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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Since I have put Bi Curious on the male half of our profile the winks and messages and meets have more or less dried up .
Would it be disingenuous to change it back to straight ?.
If that's what people prefer then maybe it's better to at least get some fun rather than stick to my guns and watch the world go on by ?.
We have had one swing with a bi chap ( hi Steve ) and it was fun , but I could live with or without it .
What do the peeps here think ?. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Since I have put Bi Curious on the male half of our profile the winks and messages and meets have more or less dried up .
Would it be disingenuous to change it back to straight ?.
If that's what people prefer then maybe it's better to at least get some fun rather than stick to my guns and watch the world go on by ?.
We have had one swing with a bi chap ( hi Steve ) and it was fun , but I could live with or without it .
What do the peeps here think ?."
If you are bi curious why change it. Just make it clear in profile that you play straight when with straight men.
I used to have a couples account with a bi curious guy, which was stated on profile, we never found any trouble getting meets |
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This is what I don't understand. Both of us are bisexual and this is what our profile says. We get too many messages and winks to reply to, so I would be surprised if its that. Give it time.. |
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"I can highly recommend this couple and believe me, he's certainly willing and definitely able to play straight! 
Much to your disappointment 
Xx"
Ah, no....I watched him have sex with Mrs Jaybird and he was very good, I'm sure they won't mind me saying that.  |
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I'm not surprised at all.
Some men are still a little homophobic about it and think that bisexuals can't turn it off, and won't be able to stop themselves touching them or their willies. And some women think that bisexuals are not macho enough and more likely to be diseased.
It's a difficult one. If neither of you are really that fussed about him having a bi session then remove it. But if it's something you both want to do again then leave it on but be prepared for a reduced number of partners. |
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if changing it to bicurious has reduced the messages you receive id say its probably a good thing. less people messaging in total, but a higher proportion of them will be right for you if you are being honest |
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"I'm not surprised at all.
Some men are still a little homophobic about it and think that bisexuals can't turn it off, and won't be able to stop themselves touching them or their willies."
These are the same people who half-jokingly warn other men to keep their backs close to the wall if a gay man comes into the room, as if every gay man in existence is constantly on the look out for non-consensual anal penetration with fat, aged, homophobic knuckle draggers. |
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"I'm not surprised at all.
Some men are still a little homophobic about it and think that bisexuals can't turn it off, and won't be able to stop themselves touching them or their willies.
These are the same people who half-jokingly warn other men to keep their backs close to the wall if a gay man comes into the room, as if every gay man in existence is constantly on the look out for non-consensual anal penetration with fat, aged, homophobic knuckle draggers."
Hahahha. This made me laugh x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not surprised at all.
Some men are still a little homophobic about it and think that bisexuals can't turn it off, and won't be able to stop themselves touching them or their willies.
These are the same people who half-jokingly warn other men to keep their backs close to the wall if a gay man comes into the room, as if every gay man in existence is constantly on the look out for non-consensual anal penetration with fat, aged, homophobic knuckle draggers.
Hahahha. This made me laugh x"
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"if changing it to bicurious has reduced the messages you receive id say its probably a good thing. less people messaging in total, but a higher proportion of them will be right for you if you are being honest"
An excellent answer,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No one should care really, as you either like someone or not!
Blinking labels  
Completely agree.
Insert standard statement about sexuality being a spectrum and not a row of neat boxes, here  "
What sort of spectrum? The one with the rubber keys? |
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"I can highly recommend this couple and believe me, he's certainly willing and definitely able to play straight!
Much to your disappointment
Xx
Ah, no....I watched him have sex with Mrs Jaybird and he was very good, I'm sure they won't mind me saying that. "
while you're full of praise it seems you expected him to not to be able to
satisfy Mrs Jaybird because of his status and seemed surprised he did |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have "soft swing " on our profile and that's the type of couples we want to meet . At the end of the day it's "who"
You are looking for that counts .  |
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