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By *iclassy OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
Can this every be achieved.
It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Similar to us. Wife likes to meet hot sexy guys but struggle to find genuine guys that are single and up for regular meets and dates. Putting me in my cuck position |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can this every be achieved.
It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards."
I’d be more than up for something like that but I’m probably too far away for you two  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What age range are you classing as younger?ideally mid 20s to late 30s"
If I was closer and Naomi agreed I’d love to have taken that opportunity. Take you out for meals and dates and then spend time at yours as a 3. Lots of fun to be had |
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"Can this every be achieved.
It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards."
Would love this situation! Had it many years ago! |
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"Can this every be achieved.
It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards."
I think it is quite a specialised area which most men don't completely understand. It's seems ideal, but being someone's second option, can cause issues.
What seems an "ideal situation" can lead to drift and then thay move on to pastures new. So it is not unusual for it to be difficult to find.
Good luck in your search.  |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
The majority of those I've met on here have been long term, the longest 8 years, 5 years down to one. Mainly with couples and the occasional female. I'd be happy to do the same again, in fact I'd prefer it for anyone locally. But I know age is against me as are my looks. Certainly nowhere near the 'hot' category. If I see this on a profile it's one I would avoid. Not because I feel I'm not good enough, no one is too good for me, but because I know I'm not who they are looking for. |
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I was with the sane couple for over eight years, we had the most amazing time.
Exciting, horny and we laughed a lot even went on holiday with them.
We shared so much but illness forced one to quit and it was a couple so it came to an end.
Such a shame but we are still friends even now |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
"Seeing the same guy is possiblty of them falling in love, possilby"
I disagree, not if all boundaries are kept. I always knew that I was only there to enhance THEIR sex life. |
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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago
Biggleswade |
We've explored this too but it's hard to find someone that lasts. It's a delicate balance, there's fun in flirting and chatting, meeting up but it all has to be with some level of my husband's involvement. Group chats where he can see me flirt etc work well but we've yet to meet a guy that's interested in something long term and not just a few quick meets. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
"We've explored this too but it's hard to find someone that lasts. It's a delicate balance, there's fun in flirting and chatting, meeting up but it all has to be with some level of my husband's involvement. Group chats where he can see me flirt etc work well but we've yet to meet a guy that's interested in something long term and not just a few quick meets."
It most definitely has to involve the both of you. A couple I played with for eight years, I met them through a contract magazine, if I saw her alone which was quite often, we would always take photos or video so she could show him. I would also mark her on occasion, a love bite on her thigh for example, apparently he would always push her across the dining room table and they would have some of the best sex, after she met with me. So they told me. |
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"Seeing the same guy is possiblty of them falling in love, possilby
I disagree, not if all boundaries are kept. I always knew that I was only there to enhance THEIR sex life. "
I disagree completely as I've seen and heard pleanty of times "we just fell in love and am really sorry if I hurt you..." |
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By *en ukMan
over a year ago
harrow London |
Looking for a couple who wants a regular boyfriend in London or near London to meet at the weekend. I have a car and I can travel. About me what I can tell you is that I have swinger experience, discreet, fragrant, clean and with good sense |
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"Although I am a similar age to my hotwife fwb, I have been her regular lover for around 8 years now, and her husband accepts his cuckold position in their relationship "
Oh I would love this scenario  |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
"Seeing the same guy is possiblty of them falling in love, possilby
I disagree, not if all boundaries are kept. I always knew that I was only there to enhance THEIR sex life.
I disagree completely as I've seen and heard pleanty of times "we just fell in love and am really sorry if I hurt you...""
Then I'll agree to disagree. I would suggest their relationship wasn't as strong as it should be. I've always known exactly boundaries and respected their relationship. If I ever felt someone was getting too close and I felt it was on one occasion, I would step back and end things. |
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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago
Hayling Island |
It does happen and can be amazing! My introduction to whe world of cuckolding and swinging came from being seduced by a couple in their 60's when I was 20. Ended up moving in with them as her live in lover!
All the sex I could want, free board and lodging. And an incredible introduction to my own bisexuality and the world of cuckolding  |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
What's been the reason why the selected guys have not turned into regulars? Selection process could be improved? She gets bored? They get bored? Hard to find time to arrange meets? Too many guys to choose from? Too few?
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
"we have been discussing this relationship and would love to chat to other couples who have a regular lover to understand the dynamic and any avoidable pitfalls"
important to consider both pros and cons
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It can be achieved and I'm talking from personal experience.When I was in a relationship with my son's mother she had a boyfriend for nearly 3 years.It worked very well for all of us and only ended when he moved away.
Mike |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
It’s certainly possible but difficult.
You’ve got the guys who just want to fuck and move on. Then if they are young and hot then they’re going to end up in their own serious relationship.
Think it’s hard to have a long term relationship with a young fit guy if you’re older than them and married. Unless of course they’re married and cheating in which case having a bit on the side long term might suit them but that’s something else entirely.
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"Although I am a similar age to my hotwife fwb, I have been her regular lover for around 8 years now, and her husband accepts his cuckold position in their relationship
Oh I would love this scenario "
It works for us, and I'm sure you wouldn't have any trouble finding a similar arrangement |
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"Although I am a similar age to my hotwife fwb, I have been her regular lover for around 8 years now, and her husband accepts his cuckold position in their relationship
Oh I would love this scenario
It works for us, and I'm sure you wouldn't have any trouble finding a similar arrangement "
I've been trying for 3 years now!  |
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"I'm 100%% sure this can be achieved,there are hundreds of young men wanted a regular thing so I wouldn't of thought it wouldn't be achievable "
You try striking up conversations, and chatting to fellas, then they don't show up for a social or they ghost you. As I said 3 years I've been looking now.. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"I'm 100%% sure this can be achieved,there are hundreds of young men wanted a regular thing so I wouldn't of thought it wouldn't be achievable
You try striking up conversations, and chatting to fellas, then they don't show up for a social or they ghost you. As I said 3 years I've been looking now.. "
Have any of the previous guys you've met not wanted to meet again and then it could progress to regular? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m looking for an older lady for regular fun, married with permission works better for me as I like to enjoy the same lady, without the commitment of a relationship. That’s just as hard to find so if anyone is interested.. you know where I am hahaha! Liverpool/ Manchester area |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"Ruth has a regular boyfriend. He is 10 years younger than her. It works very well for us. And I really enjoy welcoming her home after a night or weekend away. "
That's just great to hear and that it works so well for both of you. |
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"Although I am a similar age to my hotwife fwb, I have been her regular lover for around 8 years now, and her husband accepts his cuckold position in their relationship
Oh I would love this scenario "
I had a regular couple some years ago when I was touring around norfolk. Im at the other end of the country to them now. The good thing about them, they were good fun in and out of bed |
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By *-jonMan
over a year ago
London |
I’d be curious to know if it’s something you really want for the relationship, the reason I ask is, where I’ve experienced difficulty with a poly relationship is when it’s lacking common ground, re, we didn’t manage our expectations, on the flip side. When we’ve shared a relationship where we both truly understand the experimental journey we want, then there’s a very undulating smooth supportive environment.
Basically my pal, you’ve both gotta buy into the journey |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Can this every be achieved.
It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards."
Judging by the pictures on your profile your wife looks absolutely incredible so it’s hard to understand why it’s so difficult for you to find a regular boyfriend for her. I can imagine any man would be happy to have a regular girlfriend with a body as sexy as your wife’s. |
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By *iclassy OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
Think problem with wifes preference for younger guy has the drawback off them being less mature in their mindset. They sometimes lack the knowledge what keeps a mature woman continually horny by constantly turning her on by mind games if makes sense. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Think problem with wifes preference for younger guy has the drawback off them being less mature in their mindset. They sometimes lack the knowledge what keeps a mature woman continually horny by constantly turning her on by mind games if makes sense. "
What sort of mind games do you mean? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This would be the absolute dream. I had a couple before I moved and we would see each other atleast weekly. Shame there’s no gorgeous married mature women looking for a younger partner where I am now. |
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Anything is possible, depends if you expect the man to be exclusive to you though. If you want regular then speak to some of the singles in your local club and basically interview them. Filter out the timewasters and cheats, eventually you may settle on one or more regular candidates. |
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"I'm 100%% sure this can be achieved,there are hundreds of young men wanted a regular thing so I wouldn't of thought it wouldn't be achievable
You try striking up conversations, and chatting to fellas, then they don't show up for a social or they ghost you. As I said 3 years I've been looking now.. Have any of the previous guys you've met not wanted to meet again and then it could progress to regular? "
Oh they say they do, then we meet once or twice then they just ghost me! |
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By *heelerMan
over a year ago
Northants |
"I need to move up north
This sort of arrangements hard to come by down this way
Exactly, up north is where it seems to be happening  "
It happens all over apart from around here i sometimes wonder if females and couples chat to guys miles away so a meet or anything will never happen. |
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People can fall in love so best avoided unless the male is in there watching/participating
We have chatted and working up to seeing my wife massaged, then fucked by a VWE cock that has lots of girth and I stick my 6 inches in and it feels lost in the juice there. The closest I've come to this is using my hand on Mrs but many years ago the first time I entered my wife after the guy we met had been told to pull it out - the wifes pussy was so juicy that I came within minutes.
For along-term friend, not for us, but we shall see as it is hard to get the right meet and anyone that is well built, we may consider but only if I'm allowed to stay as we both have to agree a way forward |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well te good news, we have found that elusive long term play friend for the good lady. It only seems right that we start the search for a long term play friend for hubby. |
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Regular arrangement with a couple, which develops into a relationship with the wife is an ideal situation for me.
Was lucky to had some great experiences with older couples and that's definitely something I'd like to explore more. So if anyone is interested, feel free to get in touch.
If only I was closer to Manchester, would pursue relationship with the OP... x |
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By *hil153Man
over a year ago
Bournemouth |
"Regular arrangement with a couple, which develops into a relationship with the wife is an ideal situation for me.
Was lucky to had some great experiences with older couples and that's definitely something I'd like to explore more. So if anyone is interested, feel free to get in touch.
If only I was closer to Manchester, would pursue relationship with the OP...
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Wish my wife played ..ud be ideal ! |
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By *ancs29Man
over a year ago
oldham |
"Do hotwives meet couples regularly or is that a completely different subject and title?
Well as you mentioned it ! I'm a hotwife meeting a couple tonight and hopefully it becomes regular x"
wow you look stunning in your pics you near oldham if it dont work out i would love to meet you oldham here |
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By *ancs29Man
over a year ago
oldham |
"I'm 100%% sure this can be achieved,there are hundreds of young men wanted a regular thing so I wouldn't of thought it wouldn't be achievable
You try striking up conversations, and chatting to fellas, then they don't show up for a social or they ghost you. As I said 3 years I've been looking now.. Have any of the previous guys you've met not wanted to meet again and then it could progress to regular?
Oh they say they do, then we meet once or twice then they just ghost me! "
not meeting the right one here i am come and ask me |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"Can this every be achieved.
It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards."
Yes, possible. With hubby blessings would be ideal scenario for me. But not just for fuck. Going on a dates, short travels for odd weekend etc.
Anyone in SE London or kent looking for this - shout my way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Similar to us. Wife likes to meet hot sexy guys but struggle to find genuine guys that are single and up for regular meets and dates. Putting me in my cuck position "
Very well said x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can this every be achieved.
It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards."
It’s what we want for my guy too! Finding it difficult for anyone to want him due to the fact of me (fem half) - which I find odd as I’m totally on board with it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can this every be achieved.
It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards."
It’s what we want for my guy too! Finding it difficult for anyone to want him due to the fact of me (fem half) - which I find odd as I’m totally on board with it lol |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
West midlands |
I think having a regular single guy for nsa fun is more than enough. Making him boyfriend would be a huge burden for the wife as she has to handle two men in her life.
It’s husband’s fantasy in swinging life but think from the wife’s point of view as well.
I think , it can be kept limited to Hotwifing rather than looking for a boyfriend
The fantasy of sharing your wife will never end so sticking to one guy (fuckbuddy) would be another tedious task.
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By *ifeOnMarsCouple
over a year ago
somewhere out there |
Like many on here we’re looking for a regular, not a boyfriend but someone who can meet as part of a 3x and with Starchild alone….very hard to find on here but also very hard to find in clubs as well these days (but we’ll keep looking) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh when I was younger I was single for a lot of the time, just got bored too easily and on to the next woman lol.. perhaps men are programmed to always look for a new love interest rather than start with the same woman no matter how hot they are. That was me anyway when I was younger. Different now I'm older I appreciate far more of what a longer term relationship is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there is a lot of potential for this! However some guys let the rest of us down.
An older lady is always much more interesting I find personally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So funny seeing all these hot women trying to find a young scamp to have fuck them every day .. you need to go older to find regularity .. young guys just get bored with the same woman. Nothing to do with looks or personality or anything.. it's simply the thrill of someone new is more exciting.. it never leaves some of us, rest of us have learned how to switch it off in a committed relationship. |
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By *mids LadMan
over a year ago
West Midlands |
I am currently in this situation, regularly meeting an older woman, her husband is fully aware as he is the one who made contact with me. We are all comfortable with the situation and a lot of fun is being had. |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
West midlands |
"So funny seeing all these hot women trying to find a young scamp to have fuck them every day .. you need to go older to find regularity .. young guys just get bored with the same woman. Nothing to do with looks or personality or anything.. it's simply the thrill of someone new is more exciting.. it never leaves some of us, rest of us have learned how to switch it off in a committed relationship. "
And young guys can never commit to an open relationship. |
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"Can this every be achieved.
It is something we have looked for for sometime now.Wife prefers the company of young fit guys and has met them on her own obviously after careful scrutiny.However nothing has turned out to be a regular thing which is ideally what we are looking towards."
I've wanted a regular 'boyfriend' for so long, not just for sex but to go out on dates etc,but most turn out to be one-offs or only turn up when they want something from me. |
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"Like many on here we’re looking for a regular, not a boyfriend but someone who can meet as part of a 3x and with Starchild alone….very hard to find on here but also very hard to find in clubs as well these days (but we’ll keep looking) "
We have a guy we meet as often as we wish and sometimes Marie meets him on her own |
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