"There's usually lots posted in the meets and requests section, we get invites via inbox for a few but we've not attended any of the private ones I'm not sure there my thing.
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What makes you say that ?
Do you have friends that are in the swinging lifestyle ? |
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Clubs, private parties, sometimes invites but we never accept those. Prefer those that have 5* reviews than some random party at Karen’s house in the arse end Croydon (no offence to anyone that lives in Croydon  ) |
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We’ve found great parties in the meets section which has then led to repeat private invites when the hosts have had more and created a nice few pockets of friendship’s because of it.
As much as we love clubs, can’t beat a decent house party! |
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"Where do you find yours ?
Do you just attend the ones in clubs ?
Or do you have a social group where you all attend each others houses ?
Hope to get answers from everyone of all ages  "
We like the atmosphere of a club
Breaks the ice and no pressure
We have never really liked house parties |
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"Where do you find yours ?
Do you just attend the ones in clubs ?
Or do you have a social group where you all attend each others houses ?
Hope to get answers from everyone of all ages
We like the atmosphere of a club
Breaks the ice and no pressure
We have never really liked house parties "
Is there any reason you didn’t like the house parties ? |
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"if you do get an invite to a party, or a club, you need to talk to people and join in with conversations. "
There was no reference in the original thread about conversations in clubs
I manage just fine though |
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"Where do you find yours ?
Do you just attend the ones in clubs ?
Or do you have a social group where you all attend each others houses ?
Hope to get answers from everyone of all ages
We like the atmosphere of a club
Breaks the ice and no pressure
We have never really liked house parties
Is there any reason you didn’t like the house parties ? "
The main reason is house parties generally always are about play
Because there is normally just a small amount of people going it’s very awkward if you just don’t feel it with anyone there. And house parties tend to be a bit of a free for all ( only my experience over a 10 year period) but yet to see different
A club gives the freedom to still have a great night just socially , have a dance , chat etc as generally busier
Everyone plays differently. Some people love it some don’t |
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I have been to a few house parties, most through invites in my inbox or being invited by a friend who was going. My problem with house parties is that I am not a "social butterfly", much prefer to watch and listen than actively start conversations. Also, I hardly ever drink alcohol, I particularly stay sober when at a swingers party or club as I prefer to be in full control. A lot of parties start with alcohol flowing quite freely, as a way of "relaxing" people. Another thing- as someone already said, house parties are all about play. What if there is nobody there I want to play with? Or there is someone there I specifically don't feel comfortable playing with, yet the expectation of that particular party is that "everybody plays with everybody". I actually did fake a bad headache at one of the parties, after 2 guys tried having sex with me without protection and the one I did not want any sexual contact with would not take "no" for an answer.
I am sticking to the clubs, as at least there you can always hide in a private room and still enjoy your experience. |
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"I have been to a few house parties, most through invites in my inbox or being invited by a friend who was going. My problem with house parties is that I am not a "social butterfly", much prefer to watch and listen than actively start conversations. Also, I hardly ever drink alcohol, I particularly stay sober when at a swingers party or club as I prefer to be in full control. A lot of parties start with alcohol flowing quite freely, as a way of "relaxing" people. Another thing- as someone already said, house parties are all about play. What if there is nobody there I want to play with? Or there is someone there I specifically don't feel comfortable playing with, yet the expectation of that particular party is that "everybody plays with everybody". I actually did fake a bad headache at one of the parties, after 2 guys tried having sex with me without protection and the one I did not want any sexual contact with would not take "no" for an answer.
I am sticking to the clubs, as at least there you can always hide in a private room and still enjoy your experience. "
Very sorry to hear this. My experience is people much nicer at private parties. That is probably because we already know most of people there and selective on newbies invited. Any rare bad behaviour soon known and they never attend again. At parties we go to there is never any pressure put on people to have sex. We are of course there for the sex but if does not happen that’s just life. We always respect and talk about what like or not. Treat others as you expect to be treated |
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"Clubs, private parties, sometimes invites but we never accept those. Prefer those that have 5* reviews than some random party at Karen’s house in the arse end Croydon (no offence to anyone that lives in Croydon )
What about Karen …. If she’s offended you mentioned her ?    "
She will most likely not be happy  |
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"I never been on private naughty party...
I have no idea how to be invited "
It’s hard if not got partner and don’t know any swingers. One of wives we know who hosts invites extra guys sometimes. She is very selective though |
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Been to quite alot of private parties normaly invited by a couple, my experience has always been great, never seen anyone been preaured into anything and normally so much fun and not just the sex. |
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