So......?
You are in a market place of like minded individuals/couples.
Some will select and read your profile. 99% will just shotgun replies.
You can filter.
You can approach first by investing time.
If your a solo female or a couple - you will get bombarded by people who just cant be arsed to read your profile.
You have to set your parameters to limit numbers of contacts and find potential matches. |
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It is hard to find on this site. I have found most lads on here keen on a quick fix. I’ve managed longer standing arrangements but find that after a while, especially if you’re unable to turn it into a relationship, more is needed of you/ their feelings get in the way. The worst kind are those you think you have a situation-ship with that then start to take that for granted or go off piste with what you agreed.
Lessons I took over the years is be exceptionally clear about what you want and need, making sure you all agree on it upfront and check in that everyone is happy regularly. And then be okay with walking away if those agreed boundaries are crossed or disrespected. Good luck |
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I would love a regular playmate, not just for sex, but for sharing other stuff with like a day out, a nice meal, stuff like that. But, like most on here, actual meets are quite rare. |
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We’ve been looking for someone for a long, long time and never managed to find a suitable guy. However, we are very hopeful that our luck may have changed! It’s early days but we’ve met a single guy who lives alone, has a nice comfortable home, is attractive, VWE, etc. and is into the things that we are (cuckolding). We’re staying over at his tomorrow - out for drinks first so that they can get close in public and then back to his. He’s making up the spare bed for me (mr) - we can’t wait! |
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Had my regular for years now, call him my hotel hubby. Over the years we have been through some times and he is married and his wife knows . I'm married too and the three of us are are together and go to clubs and parties as a three. |
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