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I think that once you have been active in the lifestyle, it is difficult to then go back to vanilla.
Not the I am single and no intention of being so, I would want a partner open to the lifestyle. |
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I've been single and part of a couples profile on here.
Love both.
with couples you both have to find the other(s) attractive and not just take one for the team, so it can be harder unless you both are allowed to play separately.
If you enjoy it, why give it up?
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I'm on here as single and have a couples profile with someone I met from here.. we've discussed and he's suggested we don't see others alone...
So if I wasn't with him then I don't think I could go back to vanilla although I would try very hard if that's what we had discussed.. haha
Is true though..no escape haha |
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"I've been single and part of a couples profile on here.
Love both.
with couples you both have to find the other(s) attractive and not just take one for the team ( which happens lots), so it can be harder unless you both are allowed to play separately.
If you enjoy it, why give it up?
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They would have to be very special in vanilla life, for me to give up this life.
Ideally I would like to find "the Mister" on here |
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"Would you carry on the swinging lifestyle.
Personally I’d love to find someone with the same background "
Ditto.
I couldn't imagine being monogamous now. It just doesn't appeal to me, but then again, most things about conventional relationships don't appeal to me as I've matured.
I like having my home be my space, so the idea of someone eventually wanting to move in isn't appealing at all. I have no interest in marriage. To me it's a waste of time and money. |
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Yes been on here as a couple and as a single male. Unfortunately dating sites dont have a swingers only filter, always enjoyed the hotwife thing as a couple on here. Vanilla just isn’t for me. Fingers crossed another fab single will catch my fancy. |
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