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We had some fun last week for the first time since last August, so a 10 month gap. We've had a few club visits inbetween but just played with each other. Hopefully it won't be so long until next time! |
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Prw Covid, we’d probably go to a Club every other month. Often we’d play on our own (which was fun), sometimes we’d play with others (which was also fun). We haven’t managed to get back since Covid as 3 of our fav Clubs are to more and we have moved to Cardiff where Clubs are less available.
We aim to get out again towards the end of the summer, once we decide which Club to start back with.
As others have said, it isn’t all about clusterfucks at Clubs, it is social, erotic, kinky and potentially everything you want - so long as you’re in the mood and meet people you fancy  |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
Back when I was in London and SE England it was like once a week with regular, and new meets maybe every other month?
Belfast is a different beast. When I first arrived, I met 3 people in one month, one became a regular, then had a GF for some time, we had 3 threesomes with an additional woman, they were each a month apart, now I split with her and on my own I play like once a month with ONSs. Hm. Wouldn't mind a regular again tho  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We started out 3 years ago and were completely new to everything . Ended up meeting a regular older guy and met up 2 or 3 times a week for over a year 
We have always had sex 4 or 5 times a week since we met and just thought it was normal to play with this guy as many times as we did .
Wasn’t healthy to be honest we have learned a lot since .
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No, I’ve been single since 2000 and the last time I had sex was at my last meet off her almost 10 years ago
"My last meet was New Year’s Eve 2013 so at the moment I’m standing at at once a decade
That's very long. Do you at least play outside of fabs?"
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Probably average once every month or two, but often doesn't work out like that, can be 2/3 times in a week or two and then nothing for a couple of months.
We have to work around alot of real-life stuff that limits our chances, which is why it's extra frustrating when those windows go to waste! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rarely but it's not like I don't try. I just can't find someone I like who genuinely will meet me  "
The main issue - I find lots who I like but its finding that reciprocated  |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
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"Rarely but it's not like I don't try. I just can't find someone I like who genuinely will meet me "
Maybe you need to stop waiting for the perfect first message and give nice looking profiles a chance. Not everyone writes a perfect first message, but with a little bit of dialogue, might get somewhere.
If the pics fit, you should see what comes out of a few back and forths in chat. "getting to know someone" often means "if you don't sweep me off my feet with your first message I won't even give it a chance".
First messages aren't that important really, I mean, do you even remember the first thing you said to any of your friends or lovers? It's just a "hi, I am here and want to get things going".
So if your current method doesn't work, you should try that one.
This definitely helped another woman here from fabs recently to find a good match. First message literally was just "hi how are you" and now she's very happy with him. (they're back in SE England, so I don't play with her any more anyway) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do you meet? I used to meet once or twice a month but really struggling in last few months"
We have only been in the scene for just over a year and still consider ourselves newbies...if we had a meet a couple of times a year that would suit us. However if we got to know Fab Friends we would probably meet more often
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"Rarely but it's not like I don't try. I just can't find someone I like who genuinely will meet me "
Thats gutting, I get there has to be attraction both ways, but if your struggling to find that one that's also genuine, I feel for you. |
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