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Meet with no pics

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hey, I'm new to this site only been on about a month, I've been chatting to someone for a few weeks and we've got on really well,

She says she can't upload any pics but wants to meet,

Would anybody else go to the meet or do you think I'm just going to be let down?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could you suggest a video call?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What are your instincts telling you (switch off the horn for a mo and look at this objectively)?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldnt meet anyone with no pics or verfications.. sounds suspicious to start with, there are a lot of men posing as women and a lot of time wasters here too.. also what if you met and there was zero attraction or she had 3 heads or something...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

She has 4 verifications but they're hidden?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What are your instincts telling you (switch off the horn for a mo and look at this objectively)?"

It's more that I've chatted with them and we have got on so well, obviously the horn is there too, but I'm just nervous I'm being nieve even st my age

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Could you suggest a video call? "

Done that but she said she's married so can't.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Don't meet op .if she can't upload here she can send another way surely

Unless she's not what she's claiming to be....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't meet op .if she can't upload here she can send another way surely

Unless she's not what she's claiming to be...."

Yeh I think that's the majority verdict,

I'm probably just too eager for my first meet also haha

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

"Could you suggest a video call?

Done that but she said she's married so can't."

I call the old BS on this.

I am married, and if I’m interested enough, I’ll do a video call. And I have no issue sending photos…

I wouldn’t meet at all without seeing photos first, but it’s your call, OP. I’d suggest meeting in a public place to make it safe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This has more red flags than a Chinese flag factory.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Could you suggest a video call?

Done that but she said she's married so can't."

If she can't video call for that reason, how likely is it she'll actually meet in person?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Could you suggest a video call?

Done that but she said she's married so can't.

I call the old BS on this.

I am married, and if I’m interested enough, I’ll do a video call. And I have no issue sending photos…

I wouldn’t meet at all without seeing photos first, but it’s your call, OP. I’d suggest meeting in a public place to make it safe. "

Thanks, I don't think I'll meet now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely not. 'She' can meet but not upload a photo?

Not a chance I'd meet unseen, understand, someone could send a fake pic though. If planning to meet I'd always want a phone chat at least.

Hope you get your first meet soon

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

"Could you suggest a video call?

Done that but she said she's married so can't."

If you're meeting in a public place, then what's the worst that can happen?

Arrange to meet somewhere not too far from you, then if she doesn't turn up, you've wasted an hour. If she turns up and isn't what you expected from reading her profile, have a coffee and leave, you've still only wasted an hour.

If she does turn up and you enjoy your time together. Great!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman over a year ago

Wherever

I wouldn’t meet if I was you OP.

Your safety and standards are valid too. It’s only early days for you on Fab.

You come across considerate and sane, I’m sure you won’t be short of offers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey, I'm new to this site only been on about a month, I've been chatting to someone for a few weeks and we've got on really well,

She says she can't upload any pics but wants to meet,

Would anybody else go to the meet or do you think I'm just going to be let down? "

Never

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"This has more red flags than a Chinese flag factory. "

Laughed way to hard at this.

And OP, I’m sorry, but at best you are going to meet a dude. At worst an angry dude

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By *arberrys-EventsTV/TS over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

Well, I can see this from both angles.

I can understand that some people dont want their photo on here. Even faceless ones can be recognised.

It a dilemma when meeting people for the first time. Looks do come into it.

I think, you need to take a chance, and if someone with no photo, appeals to you, meet up and see.

Its naturally safer to meet for the first time at an organised event.

MaryC

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you everybody, I really appreciate all your advice,

I'm going to ask to meet in a coffee shop and see how it goes or doesn't lol

This is why I gave up dating lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This has more red flags than a Chinese flag factory.

Laughed way to hard at this.

And OP, I’m sorry, but at best you are going to meet a dude. At worst an angry dude "

The thing is if it is a dude I wouldn't have minded, just if they was honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Could you suggest a video call?

Done that but she said she's married so can't.

If you're meeting in a public place, then what's the worst that can happen?

Thanks, this is what I'm going to suggest, appreciate the advice.

If she does turn up and you enjoy your time together. Great!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thank you everybody, I really appreciate all your advice,

I'm going to ask to meet in a coffee shop and see how it goes or doesn't lol

This is why I gave up dating lmao "

You need to let us know, were invested now lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thank you everybody, I really appreciate all your advice,

I'm going to ask to meet in a coffee shop and see how it goes or doesn't lol

This is why I gave up dating lmao

You need to let us know, were invested now lol"

I will lol

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By *ustus555Couple over a year ago

"This has more red flags than a Chinese flag factory.

Laughed way to hard at this.

And OP, I’m sorry, but at best you are going to meet a dude. At worst an angry dude "

This. I'm laughing even more now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hehe I'll meet you OP.

And unlike the subject of this thread, I actually exist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thank you everybody, I really appreciate all your advice,

I'm going to ask to meet in a coffee shop and see how it goes or doesn't lol

This is why I gave up dating lmao "

Good luck, OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Chat with her on the phone.

I've met people without them ever seeing my face pic.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman over a year ago

North West

Depends if someone being physically attractive to you is important.

For me is a no brained- never. Because I wouldn’t have sex with someone I didn’t think was hot.

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't know if anyone will agree and I'm not saying you need to change your profile at all, but, my experience is the the less genuine profiles that are the timewasters see new profiles stating they are new to this and its like oooh fresh meat.

Caution isn't a bad thing on here for any person xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Meet is set for the 14th in a public place,

I really do appreciate everyone's advice, with being a complete newb on this site,

Wish me luck lol

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

and its a never from me,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't know if anyone will agree and I'm not saying you need to change your profile at all, but, my experience is the the less genuine profiles that are the timewasters see new profiles stating they are new to this and its like oooh fresh meat.

Caution isn't a bad thing on here for any person xx"

That's a fair point, I just wanted to be genuine and open as I haven't met anyone yet and I am new,

Also I'm still a little nervous so I wanted anyone who maybe interested to understand I could be a bit nervous on the first meet.

But yeh I what your saying.

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