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"Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same?  "
Never been in a relationships while swinging, but the thought of it is very inviting to me. Certainly something I can't wait to find out if it's as good in reality |
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"Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same? "
We use both. Reclaiming and also keeping the other in the moment of when they were shared/used(not a bad used, more like they submitted to someone else's pleasure). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The one time ive done this with my present partner i found it intence. We went to a club and i let her play on her own. Back at our hotel i reclaimed her and it was such intence sex. I hope to do this again one day. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"The one time ive done this with my present partner i found it intence. We went to a club and i let her play on her own. Back at our hotel i reclaimed her and it was such intence sex. I hope to do this again one day."
Why don’t you mention on your profile that you have a partner? |
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"Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same? "
We always reclaim once we get home or the playmates have gone, something special about making love after playing with others.
Our sex is amazing before, with others and incredible after  |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same?
We always reclaim once we get home or the playmates have gone, something special about making love after playing with others.
Our sex is amazing before, with others and incredible after "
May I ask what happens during the reclaiming process? It’s new to me so I’m interested to learn about it. |
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From male halves point of view, the smell of sex on Louise and slipping my cock inside and feeling that she's been well fucked, while she tells me all about it, is just amazing. Especially if she goes on top and get her tits in my face after she's been giving him a titwank. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"From male halves point of view, the smell of sex on Louise and slipping my cock inside and feeling that she's been well fucked, while she tells me all about it, is just amazing. Especially if she goes on top and get her tits in my face after she's been giving him a titwank. "
So is reclaiming sex when you’re having sex with your partner but you can smell and feel that your partner has very recently had sex with someone else and talking about having sex with someone else whilst having sex with each other? |
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"From male halves point of view, the smell of sex on Louise and slipping my cock inside and feeling that she's been well fucked, while she tells me all about it, is just amazing. Especially if she goes on top and get her tits in my face after she's been giving him a titwank.
So is reclaiming sex when you’re having sex with your partner but you can smell and feel that your partner has very recently had sex with someone
else and talking about having sex with someone else whilst having sex with each other?"
It is that but it is also about reconnecting as a couple after one or both have played. Cementing you’re bond that even though you have just had sex with someone else you still love your partner etc. |
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I was always at a bit of a disadvantage because for me the hotest sex was fucking another mans wife but finding a couple that's a good fit has always been challenging.
Now I've discovered that sex with a play partner after she's been fucked by others is just as hot. So now I'd only consider dating a woman if I'm sure she needs extra cock in her life. It's all very exciting mmmmm |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Yes it’s amazing as she’s so excited that she’s been well satisfied then comes home to me "
Does she still want to have sex with you when she gets home if she’s already been well satisfied? |
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"Yes it’s amazing as she’s so excited that she’s been well satisfied then comes home to me
Does she still want to have sex with you when she gets home if she’s already been well satisfied?"
I can definitely imagine this being an issue |
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Absolutely love reclaim sex, used to do this often with my ex and very horny. Yes I’d agree that it’s basically where your partner has fucked someone else alone, then comes back to you and you fuck them. In my case she would be very wet and turned on already, and with her regular bf full of his cum too! She’d also tell me all the things they’d done to her whilst we were fucking… |
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By *ockforplay66Man
over a year ago
Southampton/isle of wight/ everywhere |
My ex and I always had our most intense sex when it was reclaiming her after a fuck. Most of the time, she played bareback with her extras, so the sloppy seconds was a big part of it, but it was more than that. We also had a rule that only I was allowed to fuck her arse. Yet on a couple of occasions, she deliberately broke that rule as she loved the intensity of me reclaiming her arse when she told me |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"My ex and I always had our most intense sex when it was reclaiming her after a fuck. Most of the time, she played bareback with her extras, so the sloppy seconds was a big part of it, but it was more than that. We also had a rule that only I was allowed to fuck her arse. Yet on a couple of occasions, she deliberately broke that rule as she loved the intensity of me reclaiming her arse when she told me"
Why did you make the rule that only you can fuck her arse if she loved you reclaiming her arse so much?
Weren’t you annoyed or disappointed when she deliberately broke a rule you’d agreed on together? I’d have thought that when your partner meets other men agreeing on a set of rules and trusting her to follow them is important |
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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago
Romford |
When we first heard about reclaim sex we couldn’t wait to experience it BUT it’s not the sex directly after the event that is a biggy for us, for us it’s us it’s reconnecting our relationship and for me taking her back every day for weeks on end, we’re more passionate and the sexual vibes are extremely high |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"When we first heard about reclaim sex we couldn’t wait to experience it BUT it’s not the sex directly after the event that is a biggy for us, for us it’s us it’s reconnecting our relationship and for me taking her back every day for weeks on end, we’re more passionate and the sexual vibes are extremely high "
So you can reclaim more than once as well? |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Reclaiming isn’t a one off thing it’s continuous as you relive them naughty days for ages"
How long after your partner having sex with someone else can you keep reclaiming for then? When does it run out? |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
'Some' of our best sex.. The flash backs, reconnection and passion is fantastic! May be mentally a case of being reminded of what you have.. But either way it's possibly one of the best parts of swinging!?  |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Last night whilst having a cuddle in bed we relived something Rane did in February and that led me to taking her back yet again !"
So even if your partner thinks about having sex with someone else she needs to be reclaimed afterwards? |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
"I feel like I'm missing out, never had reclaim sex.
Mrs "
To clarify, we don't play solo.. Consider 'reclaim' as when we're alone after any play with others, be that a meet or club..
So you probably have. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I feel like I'm missing out, never had reclaim sex.
Mrs
To clarify, we don't play solo.. Consider 'reclaim' as when we're alone after any play with others, be that a meet or club..
So you probably have. "
Can you reclaim without knowing you’re reclaiming them? Like an inadvertent reclaiming. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"NickD80, we don’t think about having sex with someone else we relive past moments and reflect on them passionately together"
So you relive having sex with someone else every time you have sex with your partner? |
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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago
Hertfordshire |
"From male halves point of view, the smell of sex on Louise and slipping my cock inside and feeling that she's been well fucked, while she tells me all about it, is just amazing. Especially if she goes on top and get her tits in my face after she's been giving him a titwank. "
Smell of sex on other partner and watching them being pleasured makes “reclaim”’sex even more intense x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is that but it is also about reconnecting as a couple after one or both have played. Cementing you’re bond that even though you have just had sex with someone else you still love your partner etc. "
Eloquently put sir!
Yep it was this for us in my previous relationship. |
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"Hiya we love reclaiming sex once we have met other people. Is everyone else the same?
We always reclaim once we get home or the playmates have gone, something special about making love after playing with others.
Our sex is amazing before, with others and incredible after
May I ask what happens during the reclaiming process? It’s new to me so I’m interested to learn about it. "
It's about us reconnecting. We only play together so obviously watch what happens, during reclaiming we talk, remember what's happened and then we fully devote love making to eachother. |
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Ugh reclaim sex is so intense!
I was always very satisfied with our sexlife prior to us swinging, I thought it was just opening up a little to enjoy new experiences.
But wow, noone tells you and you're not prepared for sex with your partner to suddenly be even better than before |
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We have traditionally enjoyed reclaim sex but it has actually fallen a little out of fashion for us in recent years. This we think is for two main reasons:
1: Our meets are so long that by the time we get home from them its usually 3-4AM and we're absolutely wiped out
2: As we have become more couples focused in our meets (by necessity rather than design, we just don't seem to garner much interest from single females these days) and our comfort in those meets has increased its become less of a "wife swap" and more of a "playing with both flexibly" scenario. And if I've been fucking L in the play room, I've already reclaimed in that moment and going again when we get home doesn't have the same effect. |
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As a Stag/Vixen couple, M is always last in. Which is our claim back. At a club the other day, the guys had had all day, M went last, claimed me. Then a guy wanted to go next. Nope- rule is, last in, play stops. |
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By *ockforplay66Man
over a year ago
Southampton/isle of wight/ everywhere |
"My ex and I always had our most intense sex when it was reclaiming her after a fuck. Most of the time, she played bareback with her extras, so the sloppy seconds was a big part of it, but it was more than that. We also had a rule that only I was allowed to fuck her arse. Yet on a couple of occasions, she deliberately broke that rule as she loved the intensity of me reclaiming her arse when she told me
Why did you make the rule that only you can fuck her arse if she loved you reclaiming her arse so much?
Weren’t you annoyed or disappointed when she deliberately broke a rule you’d agreed on together? I’d have thought that when your partner meets other men agreeing on a set of rules and trusting her to follow them is important "
We set the rule together about her arse very early in our swinging life, and for most of it, she stuck to the rule. It was towards the end of the relationship that she broke the rule, partly because she knew what effect it would have on the intensity of the reclaim sex. But sadly, it was also a big part of the reason why she is now (and has been for 20 years) my ex. |
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