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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hay guys dont you think this is true girls and guys
In most relationships in the swinging life it's the female that rules the roost on who they play with and who they meet and the males just agree after all we all no what men are like if it was left to the male the girls would be doing all sorts lol well if I was the one with the final say lol yeah nobody will play unless we all say but you girls are the boss he he ha is there any guys that are the boss!!! and hats off to all the guys like me with wife's who willing to play together there a rare breed x |
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I agree, Mrs W always has the final say, but she likes to leave it up to me to arrange things , she is the one that decides if it goes ahead or not tho'
Having said that its very rare she says NO !! lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah we always communicate if you don't then things go wrong badly and don't let it take over everything I arrange the meets but only when my girl says yes x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep we only swing as im bisexual and poor T has his arm firmly twisted lol,he jokes how he is badly done to when he has to watch me with a woman.
When in reality he bloody loves it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes , it is the wife's decision whether we play or not , but she happily leaves me to arrange the meet or club night .
We jointly agree on who we play with every time though .
There is no point pretending otherwise with regard to as and when we play - it wouldn't be any fun at all if we didn't both want to - and I am sure if it were just down to me to decide when , we would be doing it too often !!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive always thought it was about communication and mutual fun"
And me.
We swing as equals, neither of us get final say over the other and neither ever take a hit for the team so to speak. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive met quite a few couples where the womans obviously not into this and only doing it for her hubby
I dont think you can say women rule in swinging, each couples is different
Theres one couple that goes to a club i use where he walks in, drops her off at the bar where she sits all night while he goes and plays, then picks her up on the way our, im not sure she rules in that relationship lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive always thought it was about communication and mutual fun
And me.
We swing as equals, neither of us get final say over the other and neither ever take a hit for the team so to speak. "
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Ive always thought it was about communication and mutual fun
And me.
We swing as equals, neither of us get final say over the other and neither ever take a hit for the team so to speak. "
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when women realise they are totally the boss in swinging clubs, then they can have a really good time. Men only have to decide yes or no, women decide everything, with whom, where, for how long, what they are going to do, with how many etc etc. Club swinging doesn't really work the other way round as women who are nervous and on edge don't get it on with any conviction. I know some people like the master slave thing but the for the majority it works best if the woman's in charge.
Single women in particular should realise this, clubs are where you can rule
not keen on women who are part of a couple stopping the man having any fun, that's taking it too far 
