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Fellas… would it put you off meeting a woman after she’s already had sex?
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By *aytie0 OP Woman
over a year ago
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I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet. |
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"In this context I mean before showering or brushing teeth, just literally straight after one has finished heading to meet you "
Like meeting someone in a club potentially.
I will add, I’ve never been to a club. |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet."
If it was you I would 100% |
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I personally wouldn’t be keen, that said, I’ve probably played with women after they’ve had plays. I’d rather not know and enjoy the person in the moment rather that have any knowledge of what they just had. |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet."
On the contrary, I would LOVE it!
but then, its one of my kinks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr pink has just said what I was thinking! There is a kink for probably everything. And I imagine a swing site will have a fair few Liberal minded guys who enjoy pushing those types of boundaries! Gawd bless fab x |
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"There are guys that enjoy sloppy seconds and they will not comment on this thread for fear being judged. "
A large number of guys just adore sloppy seconds and not being the first actually is more exciting. I'm a big enough boy to admit I enjoy this approach and it would seem I'm not alone in these thoughts.
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TBF I go to clubs and a couple or woman I would like to play with may already have fucked or I might get invited into a group room.
So, not really.
May well offer them the chance to freshen up, but this is a swinging site after all. |
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"Is it any different when you have a MMF/MFM. You don't stop and have a shower halfway through. "
Yes, it is different, because if I was having a MFM I wouldn't be going down on the woman after the other guys cock has been inside her, not even kiss her if she's sucked him off.
So for a 1-on-1 meet, if I was aware she'd been with someone immediately prior to me, I'd require her to have showered and used mouthwash.
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"If there's no showering or hygeine in between, would put me off. But the actual fact of the previous meet wouldn't be an issue."
Do you go to clubs or private parties? I bet the women in those places don't shower between play partners. |
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"If the previous guy had cum inside her that would be a definite bonus; would love to start a meet by going down on a woman who’s been freshly filled by another guy 
Join the soiled gang "
Yes, a gang would be even better  |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet."
I'd be fine with it, always fancied a sloppy seconds anyway |
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"If the previous guy had cum inside her that would be a definite bonus; would love to start a meet by going down on a woman who’s been freshly filled by another guy
Join the soiled gang
Yes, a gang would be even better "
Lots of soiling ?? |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet."
I can't see a problem with it . |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet."
No, in fact just the exact opposite, the alpha male in me would want to meet you even more so x |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet.
No, in fact just the exact opposite, the alpha male in me would want to meet you even more so x"
What's the Alpha males name   |
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"If there's no showering or hygeine in between, would put me off. But the actual fact of the previous meet wouldn't be an issue.
Do you go to clubs or private parties? I bet the women in those places don't shower between play partners. "
I know a lady who showers between every play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A fwb of mine came around last weekend with cum in her pussy, I was slightly taken aback but got round the issue with some bum fun….I did decline the option to go down on her though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting answers...
Normally I would have said no. But then thinking about it, at a mfm meet the husband had just cum in his wife before I entered her and it was quite a turn on... |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet.
No, in fact just the exact opposite, the alpha male in me would want to meet you even more so x
What's the Alpha males name "
A literal lol 
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Some get off on the, and excuse the phrase, but 'sloppy seconds'. I couldn't think of a nicer way to put that.
I see no issue with people indulging in what gets them off so more power to them if everyone's happy |
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"If the previous guy had cum inside her that would be a definite bonus; would love to start a meet by going down on a woman who’s been freshly filled by another guy
Join the soiled gang
Yes, a gang would be even better
Lots of soiling ??"
I mean, probably not the word I’d choose… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In this context I mean before showering or brushing teeth, just literally straight after one has finished heading to meet you "
I'd want them to have a shower if I was going down in them... Other than that I'd be wearing a condom anyway so would possibly do it |
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OP - I’d love to do you knowing you’d just been fucked rotten by another guy - even better that you were also on the way to be fucked by yet a third guy after letting me have my way with you!
I’ve never been in this wonderful situation, sadly and can’t decide whether I’d prefer you clean or as you arrive! Both are very sexy and neither would mar my horniness for you! Probably in reality I’d be more focussed on not letting you down and doing my very best to give you a better experience than the other guys!!
I do love to lick pussy and I might be a but freaked out about licking another guy’s spunk out of your pussy, but certainly I’d want to see his cum in your pussy and leave mine in there too! Similarly I love kissing so can’t quite tell how I’d feel about snogging you with his cum still in your mouth. In principal, it’s an extremely exciting scenario. In practice, I might want you to use mouthwash first! I just can’t decide for sure! |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet."
Would love it if you didn't freshen up at all. Don't shower or clean teeth. Don't re-apply makeup or perfume.
The smell and taste of the other guy on your skin, mixed with your sweat and juices would be intoxicating. |
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Not only do I not mind I actually prefer to be with a woman when I know another guy has been inside her. That's why a I've set this profile up with a friend. She loves sex and knows I get turned on when she's been with other guys. |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet.
Would love it if you didn't freshen up at all. Don't shower or clean teeth. Don't re-apply makeup or perfume.
The smell and taste of the other guy on your skin, mixed with your sweat and juices would be intoxicating."
I'm the same. Used and unfresh drives me wild. Kissing a woman with cock breath gets me going too  |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet."
Yes it would totally put me off |
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By *bwstarzWoman
over a year ago
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I’ve done it before in a previous life when I was doing private meets with randomers, not for any sexy reason, the first guy was literally a 2 minute wonder and I was extremely frustrated cause he was sorted and I wasn’t even halfway there. As I was leaving I got a message off a guy I knew who was a lot of fun and he invited me round with instructions to go straight there and he sorted me out. Perfect timing and not pre-planned. |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet."
Are you not satisfied with the first meet ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet."
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Different men, different desires. As a wannabe cuck, I love licking off a woman after she had sex with other men. I also know of men who would never do that or even have sex with a woman straight after she has it with other men. Then there are men who happily participate in gangbangs. |
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Agree with most above. Not really any different to having sex with a woman at a club just after she’s finished with someone else…wouldn’t bother me at all. I’m fact I would find it quite sexy/kinky. |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet."
Wouldn't really care, and would like to hear all about it too. |
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"There are guys that enjoy sloppy seconds and they will not comment on this thread for fear being judged. I one of them and not affraid to admit it"
I have no problem with sloppy seconds so when I play with a committed couple it's a nice bonus fucking a woman after her man has cum inside her. It's a very rare treat though. Even with a condom on the lubrication is amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can’t say it’s something we’d like. I can see why it might be a turn on for some but it’s not for us. We’d rather be the only ones you’re meeting that day.
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Hi there
You are tapping into something primal which is "hard-wired" into the human brain - well particularly us males.
You need to be "promiscuous" - in the good sense of you like sex - and that sex must comprise fucking more than one guy... That is the wiring in most  females. You have and every other woman have a lot of adaptations physically serving that reason-for-existence - so you feel it and do it.
Us males - we are in sperm-competition. So much so, we are physically adapted too. But what is hard-wired into the brain of us males is to make extra effort if the female has had sex with other males.
So you as a thinking being puzzling it out in a world of received opinions designed to give no hint of this reality - welcome, you've arrived.
Just as you can float through life in an exhilarated state if you are "promiscuous", many of us guys know it gets really great if we fire-up those circuits in the mind by having sex with a woman with other males' semen leaking out of her.
Which is why you get these in all ways nice guys who say - yes do come around to visit me immediately after you have just finished sex with another guy you have just met.
We have to do it too to feel good. Happy days. Best wishes |
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This is something that I love! There’s something very sexy about having sex with a woman who’s recently been fucked. If she’s still aroused and very wet that’s the best. I think it’s a primitive evolutional psychology sperm competition type thing… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only men on fab don't mind this. Don't get caught out thinking 'fab' men are the norm. Most men as you correctly initially thought would boak at that. This place is warped from the accepted norm, always bear in mind. |
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"Hi there
You are tapping into something primal which is "hard-wired" into the human brain - well particularly us males.
You need to be "promiscuous" - in the good sense of you like sex - and that sex must comprise fucking more than one guy... That is the wiring in most females. You have and every other woman have a lot of adaptations physically serving that reason-for-existence - so you feel it and do it.
Us males - we are in sperm-competition. So much so, we are physically adapted too. But what is hard-wired into the brain of us males is to make extra effort if the female has had sex with other males.
So you as a thinking being puzzling it out in a world of received opinions designed to give no hint of this reality - welcome, you've arrived.
Just as you can float through life in an exhilarated state if you are "promiscuous", many of us guys know it gets really great if we fire-up those circuits in the mind by having sex with a woman with other males' semen leaking out of her.
Which is why you get these in all ways nice guys who say - yes do come around to visit me immediately after you have just finished sex with another guy you have just met.
We have to do it too to feel good. Happy days. Best wishes"
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When we are at clubs and playing in group fun then yeah it’s hot when you are sharing another woman just after she has been fucked, it’s hot seeing your partner get fucked just after you have fucked her and see her face knowing how sensitive her pussy is and how much she is enjoying being a slut for you |
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"In this context I mean before showering or brushing teeth, just literally straight after one has finished heading to meet you "
I’d love it. May just be me but I think the idea of not showering and playing with next guy is horny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as I’m aware it wouldn’t put me off, infact, it would turn me on, alot.
I wouldn’t want to be surprised, diving between your legs only to end up with someone else’s cum in my beard!
It’s a different kind of sex I think. It’s hot though! |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet."
So, Lolly and I often do this for the following reasons,
1) Reclaim sex lol
2) Turn ons, we get off telling each other whilst fucking what occurred in the previous session.
3) I (T.) Throughly enjoy fucking her used pussy after, knowing someone else has been there, you can tell (Scent, wetness etc)
4) The scenario, ie, bent over a swingers club - watching Lolly take one after the other OMG mmmmmm
Solo wise, hell yeah, for me it's a huge turn on taking turns on a woman if she's up for iit.It just adds to the naughtiness excitement xxx
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By *9funboyMan
over a year ago
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet."
I'm quite into cleanup , so yes it'd be fun for me. |
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I arranged an afternoon meet with a lady at her shop... I got there and she then told me she'd already had an MMMF earlier that day and her pussy was a wee bit sore...needless to say it was very puffy and a little red but we continued the fun...it never put me off... they had used condoms, I had the pleasure of leaving some soothing "cream" behind |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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On the basis that I like threesomes, gangbangs, dogging and group sex, it wouldn't bother me at all. There's no showering in any of that!
But safe sex is important, even if I'm not there at the start!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To the people that say it wouldn’t matter - do you put t consideration into who the previous man may have been ?
My health is very important, that’s why it would be a no from me. |
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"If there's no showering or hygeine in between, would put me off. But the actual fact of the previous meet wouldn't be an issue.
Do you go to clubs or private parties? I bet the women in those places don't shower between play partners. "
A lot do! |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet.
Are you not satisfied with the first meet ? "
Never heard of greedy girls? |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet."
I guess it depends on the woman and if i knew who she was meeting.
I suppose it may work into the cuck thing, fucking a woman thats already had a couple of guysbthat day.
I have had mutiple meets in one day and it was pretty amazing to be honest.
i suggest go for it sometime. |
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For me it depends on context. Generally wouldn't bother me and I enjoy group sex/parties where a lady might have had sex with several men that night before me
However, few years back had a bad experience meeting privately. Had arranged a meet maybe a week in advance. On the day she tells me she is meeting two guys in the morning but will be with me at the set time. Then she turns up basically exhausted, slightly dischevelled and pretty much goes through the motions with no effort. She apologised later saying she was just so tired from meeting the guys before. I would be wary in the future if anything similar. |
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That's a tricky one.
In theory it's no different to playing in a club with someone who has already played, but in that context there's a reason for it.
If we were arranging a meet there would be no need as a shower isn't exactly time consuming.
It probably would put us off as we would ask why if the person can freshen up why they wouldn't |
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"I’m curious, a lot of guys have said to me to come to there’s after I’ve finished with a meet and when I tell them I’m meeting another man first, they don’t seem to mind? I thought they would… but it doesn’t seem to put them off the idea of me coming to meet them straight after I’ve had a meet."
I'd Love to Lick your Pussy after you've had a meet then fill you again... |
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EACH TO THEIR OWN…. However…
In my (not so) humble opinion it’s a hard No. cleanliness is next to Godliness.
That being said I expect to get down and dirty and never find you dirty beforehand. Instant dismissal. But that’s just me  |
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By *69meMan
over a year ago
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I'd love a woman to come round after a meet!
One thing I love to do is to clean up full fucked pussies. I wouldn't even mind if nothing happened to myself in return (although I'd be more than happy to replace what was there with my own).
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