Im part of a couples profile on here, aswell as having a 'solo' profile (which really is a waste of time).
I was wondering if any other couples here have any rules with regards to the female meeting solo ? |
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We have one simple rule: before anything happens with another person, we request consent from each other. This way, we both know what’s happening, and it gives us both the chance to discuss any concerns before any intimacy occurs. It’s a simple, basic rule that has always worked for us. |
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"Agreed to the 2 posts above. So I'd assume that if there was something that concerned one person, that this would be discussed?"
Of course yes. Communication is the absolutely essential ingredient to successfully indulging a more open lifestyle. |
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"Agreed to the 2 posts above. So I'd assume that if there was something that concerned one person, that this would be discussed?
Of course yes. Communication is the absolutely essential ingredient to successfully indulging a more open lifestyle. "
But ultimately that all goes out the window if one person think they don't need to discuss with the other  |
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We have boundaries for either meeting in a solo situation. Our boundaries are personal things we do not want to share outside just us but they are not set by the other person.
Sometimes one will set goals or tasks or limits for the other to achieve during the meet. It adds to the connection between us.. |
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"It does not really matter what rules other couples have, relationships are all different.
You as a couple make your own rules that you are both happy with within your relationship."
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Not rules as such, we don't tell eachother what to do. We talk about everything though. Neither of us would do something that could deliberately harm the other or our relationship but we don't dictate what we can and can't do. |
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over a year ago
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"Agreed to the 2 posts above. So I'd assume that if there was something that concerned one person, that this would be discussed?
Of course yes. Communication is the absolutely essential ingredient to successfully indulging a more open lifestyle.
But ultimately that all goes out the window if one person think they don't need to discuss with the other "
Then I'd suggest that couple were not destined to remain, it's all about trust, break it and be done for. |
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"Agreed to the 2 posts above. So I'd assume that if there was something that concerned one person, that this would be discussed?
Of course yes. Communication is the absolutely essential ingredient to successfully indulging a more open lifestyle.
But ultimately that all goes out the window if one person think they don't need to discuss with the other
Then I'd suggest that couple were not destined to remain, it's all about trust, break it and be done for."
This!
It sounds like all swinging needs to be stopped asap and a serious heart to heart all cards on the table convo needs to be had asap. If not its potentially the start of the end.
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We have very simple rules, we are completely open with each other and tell each other everything. If one of us wanted to meet solo we would discuss it openly, if either of us is not fully comfortable with the situation we would say so and the situation would not go ahead.
We also have things that are personal to us and would be a hard limit for anyone else to do |
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We talk about everything as we will always want to know that everyone is on the same page
Our main rules are we won't meet solo and we won't do separate room fun, for us the fun is being together and watching eachother |
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