a serious question but I am prepared to be ridiculed. "
I derive no pleasure from of tasting other ladies' vaginal fluids on a man and it's not something I seek out. However, it doesn't trigger an uncomfortable/trauma response especially if I know that he's been playing with another woman. So it sits in the neutral territory of clinical..Meh...
Like when two men DP. they can feel each other's cocks inside the woman but that doesn't make them automatically gay/bi/bicurious. |
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"I do have to say just because a woman is bi doesn't mean she's attracted to every female on the site, I wouldn't avoid couples with a bi female incase she pounces just ask the question, discuss what you want.
Mrs
Our experience of meeting couples with a bi woman who is happy to play straight haven't been positive. This has made me wary of meeting any couple who say this unfortunately.
I have absolutely no doubt that you're a woman of your word though
Of course, I'm not sure why any bi woman would attempt to play with a straight woman, it's kind of embarrassing to be honest if that actually happens.
Always discussions up front and boundaries set.
Mrs
It does seem to be common sadly
We've been told that the woman of a couple can turn me bi too,no she can't .
I've no doubt lots of bi women who say they're happy with straight play are ,but some aren't either.
Miss
One phrase guaranteed to make me shudder is
'women are like spaghetti, straight until wet'.
Totally agree Mrs nice ,but so many aren't honest about how they play too & that's why people assume all women are bi to some degree.
Miss
Yeah I think there are a lot of reasons for that. It's a shame because the people who are totally up front can get tarred with the same brush. "
Totally agree ,I'm glad when I see profiles stating they are after mostly fem play ,as I know that we're not gonna be a match .
It's the trickster ones that are harder to navigate .
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"Right, time for a controversial...or just dumb...question.
If a lady is straight, or is playing straight, doesn't the act of sucking a cock with the other ladies fluids on it make it a bit bi ?
By this I mean, it would be easier with a bi lady who likes the taste of women and doesn't mind that part of "straight play".
This is a serious question but I am prepared to be ridiculed.
No it doesn't she's sucking a cock.
Mrs
Exactly this
the same as it doesn't make me gay/bi because I kiss her after she has sucked someone's cock.
Even if she is covered in sperm?"
It takes a lot more than that to make someone bisexual |
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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago
Leeds + Newcastle |
"To be honest as a bi women with a couple I'd probably prefer to play straight, I'm not one for being watched or putting on a show so FF play while the men watch doesn't appeal to me much.
Mrs "
Exactly this.
Play straight with couples as I'm not a performing monkey for their amusement |
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Like when two men DP. they can feel each other's cocks inside the woman but that doesn't make them automatically gay/bi/bicurious."
DP at least has a physical barrier between them, but if you go DVP there's a small chance you'll catch the Ghey |
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By *archel OP Couple
over a year ago
A field somewhere |
"Right, time for a controversial...or just dumb...question.
If a lady is straight, or is playing straight, doesn't the act of sucking a cock with the other ladies fluids on it make it a bit bi ?
By this I mean, it would be easier with a bi lady who likes the taste of women and doesn't mind that part of "straight play".
This is a serious question but I am prepared to be ridiculed.
No it doesn't she's sucking a cock.
Mrs
Exactly this
the same as it doesn't make me gay/bi because I kiss her after she has sucked someone's cock.
Even if she is covered in sperm?"
She won't have it anywhere near her face, so I'm safe there |
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"Right, time for a controversial...or just dumb...question.
If a lady is straight, or is playing straight, doesn't the act of sucking a cock with the other ladies fluids on it make it a bit bi ?
By this I mean, it would be easier with a bi lady who likes the taste of women and doesn't mind that part of "straight play".
This is a serious question but I am prepared to be ridiculed.
No it doesn't she's sucking a cock.
Mrs
Exactly this
the same as it doesn't make me gay/bi because I kiss her after she has sucked someone's cock.
Even if she is covered in sperm?
It takes a lot more than that to make someone bisexual "
Ok. But it makes me ill to think of it...truly. I know its possibly a bit uptight, I just find the idea of anything to do with a man sexually abhorrent.
I don't judge others but speak for myself. And this includes 3somes. I dont want to be near an erect penis and have turned down lots of opportunities due to this.
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"Right, time for a controversial...or just dumb...question.
If a lady is straight, or is playing straight, doesn't the act of sucking a cock with the other ladies fluids on it make it a bit bi ?
By this I mean, it would be easier with a bi lady who likes the taste of women and doesn't mind that part of "straight play".
This is a serious question but I am prepared to be ridiculed.
No it doesn't she's sucking a cock.
Mrs
Exactly this
the same as it doesn't make me gay/bi because I kiss her after she has sucked someone's cock.
Even if she is covered in sperm?"
I mean I don't get the desire from bodily fluids...those are just things from a medical book in my brain. Some men don't ejaculate on orgasm and some women have to use lube in their vagina.
If your fetish/arousal initiation is bodily fluids ok but mine is the male form from head to toe. ( I appreciate trans men but without bottom surgery my brain has no desire for a male pussy/clitoris). Just like gay and lesbian people know they are not hetero even if they play with bi-people of the same gender. |
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"Right, time for a controversial...or just dumb...question.
If a lady is straight, or is playing straight, doesn't the act of sucking a cock with the other ladies fluids on it make it a bit bi ?
By this I mean, it would be easier with a bi lady who likes the taste of women and doesn't mind that part of "straight play".
This is a serious question but I am prepared to be ridiculed.
No it doesn't she's sucking a cock.
Mrs
Exactly this
the same as it doesn't make me gay/bi because I kiss her after she has sucked someone's cock.
Even if she is covered in sperm?
She won't have it anywhere near her face, so I'm safe there "
Thats good then |
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Like when two men DP. they can feel each other's cocks inside the woman but that doesn't make them automatically gay/bi/bicurious.
DP at least has a physical barrier between them, but if you go DVP there's a small chance you'll catch the Ghey "
Lol@at catch the Ghey... 5% chance would you say or more like 10%  I'm trolling now..I'm trying to be nice! |
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Like when two men DP. they can feel each other's cocks inside the woman but that doesn't make them automatically gay/bi/bicurious.
DP at least has a physical barrier between them, but if you go DVP there's a small chance you'll catch the Ghey
Lol@at catch the Ghey... 5% chance would you say or more like 10% I'm trolling now..I'm trying to be nice!"
It's ok, if you can't have a bit of fun and a laugh, then life gets very dull x |
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Like when two men DP. they can feel each other's cocks inside the woman but that doesn't make them automatically gay/bi/bicurious.
DP at least has a physical barrier between them, but if you go DVP there's a small chance you'll catch the Ghey
Lol@at catch the Ghey... 5% chance would you say or more like 10% I'm trolling now..I'm trying to be nice!
It's ok, if you can't have a bit of fun and a laugh, then life gets very dull x"
Indeed if I don't laugh, I'd be bloody crying ( and complaining) all of the time. i'd rather entertain myself with my corny morbid humor and eat some doritos and oreos. |
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"Right, time for a controversial...or just dumb...question.
If a lady is straight, or is playing straight, doesn't the act of sucking a cock with the other ladies fluids on it make it a bit bi ?
By this I mean, it would be easier with a bi lady who likes the taste of women and doesn't mind that part of "straight play".
This is a serious question but I am prepared to be ridiculed.
No it doesn't she's sucking a cock.
Mrs
Exactly this
the same as it doesn't make me gay/bi because I kiss her after she has sucked someone's cock.
Even if she is covered in sperm?
It takes a lot more than that to make someone bisexual
Ok. But it makes me ill to think of it...truly. I know its possibly a bit uptight, I just find the idea of anything to do with a man sexually abhorrent.
I don't judge others but speak for myself. And this includes 3somes. I dont want to be near an erect penis and have turned down lots of opportunities due to this.
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Strong words there Sir. "Ill" and "sexually abhorrent" As someone who was raised in an openly h0m0ph0bic society, with a mild fear of being chased down the street by lesbians trying to R me.
I've lucky met lots of different people on the gender/sexual orientation spectrum from my world travels.
As someone who goes to swingers clubs...there are hundreds of erect penises and quite a few wet squirting vaginas on display...no idea of how you survive in this lifestyle having such a visceral reaction. I'm straight but vaginas and boobs do not make me ill....especially since I have them myself.
Of course if you are more suited, to being with another man's female partner while he's in another room...that's a thing in the lifestyle. I can't say one is better than the other...as long as all parties are happy and unharmed.
Happy Fabbing Sir and I hope the only erect penis you come across is your own.  |
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I am not homophobic and have wished I was bi in the past as it would have made life easier.
I just have an uncontrollable reaction to MY being involved with men. Even at crossing swords level.
I am very open minded and happy that all do what makes us happy, but I cannot change me.
Yes it's made the lifestyle hard and infact has led to me stepping out of it.
I don't begrudge anybody their (legal) preferences but just because someone is bi it doesn't make sperm a neutral substance. It is from a mans penis and I don't want it near me...any more than a lesbian (who felt like I do) would.
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"Right, time for a controversial...or just dumb...question.
If a lady is straight, or is playing straight, doesn't the act of sucking a cock with the other ladies fluids on it make it a bit bi ?
By this I mean, it would be easier with a bi lady who likes the taste of women and doesn't mind that part of "straight play".
This is a serious question but I am prepared to be ridiculed.
No it doesn't she's sucking a cock.
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Exactly this
the same as it doesn't make me gay/bi because I kiss her after she has sucked someone's cock.
Even if she is covered in sperm?
It takes a lot more than that to make someone bisexual
Ok. But it makes me ill to think of it...truly. I know its possibly a bit uptight, I just find the idea of anything to do with a man sexually abhorrent.
I don't judge others but speak for myself. And this includes 3somes. I dont want to be near an erect penis and have turned down lots of opportunities due to this.
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You are perfectly within your rights to feel that way. Everyone has boundaries. I wouldn't want to have my husband's cock in my mouth after it had been inside another woman unprotected(condoms mean this would never happen though). |
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