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over a year ago
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I like to think I’m a swinger. I meet people, I connect through socials and my local scene. I’ve also played with single men, single ladies and couples. I don’t meet everyone who messages me, especially abusive messages that say:
“You’re on the wrong site”
“It’s a fuck site not dating”
“Don’t you realise it’s a porn site you stuck up cow”
All of the above after a polite “no thank you”. Yes I reply to all if I can.
So curious to know, what kind of site do you see fab as? |
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I see it as a place/outlet for me to be the person you see in the pics.
I see it as a place to connect with people who I share common interests with (predominantly focusing on sexual interests)
I see it as a place to hopefully meet people, make connections and friends.
Lastly I see it as a place to meet people I would like to bone, though this does prove difficult at times  |
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We've started to mentally separate the site into 'Swingers' and 'Shaggers'.
For us, Swingers are people, probably like you, who have friends they can be liberal with. Shaggers, which seem to make up most of the site, are people who have less interest in the person they are meeting, and more interest in their assets.
This is a very simplified manner of separation, which isn't fully how we view the site, but it's a good way to explain it. |
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"We've started to mentally separate the site into 'Swingers' and 'Shaggers'.
For us, Swingers are people, probably like you, who have friends they can be liberal with. Shaggers, which seem to make up most of the site, are people who have less interest in the person they are meeting, and more interest in their assets.
This is a very simplified manner of separation, which isn't fully how we view the site, but it's a good way to explain it. "
I 100% agree with this! There are the ones who are the “meet me now” types no matter who you are, you’re a hole goal. Then there are those you may have sex with but you keep the connections wether physical is repeated or not  |
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It's whatever you want to use it for to suit you best.
It's changed alot over the year's and especially since Covid. Year's ago it didn't have the " fab to fuck me " or the O F element. But each to their own. As long as you you are happy and are meeting the people that bring fun and excitement into your life that's how it should work. People will troll and be abuse about your profile, it comes with the territory.Block them and forget them. |
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"It's whatever you want to use it for to suit you best.
It's changed alot over the year's and especially since Covid. Year's ago it didn't have the " fab to fuck me " or the O F element. But each to their own. As long as you you are happy and are meeting the people that bring fun and excitement into your life that's how it should work. People will troll and be abuse about your profile, it comes with the territory.Block them and forget them. "
Thank you and you’re right. It’s what you want it to be. Just have to be harder skinned to those who take offence at me not suiting their narrative  |
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"We've started to mentally separate the site into 'Swingers' and 'Shaggers'.
For us, Swingers are people, probably like you, who have friends they can be liberal with. Shaggers, which seem to make up most of the site, are people who have less interest in the person they are meeting, and more interest in their assets.
This is a very simplified manner of separation, which isn't fully how we view the site, but it's a good way to explain it.
I 100% agree with this! There are the ones who are the “meet me now” types no matter who you are, you’re a hole goal. Then there are those you may have sex with but you keep the connections wether physical is repeated or not "
Most certainly! The people who we have enjoyed time with the most, are those we've built a friendship with. Usually after meeting several times. |
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"We've started to mentally separate the site into 'Swingers' and 'Shaggers'.
For us, Swingers are people, probably like you, who have friends they can be liberal with. Shaggers, which seem to make up most of the site, are people who have less interest in the person they are meeting, and more interest in their assets.
This is a very simplified manner of separation, which isn't fully how we view the site, but it's a good way to explain it.
I 100% agree with this! There are the ones who are the “meet me now” types no matter who you are, you’re a hole goal. Then there are those you may have sex with but you keep the connections wether physical is repeated or not
Most certainly! The people who we have enjoyed time with the most, are those we've built a friendship with. Usually after meeting several times. "
That’s my way of seeing fab for sure |
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That’s my way of seeing fab for sure "
It's an unusual concept eh?
During our first ever arranged group social, we were told 'swinging' wasn't for us, because we wanted to get to know people before anything else happens. |
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Back in the old days when I was in high school, FAB was friends against bullying. Like mentors/helper students in the upper years looking out for the younger ones who got picked on. They were generally the popular kids too.
Oh you mean here...  |
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