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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Over the recent months I have come across many people on here who’s partners are not aware that they are on here, I have nothing against it it’s their decisions, just wanted to find out if others find this hot ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is something hot I have found about giving something to a woman she’s fantasied about obsessively enough to take these levels of risk. But if there’s kids in that relationship then it’s a hard no. F*ck that. |
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If I’m honest I don’t see that as swinging. They aren’t swingers they are just cheats
Fab , so it seems is so well known now it’s simply an extension to Tinder etc which is as we know used a lot for cheating
You will never stop it , there’s a huge single market for real single swingers but there’s definitely a lot of people use this to cheat on partners
Social media is fantastic but I do think it’s an aid for people that can’t be faithful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cheating isn't swinging they are 2 completely different things.
One is built on trust, love, respect, sexual empowerment and a mutal desire to enjoy sexual adventures openly and with total support.
The other is about lies, hurt and causes untold damage to the victims mental health. Don't get me started on the damage done to the children often stuck at the epi centre of the inevitable fall out left to pick up the pieces.
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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Cheating isn't swinging they are 2 completely different things.
One is built on trust, love, respect, sexual empowerment and a mutal desire to enjoy sexual adventures openly and with total support.
The other is about lies, hurt and causes untold damage to the victims mental health. Don't get me started on the damage done to the children often stuck at the epi centre of the inevitable fall out left to pick up the pieces.
KJ"
Agreed though there's lots of nuances. I know I've played with people in open relationships, some on breaks, others divorcing or living separately. Of those I had an idea of, sex wasn't a way to split their relationship or 'get back' at their partner, just a basic need. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"See I'm going against the grain here and I actually like a wife/partner who's being naughty , yes morally it's wrong but adds to excitement "
It's hardly naughty, most people would be wrecked if you found a partner casually shagging people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See I'm going against the grain here and I actually like a wife/partner who's being naughty , yes morally it's wrong but adds to excitement
It's hardly naughty, most people would be wrecked if you found a partner casually shagging people."
Totally agree imagine them finding out and the devastation you have been part of…. |
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Some people do find it hot. Someone described feeling good that they'd chosen them above their partner. I thought that was a little deluded since they hadn't, they were just using them for sex then going home to their partner. |
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"See I'm going against the grain here and I actually like a wife/partner who's being naughty , yes morally it's wrong but adds to excitement
It's hardly naughty, most people would be wrecked if you found a partner casually shagging people."
The idea that something potentially life ruining is simply "a bit of naughty fun" is why I already had 99% of people on this thread blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dishonesty is more often weak than hot.
Admittedly, I'd be happy if Mrs wanted to sneak a meet to be caught out, but not to effectively laugh in my face in secret.
Yes I'm aware there are exceptions to every rule, I'm answering the question as asked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's cheating and breaks people's hearts. The other partner must feel so low and be left with low self-confidence. Wondering what they have done wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hot" OP, in what way??
Most of the guys that contact us are cheating on their OH, easy to tell most of the time
I would not want my wife here and me not knowing and no sensible person in a sound union would want that ie someone doing something like this behind their backs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over the recent months I have come across many people on here who’s partners are not aware that they are on here, I have nothing against it it’s their decisions, just wanted to find out if others find this hot ? "
I don't feel comfortable being intimate with someone who is capable of such deceit
If it's an open relationship and both partners are on here then it's different but people cheating on their partners without the other one being aware is a hard no for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the recent months I have come across many people on here who’s partners are not aware that they are on here, I have nothing against it it’s their decisions, just wanted to find out if others find this hot ?
I don't feel comfortable being intimate with someone who is capable of such deceit
If it's an open relationship and both partners are on here then it's different but people cheating on their partners without the other one being aware is a hard no for me"
Toally agree and this is why we never meet anyone like that we are aware of IRL or even phone chat.
You can only face value what others say but often those claiming to be single and cant accommodate is a warning sign for us unless they say they are leaving with mummy etc
I would not like to be decived and no sane person in their right mind wants to be decived and we are playing no part in it to the best of our awarness. |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
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Absolutely not. Consensual non-monogamy in a couple is one thing but actively hiding it is a totally different situation.
We have kindly turned down profiles which, while messaging, elude to the fact that their partner isn't aware. We wouldn't want to be part of something which could be very damaging and traumatic for the unknowing person.
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